My fiance has been with many women but he takes care of and wants to marry me and have children. I am very spiritual (Christian) sweet, loving, etc. but is there anything else ?
2007-02-03 02:07:05 · 8 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing that can MAKE him change. He just reaches a point in his life when he is ready. Sometimes it sticks, sometimes not. He may revert back to his old ways in times of stress.
2007-02-03 02:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had something similar with my husband at first.
You have to make sure he understands how you feel about the other women. Of course being the Christian woman you are is probably one of the main reasons he wants to marry you and not the others. Never stop being who you are.
If you truly love him you'll need to be patient but again always remind him of how you feel. If he really loves you too then he will not want or need the other women.
Eventually somethings gotta give though and if he does not stop with the other women then your patience will run out and you'll get tired of it. You will, at that point, need to decide if you want to get out of the relationship or accept the other women issue.
Pray on it and allow God to guide you. God bless you and yours.
2007-02-03 10:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're an amazing woman, you can't do anything more then be yourself. I was like your fiance till I met a girl similar to you, we didn't end up getting married, but she made me change my ways for a good 2 years. Just be you, and if you're the right one for him, he'll change and settle down with you.
2007-02-03 10:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by Wsdm 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A player or any person only changes because they want to change. You will never have the power to change someone else. I would pay attention to any doubts I had concerning this man and proceed with extreme caution.
2007-02-03 10:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by pnut 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
men change when they decide to. when men are smart and realize that who they have is someone different... someone who you can havea future with and who treats them well... they change and become fully devoted to that one person. sometimes when guys give theirselves to someone they get hurt.. because they might not be the one.. i think thats the main reason they are players... but they do change when they realize that your special and different from others... and they know that they made the best choise, to be with you... i wish you the best of luck with your fiance.... just treat him the way you want to be treated and everything will go well..
2007-02-03 10:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one he actually falls in love with and fulfills him. Then he would settle down. It is not up to you it is up to him.
2007-02-03 10:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by jo_anna1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already have!congrats!!
2007-02-03 10:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by gene e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you mean has been with other women? or he is still seeing other women? you can be christian and NOT be stupid you know.
2007-02-03 10:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋