I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years but I often fancy other people and find myself wondering if I'd be happier with them - I've never cheated though - is this normal?
2007-02-03 00:54:14 · 26 answers · asked by Helena W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is normal and it is usually something we lack within ourselves that we think someone else can fulfill. As long as you do not act on it then you are o.k.
When you start to fancy someone else, (think of your BF) and tell yourself I have a boyfriend and how would I feel if he were fancying another girl?
Good Luck!
'-)
2007-02-03 00:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're only human; it's natural that we find something or someone attractive, no matter what it is. Just because we have someone special in our lives doesn't mean we become blind to the fact that there are beautiful, sexy, attractive people out there. Fantasizing is normal, too. Just ask yourself, though, if you think you'd be happier without your current boyfriend, not with someone else. I admire you for not cheating; best of luck!
2007-02-03 00:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by telaine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to find other people attractive-you don't go blind when you're in a relationship,but to wonder if you'd be happier with that person-maybe your relationship is coming to an end?
2007-02-03 01:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal to be attracted to somebody else and be curious but i wouldnt go as far as to say you'd fancy them or wonder if youd be happier with them which may suggest you arent happy?
2007-02-03 00:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by katyllou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite normal, how-ever if you are wondering if you would be happier with them then there is something missing in your current relationship.
2007-02-03 00:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't your boyfriend is the guy for you.
I believe when your in love then nobody can tempt you or cross your mind or even picture a better life without the person your with but hell that just my thoughts.
2007-02-03 00:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Yelsha!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal but it also could be a warning that something is not right with your relationship with your boyfriend. You might want to think about what that might be before you make any marriage committments.
2007-02-03 01:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is, considering another person to be attractive is quite normal, it's wether or not you do anything about it - thats the problem. If you're happy - look but don't touch :)
2007-02-03 00:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mark C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the term you are looking for is window-shopping. Every person has the occasional "peek", but rarely buys what is on display! It is completely normal, as long as it stays at looking!
2007-02-03 00:58:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry relax, most of us when we have a boyfriend or even married fantasy on what it would be like to be with someone else. and it does not mean that you are going to cheat. fantasy i see it is good to dream and feel. as long as you don't act upon it. its okay. so yes it is natural.
2007-02-03 01:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋