Is it possible for a friend girl who treats you like an older brother fall in love with you?
2007-02-03 01:54:22 · 20 answers · asked by curious lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you're only friends so anything can happen. I've been in that situation but I clearly reminded myself that if I were to have gotten into a relationship with him and we broke up, I'd completely would lose him and he'd be out of my life so it was best to remain friends and have him continue to be like an older brother.
Why do you continue to ask this question? According to your profiled questions I would say maybe 5 times? Are you not satisfied with the answers given? Do you want to fall in love with this girl is the real question. ?
2007-02-03 01:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ Tony's girl ♪ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is definitely possible. I am facing the same thing. I met this girl 2 years ago and she is like by baby sister. I have always had feelings for her but I have to stay on the side lines and be there as a big brother.
2007-02-03 01:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it could happen, but it's rare. most girls who do treat a boy more as a brother fight the idea of falling for him internally. on occasion, it happens.but it is a very hard choice for the girl. it also has a lot of pressure on the guy if he loves her and she loves him in a diffrent way. i know the experience, i had to deal with it and some of my girl friends had to deal with it. no one actually fell for thier brother type of boy, though the boys were head over heals.
2007-02-03 02:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loved me so much that he wanted me to be happy no matter what even if it meant that I was happy with someone else. He was always there for me and when things fell apart he was there for me to cry on his shoulder. And I thought to myself, "Why do I keep falling for the guys who treat me like dirt? Why not go out with the guy that actually loves me for once?" I didn't feel like I had to earn his love. He accepted me even knowing who I was and all the mistakes I had ever made. From the very beginning he promised to take care of me. He took time to share life with me. When I had a bad day he would take off work to make sure I was okay. I never had to play those games in my head questioning if he truly loved me because I know he did. He made me confident, constantly complimented me. He was a faithful friend. When I realized that he was in love with me I dumped my fiance because he didn't even know how to love and if anyone deserved to have my love it was someone who loved me unconditionally not someone who didn't have time for me and wouldn't give me a wedding date or have me meet his family or friends. So the night I broke up with my ex-fiance is the night that I told my best friend that I was in love with him. He told me he was going to marry me. I thought he was crazy but he kept saying it and I started to believe him. Next December we will have been married 8 years. We have been through 4 moves together, 1 miscarriage, 3 C-sections, 1 near death experience, several flue seasons and 4 years of college and I would not be able to do any of that with my self absorbed ex-fiancee. I can enjoy the good times with anyone but for the bad times I need someone who isn't going to bail on me at the first sign of trouble. I totally made the right choice when I went deeper than looks, butterflies in my stomach and rapidly beating hearts to see the man that would be faithful before all else. So good luck and hang in there because the best marriages start out by being best friends.
2015-05-12 18:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by anon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes It's very possible. Why don't you ask her. The best relationships start out as friends. GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-03 02:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possible but very hard for the friend girl to do...
2007-02-03 01:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say very very possible, in fact I would say most likely to fall in love with you
2007-02-03 01:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anything is possible when it comes to love.
2007-02-03 01:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is..i have this little saying i like to stick by:
love first, friends never
friends first, love forever
hope it all works out for you!
2007-02-03 01:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by S L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a 75% chance
2007-02-03 01:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by teejay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋