i am a 17yr old girl, laltely when my girlfriends come to saty at my place i have been feeling very different than i usually do with them i know that they are very pretty girls but lately i have been finding them more attractive than usual does this mean i am gay or is this normal i think i might like girls too!!
2007-02-03 01:02:57 · 6 answers · asked by understandingmeanssolution 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in your age group, and many of my friends have felt similar to you.
I think its because of the growing media, it effects girls and now it seems like a reall possibility to be gay or bisexual, which it is. As this is a different option to the more traditional one people tend to explore it. You can do no harm in exploring this emotion, its normal that you think about it. And usually when you think about things you can sometimes make yourself think you like something.
That might not be the case. Either way its perfectly fine. If you feel the need to explore your feeling, perhaps you can try, but if you feel uncomfortable then maybe you can wait and see if your feelings change again.
If you gay or bi its fine, if your straight, thats fine too. Just be who you are.
Good luck
Bria
2007-02-03 01:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I began having thoughts or feelings like that when i was 16...I'm 33 now, and have had relationships with several women..i think you are beginning to develop attractions toward ladies....you can't help how you feel...
2007-02-03 09:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by cutegirlin_tn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curiousity more than likely. Envy too is a possibility.
If you just started feeling this way I doubt you are gay.
2007-02-03 09:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you attracted to guys as well as other girls? if yes you could be bi-sexual or even straight but curious.
It hard for me to tell you what you are, only you know who you are. get me?
2007-02-03 09:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Yelsha!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself some more time
2007-02-03 09:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not gay....it's lesbian. you are a lesbian. no offense but that's yucky
2007-02-03 09:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Rayne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋