Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

My ex is in prison for some things he did, not worth mentioning, and he is serving 13 years for it. I have never recieved any kind of child support from him at all, yes before he went to prison I applied for child support and he actually had a court order to go and get a job to pay me child support. Of course he didnt. Isnt there some way I can get my child support for my son?? Right now he's only obligated to pay me 51 dollars a month, so its not much anyways but its something. I dont see how he can get away with owing child support, not to mention he owes about 2 other girls child support besides me. I heard about getting child support from another source and him having to owe them also. They put guys in jail for owing child support but what does jail time do for us financially?? Its like they just get away with it, he could care less to be in prison, its a free ticket for him. Any advice? and please no smart remarks.

2007-02-03 02:10:08 · 19 answers · asked by dmtv08052003 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-03 02:09:17 · 1 answers · asked by Ismaeel M 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm pretty mad right now. i got sick this week cuz last week i spent a lot of time out w/ my boyfriend for his birthday. we stayed out all late since wednesday - friday because of various people (friends, then family, then private celebration that i planned, and paid for).

i had to call in sick two days, and i played w/ the idea of him coming over and bringing me groceries. but he Totally didn't want to, and i didn't want to force him to....and he started saying "if you Really want me to...." like 10 times!!! obviously i did... and i jokingly said "ok if u don't come, u have to go to the gym" and he Hates goin to the gym, and he was like "ok i'll go to the gym".

is that not messed up or What?? he works hard and is really busy, but then he's willing to get off work to go have dinner w/ his family in a snap.

2007-02-03 02:07:33 · 15 answers · asked by tarmee2006 4 in Singles & Dating

in my dream i was at home with my family my husband was in our room sleeping and then i saw three hands they where not with any body and they where pointing towards my husband and then they started to move towards him so i fallowed when they got closer to him they formed a choking position when i got close to him i woke him up before they where able to choke him they disapered when he woke up. i was the only one that was able to see the hands

2007-02-03 02:07:18 · 7 answers · asked by Osiris L 1 in Family

love

2007-02-03 02:07:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance has been with many women but he takes care of and wants to marry me and have children. I am very spiritual (Christian) sweet, loving, etc. but is there anything else ?

2007-02-03 02:07:05 · 8 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

Yeh, there is this girl that i know she likes me, and we barely talk to each other, so i acted like a jerk to turn her off so i don't break her heart later on, is that the right way to solve it?

2007-02-03 02:07:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone told me that this guy i like, likes me back. So i had a friend ask and see if it was true. he said he just liked me as a friend. But he sorta stares at me during class and he seems to enjoy talking to me. and he laughs at my corny jokes. he also compliments me a lot. Could he be trying to hide that he likes me? i might say that if i didnt want any1 to know i liked someone

2007-02-03 02:06:46 · 1 answers · asked by brunette babe 2 in Singles & Dating

she keeps using the fanny word and boasting to everyone how shapely hers is. She teased my family members about their big or saggy fannys. I know I should have told her that you shouldn't say that word in Ireland but it was funny at the time. None of my family speak to her and she doesn't know why. How can I tell her now?

2007-02-03 02:06:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how does a boy react to a girl if he meets her out and about with her and his m8s and likes her but doesnt want her to know?

2007-02-03 02:06:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My hubby and I met online. We talked for about a year before we met in person. When we met things were great and we married 11 months later. Now my SIL who was very supportive at the beginning has changed. She says she doesn't support our marriage and doesn't understand how people who met on the internet can go on to have a successful marriage. She stays at home with her 2 children all day while her hubby works hard. She claims she is "homeschooling" her children, but I think she is just too nosy and has too much time on her hands. I told her to stop doing this crap to us. She left us alone for a little while but now she wants to talk to us again. What should I do?

2007-02-03 02:04:35 · 10 answers · asked by MiMi 1 in Family

We had an "issue" with this girl and him about a year ago when they chattted on instant message and reminisced not only how they felt about each other in the past, but how beautiful he thought she looked last time he saw her. We had seen her at a club out in NY and that's the last time they saw each other. I didn't know until later that they had dated each other for a summer in high school, because he said he thought it would make me feel uncomfortable at that moment if I knew. They're relationship had always been very flirty in the past. He tells me they never talk, he just texts her every year to say happy birthday. And it just worries me...am I overreacting here?

2007-02-03 02:03:23 · 8 answers · asked by littleangle2407 1 in Singles & Dating

My huband and I have been going through some problems and arguing. Some hurtful things have been said from both sides. We sat down and talked about what has been going on. We both want for our marriage to workout for the rest of our lives. But, my husband is having a harder time than I in trying to forget all that has been said and done. He gets frusterated with me easily and is mad at me still. I asked him last night why is he being that way with me. He says that he just needs some time to get over what we have been going through. Then things will get back to how they used to be. What can I do, to help him get over being so angry with me. We both love each other, and are just getting through some things. We just want to be happy again. Should I just leave my husband to himself. Give him space so that way he can get over being so angry with me? Should I try and get him to do things with me? I dont know what to do. I have no one to talk to. Please, serious answers.

2007-02-03 02:02:36 · 20 answers · asked by What_if 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is black and in first year of medical school at Wayne State University and SUPER GREAT to me. Dad hates him for his race. My LAST boyfriend was white, worked in a factory, had been in legal trouble and had a child that he fathered in another city, and dad wasnt NEARLY as critical of HIM. Racism sux!!

2007-02-03 02:02:07 · 22 answers · asked by BTH L 2 in Family

I broke up with my ex a few months ago, and we really dont get along. Last night my so-called-friend Allana, came over and went on her aim account to IM my ex Andy, and this guy named Thomas who I used to be friends with. Allana said,"Jenna's not here, I swear, what do you think about her?" Then Andy typed,"This girl Shannon said she dresses really weird and shops at weird places which is why I don't like her anymore." 1st off, Andy told me when we were going out, he likes me cuz I dont care how I dress! And 2nd, I hung out with Shannon once, and she was a slut, I really didnt like her! Ok, so then we IM'ed Thomas who told Allana:" Yeah, you're cooler than Jenna, every1 knows that. Thats why we dont like her." Thomas and Andy used to be SO nice! And then Allana asked,"How come I'm not annoying and Jenna is?" Andy said,"Oh, I dont care if you're annoying, Jenna's a spaz." I bursted out in tears and Allana was saying,"I know I'm more cool." Im losing all my friends HELP!

2007-02-03 02:01:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

short poem smthin to let her know im thinkin of her

2007-02-03 02:01:33 · 7 answers · asked by LeonZe 2 in Singles & Dating

I fancy this bird but she has a boyfriend. I know I'm better than him in all departments and realise that if I did manage to break up their 5 year relationship - she'd ultimately be thankful.

Please help. I know you're on my side.

2007-02-03 02:01:25 · 29 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

What can i get a 17 year old boy for valentines day, and do not say sex cuz its not gonna happen any good ideas! that i can actually buy, please be for real i need help!

2007-02-03 02:00:41 · 6 answers · asked by Im that girl! 3 in Singles & Dating

situation here! advise please as im not happy. i can go back to my ex-husband if i want or stay where im at if i want. here, i deal with mommy & son. son not so bad. however, mommy tells everyone what to do & this is not mommys home. however i will always lose a no win battle here as blood is thicker than h2o. & they have lived together long enough to know how to push each others buttons.im not falling for it & im agitated./ on the hand if i go back with ex i wont deal with this!! my son& his dad at times can say things that are rude. stupid ect,ect--i have to temporarily make a choice for awhile. im hoping if i go home his dad wont tolerate his behavior. my son has not done this before. i think he is on drugs?? which will not be tolerated if this is the case.its a situation i need advise of mello words if possible. ive been with the son & mommy and ive grown tired of the mom. dont get me wrong i love her but there is no way she will ever change as i have tried to talk 2 both.he luvsme

2007-02-03 02:00:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Perhaps. I think this woman, is trying to get me hooked.
The sexy librarian is back. And she can't let me go. I asked
her out. She said NO, she had a boyfriend. Now she cannot
stop looking at me. She is staring at me right now !! When
I walk in the door, she says hello. When I leave she says
bye. And her eyes have been on me ever since, I asked
her on a date. She even did the hair toss thing this morning,
when I was coming in behind her. Wow, she is beautiful
indeed. But she is not interested in me, or is she. What do
you think ladies ? What is she trying to tell me ? Perceptive
minds are welcomed !! Best answer wins !!

2007-02-03 01:59:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 01:59:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 13 just started highscholl and i really like this girl should i ask her out or what?

2007-02-03 01:59:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently got dumped, because my girlfreind felt that i was distracting her from God. I know this is true and the only reason because i went out with her for two months and i know what an amazing sense of personal integrity she has. I'm not Christian, (sort of Athiest), and she felt like if she spent time with me then she wasn't truly putting God into every aspect of her life. She needs time to truly figure out her relationship with God, and we decided to talk about getting back together in a month or so. That time is coming soon. So, that all being said, how can i convince her to take me back? will she? do any christians have a veiwpoint they want to let me in on? I love this girl a lot

2007-02-03 01:58:50 · 7 answers · asked by im alright at life...? 1 in Singles & Dating

My mum wears and buys all this new sexy under wear 4 My dad...ok...... i found pictures of her wid this sexy underwear pics she took them her self with a remote shes got 4 her cam...but why take pics??? hu 4?? ma dad n her r together all the time???
is she cheating??

2007-02-03 01:58:25 · 3 answers · asked by lil_pwrincesss_kim 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just curious why stay together if you cheated? You not married? No kids, no tails to worry about if you both split and go different ways? Why stay in relationship if you have to go sniff someone else stuff? If you have to do all that or you get tempted to do your partner dirty why even stay with that person? Why waste someones time? Why people cant just do each other a favor and go different ways???

2007-02-03 01:57:14 · 8 answers · asked by BK thang 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

She Is just a nice friend I like, but nothing remotely improper in any way shape or form has ever happened between us. he is married and 30 years my junior.

2007-02-03 01:55:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible for a friend girl who treats you like an older brother fall in love with you?

2007-02-03 01:54:22 · 20 answers · asked by curious lover 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 01:50:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 01:48:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 01:48:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating