situation here! advise please as im not happy. i can go back to my ex-husband if i want or stay where im at if i want. here, i deal with mommy & son. son not so bad. however, mommy tells everyone what to do & this is not mommys home. however i will always lose a no win battle here as blood is thicker than h2o. & they have lived together long enough to know how to push each others buttons.im not falling for it & im agitated./ on the hand if i go back with ex i wont deal with this!! my son& his dad at times can say things that are rude. stupid ect,ect--i have to temporarily make a choice for awhile. im hoping if i go home his dad wont tolerate his behavior. my son has not done this before. i think he is on drugs?? which will not be tolerated if this is the case.its a situation i need advise of mello words if possible. ive been with the son & mommy and ive grown tired of the mom. dont get me wrong i love her but there is no way she will ever change as i have tried to talk 2 both.he luvsme
2007-02-03 02:00:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i would do it alone if i had the means. i have a job interview on monday. if all goes well it will take me a bit to get deposit,rent, utilities. im thinking of going home & keeping my mouth shut. go to work and save in the piggy bank incase it does not work out? staying here he dont want me to work i may be dependant!!!sad
2007-02-03 02:21:53 · update #1
Jump out and stay out.
2007-02-03 02:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you try by yourself?? That way things can be done the way you like them. If son on drugs test him if he comes up dirty tell him he cant stay with you. Its called Tough Love. But you need time to figure out what YOU want so some time on your own won't hurt...
2007-02-03 10:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs his dad to give him a swift kick, Maybe that is the answer for your problem. Have him drug tested, and you will no what your up against.
2007-02-03 10:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW Im glad im not u!
2007-02-03 10:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by dekota1997 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Damned....
2007-02-03 10:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
damnd if i know
2007-02-04 05:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋