Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

I was a nerd in high school I was an outkast and there were people including girls who made fun of me and said that I would never get a woman. I fixed myself up and went away for college and I feel like the man alot of women are giving me attention and are trying to get with me on campus. When I came back home some of those girls who used to teased me tried to get with me and I just rejected their offer and showed off on them. Is that cool?

2007-02-03 01:08:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive known her for about 2 months and been her boyfriend for 2 weeks. It was my birthday celebration last night and i asked her to come a few days ago but she said she didnt have the money as she had another thing planned tonight (which is true).

So i go out with my friends to the club and about half an hour in i feel someone poking me..i turn around and its her. I said i thought you wasnt coming out to this place and she said i didnt think you was either and then said she was dragged out by her friends. I was too drunk to say anything then so i left it.

Basically she told me she wasnt coming out with me for my birthday and then i see her out.

I usually know what to do but i cant work this one out

What would you do ?

2007-02-03 01:07:26 · 3 answers · asked by dytrid71 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 01:06:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife kicked me out of the house two weeks ago. We have two small children. She sounds confused and depressed. She speaks of the past and the selfish things that I have done. She has gone to counseling once. When I ask her to serve me with divorce papers, she indicates that she does not know if she is making the right decision. She blames everything on me. We had our last child 1-1/2 years ago. She continues to send mix messages. She does not like the idea of custody. She indicates that if she would have full custody and I was to go away, would I atleast give her a telephone # for her to reach me at in case of an emergency or she is on her death bed. I'm going into surgery in two weeks to remove a small growth, She called me yesterday and asked at what time was the surgery. She also took care of all insurance issues. She came from a controlling family and we live on the second floor of her mothers house. Can this be an issue? Should I give up on the women that I love

2007-02-03 01:06:33 · 18 answers · asked by Saddle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am newly divorced and my heart is still healing. I went out on a blind date last night just for fun, nothing too serious.However, I think i found my soul mate in my blind date....... is it too soon to be thinking this? He is everything i want and everything i never knew i needed. Kinda freaked out about these feelings!!!

2007-02-03 01:06:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

♥did u fall♥ did u get in trouble, or sum like dat♥

2007-02-03 01:05:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's this guy that I met about a year ago......3 months after we met he left to go to another college......we liked eachother & still talk even tho we haven't seen one another.....when I talk to him, he's always saying that he doesn't like the idea of me being w/ other guys....when I know, he's probably messin around with other girls.......we ain't together but recently when I spoke to him he called me his wifey...I feel like we don't have any title...& he wants me to sit around waiting for him while he goes out with other chicks......For those of you who have relationship experience.....what's going on, is he playing games with me?????

2007-02-03 01:04:28 · 17 answers · asked by APPLE 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 01:04:14 · 12 answers · asked by juicyjuliet75 1 in Weddings

i am a 17yr old girl, laltely when my girlfriends come to saty at my place i have been feeling very different than i usually do with them i know that they are very pretty girls but lately i have been finding them more attractive than usual does this mean i am gay or is this normal i think i might like girls too!!

2007-02-03 01:02:57 · 6 answers · asked by understandingmeanssolution 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the sign of true and real love

2007-02-03 01:01:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need at least 3 good answers by 8'oclock, someone help me pleeeease??
theres this guy i really like, and i see him almost every saturday at the bowling alley. were normally like 3 lanes away from each other.what are some good flirting moves that dont seem too slutty or anything like that.i need answers by 8:00 so please answer

2007-02-03 01:00:34 · 1 answers · asked by AFI Obsessed Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

there is a boy who is very unknown to me.
but just keeps on staring at me!!he looks pretty good!!!but i dont know him(nor even his name)..nor does he!Its not that i like him.but what should I do??plz tell me!

2007-02-03 00:59:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you know if a guy was going out with you just for fun... i mean he didnot truely love lyou... it was just to fill up his free time...
and how do you know if a guy truely love you???

2007-02-03 00:58:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am wandering if how i feel about large girls is normal. I REALY love BIG women, i find them uncontrolably sexy!!! is this normal? i mean, guys normaly fancy skinny blondes, but i find skinny girls with man breasts totaly unapealing.

2007-02-03 00:57:36 · 30 answers · asked by david d 2 in Singles & Dating

Acting Crazy! She broke up with me, yet she still calls me and I beg her to work things out and she says not now but maybe in the future. she says she has to figure out who she is before we can work on things Does that make sense or is she just kepping me around for her back up plan? Why wait to work things out...we have a daughter that misses her daddy. Everything she says she wants se goes back on.Like seeing ither people but the she calls me and questions me like the gestapo about it. Shes so paranoid about what im doing, yet says she doesnt care. What should I do to get her back or move on???

2007-02-03 00:56:46 · 14 answers · asked by tome615 2 in Singles & Dating

Actually at this point, I am just laughing at him. I don't think anyone will actually buy it!! I think he's hoping some of his guy friends will chip in for it..... They were talking about getting him a pool table and I actually told him the TV was more realistic space and money wise. It's also a different store then where all my other stuff is registered at. Do you think it would be OK to have my register read (for Bridal Shower?). (My family always put the registry in the bridal shower invites so that’s not a problem.)
Macy's
Bed bath and beyond
Sears (for large appliances)
Because I would HATE for someone to drive down and see that on a registry but there is a chance his family might ALL chip in and get him something like this? Also my mother wanted me to register for a washer and dryer because she would rather buy something like that then good china or crystal. So I figured if it said large appliance, it wouldn’t shock anyone looking for a $50 gift. I did add a few small things to it but not much.
How would you feel if you are OK with registry, and saw that??

2007-02-03 00:56:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years but I often fancy other people and find myself wondering if I'd be happier with them - I've never cheated though - is this normal?

2007-02-03 00:54:14 · 26 answers · asked by Helena W 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going on vacay and am very curious.

2007-02-03 00:53:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it has been almost 6 months of mutal understanding and i don't know how long can i keep up with this kind of set-up. he brings me home everyday, does things for me, holds my hand once in a while.. you get the whole point.. it's as if all we need is the whole formality thing to make things clear (the whole status of our relationship.. ) i'm guessing that he just needs a push. how can i give him a hint that he can formally ask me "the question" without being so obvious? thanks much!

2007-02-03 00:53:28 · 14 answers · asked by rain 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 00:53:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband met a woman at work. Right after they met, they kissed while drunk at a bar. HE SAYS they decided it was a mistake, but then went on to become great friends. The kind that he shares info about our relationship with her (to have a woman's perspective). She lives in Austraillia, we live in US, they see each other when they both travel to work events. This has been going on almost a year. Oh, and there is this other woman he met in CA (where he travels quite often) that he's been friends with for 2 years. This has all just come to light and I'm trying to grapple with it all. He is so convincing about it all. And he absolutely does not understand why men can't have women friends when they are married. We've been together since college (20 years) and we're in marraige counceling. I just needed to do a check of the general population to see if he is the minority or majority in his opinion.

2007-02-03 00:52:48 · 16 answers · asked by dumbfounded 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-03 00:51:05 · 9 answers · asked by Mylove 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with a girl but it wasn't even like that at first. When I first met her I thought she was gonna be one of those stuck up girls but I was wrong. I got to know her over time. Each second with her was like a piece of heaven. I asked her if she cared about me she said yes and she said yes to be my valentines. I heard from one of her friends that she had a boyfriend. I didn't believe it at first but I went to her to confirm it and it was true. I feel so played, misused, and left out in the rain. Was all that time with her really pointless? I don't know what to do anymore...

2007-02-03 00:50:53 · 8 answers · asked by §aD sMiLe §iLeNt TeArS™ 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i lyk this girl in my year but i dont now if she likes me...Were like best mates and we jus mess about with each other. Wen were in class she often stares at me and wen i look at her she turns her head around quickly. Her m8 says that she likes me but i dnt no if its a joke or if there telling the truth...Wen i talk 2 her she goes really quite and then wen im with other girls she looks at me and then walks off with her m8s...I really really like her but i dnt no wat 2 do...Help me

2007-02-03 00:50:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I was finally happy when my bf bought this game system that he was complaning to me about. yesss. But here is the problem his grandma just told him she dont have money to pay the rent and he gave her money last week for the rent which she spent now he has to return the game. I think that is so funny. If you read my other questions you would read how he has been buging me for this game and now he has to return it........lol. I just hope he dont think I am going to buy it for him.
I just feel that is so wrong that he has to return the game but whatever, its not me. I knew it was toooo good to be true. What do you think??

2007-02-03 00:50:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you think you can improve your personality/ yourself? if at all.

2007-02-03 00:49:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

instead what would u think of a guy who doesnt drink

2007-02-03 00:48:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Fiancé thinks thati t would be odd to have his father as the best man, but they are really close and plus to avoid hurt feelings I have to have five bride's maids and my Fiance can only think of four people he wants to ask to be groomsmen. I don't know what to do!

2007-02-03 00:47:41 · 19 answers · asked by nicole b 1 in Weddings

me and my boyfriend was in talk last month about getting engaged and about two weeks ago we talked again and he said that we are getting engaged but when how could i speed it up

2007-02-03 00:47:00 · 5 answers · asked by scrummy mummy 2 in Singles & Dating

time i was getting intimate with a lady friend and everything was going well we had been out the whole day doing fun stuff and then we had a really great dinner - anyway she had been very flirty and we were getting on great and both of us had had a bit to drink - well after the meal we were walking towards the taxi rank and she said do you want to come back to mine!!!! i was like woohoo on the inside but playing it cool on the outside so i said something like yeah thatll be nice - and she seem pleased so everything is going brilliant right? anway we got back to hers and we were getting really friendly and "making out" and stuff - tops and fingers etc anyway we retired to her bedroom and we get totally naked and she is looking banging hot and we get into bed and make out some more and then she starts you know "heading south" and shes doing a good when WOOP! she sticks a finger up my stinkhole! yeah she stuck it in the brown - well i was shocked and ran home should i call her again?

2007-02-03 00:46:04 · 19 answers · asked by mr_soapytitwank 3 in Singles & Dating