She Is just a nice friend I like, but nothing remotely improper in any way shape or form has ever happened between us. he is married and 30 years my junior.
2007-02-03 01:55:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As a women of 46, I know that I would feel the same way. We know we don't look like we did 30 years ago and youth is something that women have a hard time losing. Today younger women look better than we did 30 years ago and that is another thing hard to deal with. Imagine your wife has a close friend that is male and extremly good looking, buffed , and looks like you could never look now at your age. Would you feel a little jealouse when she was such a good freind with him? I think I would back off a little on that friendship. You knw your wife is the one you need to make happy, that 30 year younger women doesn't want you so I would worry about how your wife feels.
2007-02-03 02:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is identify the root cause of yr wife’s jealousy…ask yrself, is this out of character for her, have you ever given her the slightest possible reason for her to react in such a manner? Are you defensive when she asks you questions in regards to this young lady, do you reassure her that her feelings are unfounded? It is imperative that you handle this issue in the proper manner ie: correct communication between the two of you, possibly even counselling if the problem does not resolve. Good luck and remember to remind yr wife occasionally how wonderful she is, how much you appreciate her, and how deeply you love her.
2007-02-03 02:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you been unfaithful to your wife before? If yes then you will have to work hard to convince her nothing is going on, as she has every right to doubt you! If you as you say not up to no good with this woman, then maybe you should stop talking about her at home or maybe ask your wife to meet this lady. Explain to your wife that she is nothing more than a work friend and you have no interest in this lady. Show you wife some love and attention and spend time with her. talk to her, have a laugh with her.sounds to me that your wife is insecure in your marriage.
2007-02-03 02:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by eylicio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just be your friend,but your wife doesn't completely get that. Show her you care,either keep your contact with the woman down to a minimum,or invite her to have association with your wife,make them friends,and maybe she will trust you. Everything is workable.
2007-02-03 02:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by Ellie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i guess just tell her you have no feelings for her at all, and that she doesnt even compare to your wife. make your wife feel sexy and take the time to do it. don't hang out with the girl and if you do take your wife after all if she is the one you chose make her feel like she is the only woman for you and that she was made just for you and vice versa. your wifes feelings come before any other woman out there, remember that.
2007-02-03 02:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by tralw2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you give her reason to think you are sharing more with this person than her. Go back to the basics. Start treating her the way you did when you first met. Thant might quiet her down some...
2007-02-03 01:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try making her feel more important than this young woman,I know what it is like to feel like your in competition all the time with other women,it makes your self esteem go to the dogs,just try to assure her how much you love her and how beautiful she is to you inside and out.maybe she wants to be your friend to!!
2007-02-03 02:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by gene e 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your wife obviously wants attention..she wouldnt be jealous if youre giving her sufficient amount of it..
give her attention..she feels threatened by this young chick..make her feel that its platonic..give her flowers..bring back the romance!
good luck
2007-02-03 02:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by violet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop hangin around her , and show your wife that she has nothing to worry about.
2007-02-03 01:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by cristy p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋