i call and call but he dusnt kall bak should i break upwit him or try to work it out and like just wait
2007-02-04 14:19:24 · 14 answers · asked by erin.tadder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he has already made the choice. I wouldn't wait around and I would stop calling him. Think about what kind of person he is to leave you wondering and not return your calls. Not too nice, right? It shows disrespect for you. Don't call him or email him again. A little time on your own might make you realize that it didn't work out. If he calls you, it would be wise to break it off for real.
2007-02-04 14:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stop sounding so desperate for his attention, he will call you when he is ready to talk to you. Give him a few days to breathe and bring up your concern in a muture way once he has called you and base your decision on his response. Maybe he just needed some time or perhaps he is busy but do not punish him for a little bit of neglect unless he insinuates that you are, indeed, annoying or simply getting on his nerves because you may need to move on at that point. I hope that helps.
2007-02-04 14:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by Leslee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, learn how to spell and punctuate your sentences properly.
Maybe he got tired of trying to figure out what you were trying to say!
If he hasn't called and has not returned your calls, you don't need a magic 8 ball to see that you have been DUMPED! and if he hasn't done it with words, his actions have certainly stated it loudly and clearly. If you take him back, then you get what you deserve, rest assured, he will do this again and again.
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He did this same thing to you 6 months ago, so you had posted back then. Are you a glutton for punishment or what? Girl develop a back bone and stand up for yourself! No one should be treated like that, no one! He isn't going to change, no matter what he says or what you do, dump him, find someone that wants to be with you, someone that calls you, someone that really cares.
2007-02-04 14:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has already broken it off. He is just being a jerk and being passive aggressive about it. The only reason why you would call him to break it off is so you can have the last word. Believe me, it is not worth it. Stop calling him. If he calls you let him know that it is unfortunate that he had to be immature about it and that he was not interested in continuing to be friends. He is an a&* and you can find someone alot better, who is emotionally mature.
2007-02-04 14:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always said the girls are more mature than boys, and I am a man. If there are problems that developed between your relationship, what ever reason, you gave enough time for to him contact you. But first you must assure his is ok! Once you know that he is alright, ask him of his intentions in this relationship?
If his answer(s) is vague and unclear, move on in your life. If his thoughts is to continue the love, be sure you understand his manner of the relationship. Don't submit to silliness, and stupidity, keep you feeling active and protective, and most of all drive the living God in to your heart.
Life is pros and cons, and sadly people don't know how to choose the pros for their life... good luck
God Bless
2007-02-04 15:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he is not worth Ur time… you should be the first thing on his mind and by the sounds of this your not…. He is just not that into you… you can try and talk to him but that will only work for like a month then it will be back to how it was…trust me I have been through this myself…. Yeh it hurts but u will get over it soon. Good luck!!!
2007-02-04 14:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I whent through a similar thing. It sucked! We would talk once and awhile but I hardly saw him. I really liked the guy so I waited for almost 2 months to realize that it just wasn't worth putting myself through that just for a guy! If he isn't respectful enough to return your call, forget about it! You deserve more!
2007-02-04 14:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on a lot more. Like maybe WHY he isn't getting back to you? Write down a pro's and con's list. Decide which side out weights the other. Best of everything with this!
2007-02-04 14:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by angelskisses75 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think maybe , he has already broken up with you.
Stop chasing him and give him some space.
2007-02-04 14:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by marnan97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to break up with him. He's already broken up with you. Move on.
2007-02-04 14:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋