Ok im really shy and all my other friends are really fun and outgoing. On everybodies websites they have like the funniest..somebody and the shyest and they always have me, or one word to describe me is shy. And if they need somebody to do something for them ther always like or they wont do it and they make fun of me and tell me im like sociall retarded , They are really nice friends and I know there just joking around but they all think im such a good girl and i want o be outgoing how can i become outgoing and make them realise how outgoing i am really quick?
2007-02-03 03:31:33 · 11 answers · asked by Janelle S. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
For the first answer: iv known my frinds since i was 5 and im not shy around them im shy around other people. And for the 2 answer. they are sweet there just teasing me for it and i dont like being shy i WANT to be outgoing
2007-02-03 08:25:49 · update #1
Hi! I am really shy too. However, I manage to pretend to be out going every day at school. when a thought pops into m head, I say it. as a result everyone thinks I'm really witty. I'm not. I just do not hide my feelings except when they are mean or even slightly rude. Everyone knos that they have a friend in me, now. Of course, it does have a side effect. I get stress headaches (chronic ones, when I'm around Certain People).
2007-02-07 01:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Evevumeimei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to my world. but my very old past world. making frends is hard. and being outgoing for me is also hard. be open and be urself. i have tons of outgoing frends and their trait just went to me since i know them very well. my classmates think i'm a very good girl and get like straight A's but i don't. i cuss at times, and be a not very good girl. i tend to be really outgoing when i know people and they know me after a couple of weeks or days. but on 1st days of schools, i'm all shy. like in my very noisy social bus, first i was all shy and sitting in the front/ middle. and now i'm all like in the back and hanging w/ the 7th and 8th graders while i'm a 6th. having frends mean being more outgoing.
good luck!
2007-02-06 18:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being shy is not always a bad thing. Having a quiet more reserved personality will sometimes help you to make better choices in your life.
2007-02-11 00:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by pepc1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time. I was shy for years due to lots of rejection, but came around.
2007-02-08 23:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you hang around them for a long period of time you soon well be outgoing because the guote of who you hang out with are what your going to become is true.-hope this helps
2007-02-03 11:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by :)! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
actually it sounds like your friends arent that sweet......I was VERY shy when I was in school and some "freinds" I had sounded like yours...............I broke out of it by realizing that A: it doesn't matter what people think of you as long as you like you and B: it helps to be able to laugh at yourself............I laugh at me alot!
2007-02-03 11:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by caddyshackjack 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is what do (did) just go somewhere and say Hello to everyone you see! Sorry if doesn't work!
2007-02-11 10:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i think we have something in common. I think i'm being too nice??
2007-02-11 00:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by DEEDOG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought you siad you were popular? Popular ppl are never shy
2007-02-05 16:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by macy411 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself. . . . be confident about who you really are. . .
2007-02-11 01:33:02 · answer #10 · answered by <J> 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋