Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

I was a virgin till my late twenties and had to find escorts and massage parlors to be sexually active. I found one or two girlfriends. Now I'm happily married and wear my wedding band religiously and I find more women flirting and twice asked outright for sex. Why do women seek out married men?

2007-02-03 03:41:08 · 13 answers · asked by kyghostchaser2006 3 in Marriage & Divorce

is there ne other way besides havin my mom drive us?

2007-02-03 03:40:29 · 14 answers · asked by aSIANbOY8 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if I was wanting to ask a girl out should I do it now or would it be too cheesy to wait till valentines day and do it?

2007-02-03 03:40:25 · 7 answers · asked by Shane S 2 in Singles & Dating

Valentines is just around the corner and here i am alone, nobdy to hold me and whisper the sweeetest things........its not that i need a man to make me happy,its just that love is in the air on that typical day. Maybe i should turn off the radio on that day and read a book...or listen to Avril Lavignes Happy ENDING????????

2007-02-03 03:39:42 · 27 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2 in Singles & Dating

and nice guys like me always have to listen to it. a friend of mine can't stop doing it...about people we know, about people he knows but I don't know. There is something wrong with everyone in the world to him. I wonder what he says behind my back. Is he trying to make himself look better? what is it?

2007-02-03 03:39:40 · 5 answers · asked by bruce_eel 4 in Friends

Three weeks ago I broke up with my boyfriend/fiance of 2 years, It was the hardest thing for me to do but I knew I had to becasue I had only been with him and I was not happy anymore. Im 18 and I have been seeing this guy for a little less then 3 weeks, and he is in the Army and dosnt live very close to me he usually drives down to see me on the weekends (which is a 5 hours drive). Well he was suppost to come down yesteday, but he didnt, I havnt talked to him yesterday either, he wont return my text messages or my phone calls, and the one time I did get a hold of him I am pretty sure he hung up on me. He says that he is interested in me, I was wondering if he said that just becuase he knew I am in a very emotional state and he just wants to have sex, I dont know what to do, he is a great guy from everything he has told me and he makes me smile and laugh all the time. What should I do, just drop it and find another guy or continue to call him to see whats up with him?

2007-02-03 03:39:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't want to offend him or make him mad. He has a temper. He has been out of work for a month now. His family is helping with his half of the bills, but it seems like he isn't bustinf as much a** as he should. There is no reason why he shouldn't be out filling out applications and things. When I get home from work he is still in his PJs and the kitchen is full of dirty dishes. Whats the deal? Why do people do that? I know girls do it too. Is he depressed? I would obviously talk to him- but like I said- when I bring it up..he gets pissy and says "I KNOW I NEED A JOB TIA. LEAVE ME THE F*CK ALONE" .. bah- I dont know what to do. I love him, but d*mn.

2007-02-03 03:38:33 · 1 answers · asked by [*+* TiA *+*] 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He will be 40 this year and he's a good guy. I want to do something different and sporadic. Both of us are always open to new ideas and places to go. Thanx.

2007-02-03 03:38:18 · 6 answers · asked by o'juiccy1 2 in Singles & Dating

i love valentines day but alot of people thinks its a way for shops and resturants to make money!i am a very strong romantic and love to show how how i feel everyday though the year but what do you think??? if you are a big romantic what will you be doing for your loved one?

2007-02-03 03:38:15 · 13 answers · asked by kerry t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have liked a girl since high school. While in highschool she was dating a guy, i'm an honest person so I didn't want to bother their relationship. Well they broke up and I asked her out, she had already gotten back with the guy, so obviousally no, because she's like me and values relationships. Well she broke up with him again and I asked her again and after I asked she said she'd already started dating another guy. Then after she broke up with this guy she started dating another guy. He's since then cheated on her and lied to her and so they broke it off about a week ago. The entireity of the time, about 3-4 years i've been friends with her and such, and everynow and then when we would talk about her relationship, she'd ask me how I would treat a girlfriend and if she'd been done wrong. Then when I would talk about my relationship interests to her she says stuff like what ever happened to me? and lets olupe and get married, is she being for real or is she likely joking around?

2007-02-03 03:37:07 · 14 answers · asked by Shane S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 03:36:19 · 12 answers · asked by la_di_dah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a believer in true love and love at first sight. all that romantic stuff you see in movies. but how do you feel about love. no mean, rude or women bashing answers please.

2007-02-03 03:35:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel sooooo down today, its such a beautiful day and am stuck at home with nothing to do! all my friends are either out with their boyfriends or family or working!!! plus everything in life feel's like its falling apart firstly i cant tell if my tyres got a slow puncture (never had one b4) and neither can the garage man!!! am having sum problems with my family (loooong story)!!! and as if that wasnt enough i feel as though i'll never get asked out by a guy ever again, wots wrong with me, i mean i get guys stopping 2 stare at me but nobody approaches me!!! arghhhhhh am far too confused, guys are confusing!!! the only thing going for me at the moment is my job!!!! ( i feel as tho i may have jinxed that now aswell)

2007-02-03 03:35:50 · 19 answers · asked by Ruby 2 in Singles & Dating

any suggestions on how to move on, anyone wanna c h a t and get to know each other...

2007-02-03 03:34:27 · 14 answers · asked by starla 3 in Singles & Dating

i what say then what we do say with him?

2007-02-03 03:34:09 · 4 answers · asked by xpinkheartgreenx 1 in Friends

her husband freaked out (big time)saying i should pay for HALF of their kids party?(his wife disagrees and says guest at a party do not pay.)
I have never been invited to a party where they expected half the cost of the party?
Im getting real sick of her husband I would like advice on how to handle him?
I all ready said he is out of his mind. But he still insist that I should pay for half?

2007-02-03 03:33:41 · 13 answers · asked by Maddie H 2 in Friends

i have been with this guy for over 2 yrs he asked me to marry him in italy i said yes..i just found out why he did ask me.....he did not want to loose me after i graduated and all....he has told me he is to young to get married....we planned for aug..sept of 2008 he told me what happened to the person that could drink and party all night till 5 am i told him i have to work now theses days and i have grown up...what should i do.....should i ask him what the ring means to him

2007-02-03 03:33:41 · 12 answers · asked by helpgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have been friends since babies, and we got together and broke up and got back together... we soon created a pattern. I dont have a doubt in my heart about him loving me... but why does he cheat? Im a good women, a great provider... and sexually OPEN to everything.... HES MY HUSBAND!!!!! But still he cheats... we lived together for years, got married and seperated within the 1st 6 months... tried and tried to get back together... but JUST TO HARD!!!!! Thru out all this, we still slept together... and had our moments! Its been 3 years and we are not living together... and just yesterdy for some odd reason he felt the need to tell me HE HAS NEVER BEEN FAITHFUL... Thru out our dating... our marriage... and us seperated!????? What the F!@# am I to do???? I love this man with all my heart, never cheated because I was afraid of losing him... now I am hurt to know that he knew that I only wanted to get married once... and YET STILL CHEATED????

2007-02-03 03:32:57 · 15 answers · asked by recentful...Me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 15 and i can't make a true friend...all my collegs are so different they speak just an JUST about boys and this makes me feel weird they can't talk about something wich could include me...(it is a crime to love depeche mode and to hate britney and extremley fansy girls?)i have to mention that my school its like that and they consider me the freak...why me ? :((( pls tips to survive with the pink and make-up jungle!

2007-02-03 03:32:38 · 5 answers · asked by depecherita_lilian 1 in Friends

2007-02-03 03:31:50 · 16 answers · asked by HopeGrace 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating someone for 3 yrs..on and off. We have been through a lot of personal stuff but no cheating she is 34...I'm 42. No she says she wants to date other people. I told her I want to marry her. Should I get over it an move on. Will she ever accept me if I convince her not to date others?

Stay in and fight for her or let her go and get over it? I don't want to have these issues when we are married.

2007-02-03 03:31:36 · 7 answers · asked by drinkornot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok im really shy and all my other friends are really fun and outgoing. On everybodies websites they have like the funniest..somebody and the shyest and they always have me, or one word to describe me is shy. And if they need somebody to do something for them ther always like or they wont do it and they make fun of me and tell me im like sociall retarded , They are really nice friends and I know there just joking around but they all think im such a good girl and i want o be outgoing how can i become outgoing and make them realise how outgoing i am really quick?

2007-02-03 03:31:33 · 11 answers · asked by Janelle S. 4 in Friends

2007-02-03 03:31:20 · 29 answers · asked by princess4u247960 2 in Family

we are both 21 and have been dating for five years and were due to get married in may. she just told me she had a one nighter with a guy from high school. i still love her very much and am devastated. we live together and have agreed to spend the next week apart to do some personal reflecting on the relationship. she has said that we aren't prepared to get married now and i have agreed with her on that because she is still in school and i recently graduated but don't have a job yet. i just don't know how i can forgive her for what she has done to me but i truly want to be with her. any real advice would be nice.

2007-02-03 03:31:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm once again writing something and had a bit of a typo on the last.

2007-02-03 03:29:17 · 23 answers · asked by Elaina W 2 in Weddings

2007-02-03 03:27:53 · 39 answers · asked by ash 2 in Singles & Dating

Tonight I am going on my first date with this guy, and we have hung out in group two times now. I am pretty sure he is gonna try and kiss me, he is kinda aggressive when it comes to that, well not shy. Anyways I was wondering if I should let him kiss me on the first date? Or should I make him wait? If he does try and kiss me I don't want to turn my ahead away and make him feel bad, but I don't want him to become uninterested if I give him a little of what he wants. Does that make any sense? I have not been in a lot of relationships so I'm not very good at this. Any advice please?

2007-02-03 03:27:51 · 8 answers · asked by Katie W 2 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my guy have liked each other forever and we started to go out 2 weeks ago ik its not long at all but when i call him to hang out he hangs with me for like and hour or he says we will hang and then we end up not and im afraid he dosnt want to be around me and he seems like he justs wants to be left alone and i dont no if its me or if he is just like that and i dont no what to do help

2007-02-03 03:27:38 · 6 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 03:27:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been best friends with these 5 girls for a few years now, and we were very close. but recently one of them got mad at me because she said she 'felt like changing things because she was bored'. so that one girl turned every one of my friends against me by making up lies about me 'talking bad about them behind their backs'. the girl who made that up was the one who did that, not me. so now im left with 2 best friends; and i love them a lot. they knew that i would never talk bad about them and knew that the other girls who made up this stuff are bi*****. is it fair that these girls made this up about me? or did i do something wrong?

2007-02-03 03:27:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends