I'm not in love with him and he's not in love with me, I don't know if he is in love with his girlfriend or not, but I like being with him. We started just play talking and then it became touching and sexual activities. We havn't had sex yet, but I really want to, but I'm starting to feel bad for his girlfriend. Should I just continue and forget her, should I stay just playing without sex, or should I stop all together. I really don't want to stop, it's too much fun, but I kinda feel bad sometimes.
2007-02-04 14:21:39 · 16 answers · asked by star579e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask yourself this question: "If you were in a relationship and your boyfriend is having this flirting and sexual "activities" with someone else..NOT YOU... how would that make you feel?...not that good huh!? I bet you would feel like the world is crashing on you, etc, etc. ..
So I would say to you to stop that if you don't want to hurt someone and who knows!...you could end up hurt too. "Don't do others what you wouldn't like others do to you" and "What goes around comes around"
2007-02-04 14:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why sell yourself short? Why would you want to be someone's number 2? If he didn't want his girlfriend,love or not. He would leave her. You are the perfect toy. He can have his normal life with her and still play his games with you. Ask yourself do you want a man in your life that can be so cruel? Do you want to be the type of woman you'd normally frown at or talk about with your friends. Even if he leaves his girlfriend for you he will always be the type of man to fool around. Plus it will be easier for him to do it to you because you were so willing to do it with him. There will never be trust between you two. You can have what you have with someone all your own. Men like him are not special they are all too common. Stop now and find someone that thinks more of you then that. To him you're just a toy and you're getting played.
2007-02-04 14:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by quel772o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in that same boat right now, although his girlfriend know's about us, but doesnt believe it. giiiirl just drop this guy, it will end up in a bunch of drama, it's fun while it last's but in the long run, it ends up bein trouble, and besides, would you like it if your boyfriend was doin what you and that other guy are doing?
2007-02-04 14:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by just_right_for_u33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information here. Your friends with him but he has a g/f but you are doing more than talking.....How long has he been with this g/f, he has to make the decision if he is going to be with you or her. You are telling yourself it is wrong, but you like how it feels. You have to listen to that little voice that says it is wrong. If he walks from his g/f then it is o.k.
2007-02-04 14:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by singlescanada@rogers.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should stop messing with her boyfriend. How would you like that being done to you? Trust me what goes around comes around just remember that.
2007-02-04 14:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just wrong. u should stop and find someone else think about if u were his gf would u want another girl messing around with ur man? think of how u would feel. its not fair to her.
2007-02-04 14:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by dream21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP! Your going to end up hurting someone, and it could be you! Cheating is BAD BAD BAD and nobody deserves to be hurt by that!
2007-02-04 14:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not in love with each other then why are you doing that you should stop and tell his girlfriend ....(thats really mean to his girlfriend what you are doing)
2007-02-04 14:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel bad especially knowing he has a gf.
2007-02-04 14:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by badmitton69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shame on you,he's a little puke
and he always will be.
all of us know girls like you.
the good thing is, you help us find better men
and you are stuck with little pukes forever.
how fun is that?
Thank-you
2007-02-04 14:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by to tell ya the truth........... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋