Yeh, there is this girl that i know she likes me, and we barely talk to each other, so i acted like a jerk to turn her off so i don't break her heart later on, is that the right way to solve it?
2007-02-03 02:07:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeh, i kinda know it a little bit wrong so i asked this question
2007-02-03 10:30:09 · update #1
of course not! thats just you breaking her heart. your not delaying it, your rushing it. some one did that to me once because he wasn't into dating at all, and the first time he acted diffrently then i had seen him before, i felt so foolish and hurt for falling for him. go and say sorry because being a jerk is not the answer. then pull up confidence and tell her why you acted that way.
2007-02-03 02:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is never right to be a jerk to someone because why would you do that to yourself and make yourself look like a jerk if you're not? On the other hand, if you are a jerk, then I guess it was right for you...
A girl is not going to be heartbroken if you simply do not like her. It takes more than that to break a heart.
2007-02-03 02:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that you're way of saying, "Sorry but I'm not interested to date?"
Sometimes girls wanted to hear it from the horse's mouth. So tell her in a nice way.
It really depends actually... if the girl is the type who does sour-graping everytime she gets the treatment she does not like, then it would be better to tell her that you're not interested, than act like a jerk (the word you used) since that's not a good reputation to live up to.
2007-02-03 02:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Banging Hot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...you should be a role model of what a decent person acts like...be pleasant...nothing more. If she follows you around like a puppy dog...just say look...you're a nice girl but I'm not interested....She might be a little embarrassed...but that is much better than being a jerk.
2007-02-03 02:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you dont think acting like a jerk broke her heart now?
2007-02-03 02:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, in a way you did break her heart.... if you ever want to fix this go and tell her what you did, or at least apoligize..... i don't care if this was years ago.... i really wish people who have acted like a jerk to me would apoligize..... even though i do that they are sorry
2007-02-03 04:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, being a jerk is never the way. You should have just told her you weren't interested.
2007-02-03 02:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i would suggest just talkin to her, maybe u guys could just b friends.
2007-02-03 02:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just tell her you are not interested in being more than friends....
2007-02-03 02:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,just be honest with her .
2007-02-03 02:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋