ive been best friends with these 5 girls for a few years now, and we were very close. but recently one of them got mad at me because she said she 'felt like changing things because she was bored'. so that one girl turned every one of my friends against me by making up lies about me 'talking bad about them behind their backs'. the girl who made that up was the one who did that, not me. so now im left with 2 best friends; and i love them a lot. they knew that i would never talk bad about them and knew that the other girls who made up this stuff are bi*****. is it fair that these girls made this up about me? or did i do something wrong?
2007-02-03 03:27:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You didn't do anything wrong. That's called vindictiveness what those girls did. The ring-leader of that circus is jealous of you somehow and is "tired" of putting up a fake facade towards you. Now that she's not your friend or in a "friendly" relationship with you she can make up stories to make herself feel better and see if anyone else will support her. It's all about making herself feel better because she knows deep down inside she's the ugliest thing in the world inside and how she looks like on the outside will never be able to compare to her ugliness.
I feel sorry for her actually.
What can you do? Ignore them, be happy you have friends who are sticking by you through thick and thin. Make more friends and new friends. Continue to be the nice girl you are...this will just DRIVE her crazy and will get tired of herself at some point and will just stop her talking bad about you because she'll never be able to suppprt her maniacal rants about you.
You go on with your head held up high, be confident, who cares if they don't like you? You like yourself and so do your two best friends! I like you just by reading this, I went through the same thing when I was 15. It gets a lot easier and better!
People will start to notice her lies and will not want to be her friend anymore and since you've worked on making friends...maybe you'll have more and those other friends of yours who got pulled by the "ring-leader" will come back to you. No one wants to be friends with someone who is always saying bad things about everyone, people start to feel that she can talk about them too.
2007-02-03 03:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair that these girl's made up lies about you. You didn't do anything wrong because you didn't fight sink to their level. Maybe you should tr talking to each of the girl separately on and one and try and ask them why they did it, if they are alone with no one else to help lie for them maybe you will get the truth, if that doesn't worm maybe they weren't such good Friends after all, if they were really your best friends they wouldn't have done that.
2007-02-03 11:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by nathan920ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this helps.............Once when I was younger I had a similar experiance------I was making some new friends and then all of a sudden they didnt want to be friends any more.....they told me that a mutual freind of ours said that I would talk about them behind there backs...........then a month or two later those girls came up and apologized----------all our "mutual friend" did while she hung out with them was talk smack about EVERYONE and she tried to bust up the girls friend ship-------she wanted everyone to be only her friend--------well it blew up in her face! so dont do anything spiteful because people see things (they might be to chicken to actually back up there assumption but its all right......always be a lady!)
2007-02-03 11:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by caddyshackjack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me. You did NOTHING wrong. It's just hormones, and those two girls are your real friends. Ignore the three, and don't make up any rumors about them!
2007-02-03 11:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by TheKraken22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not right don't call them friends because there not
2007-02-03 11:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by mellissaandrews 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋