Tonight I am going on my first date with this guy, and we have hung out in group two times now. I am pretty sure he is gonna try and kiss me, he is kinda aggressive when it comes to that, well not shy. Anyways I was wondering if I should let him kiss me on the first date? Or should I make him wait? If he does try and kiss me I don't want to turn my ahead away and make him feel bad, but I don't want him to become uninterested if I give him a little of what he wants. Does that make any sense? I have not been in a lot of relationships so I'm not very good at this. Any advice please?
2007-02-03 03:27:51 · 8 answers · asked by Katie W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him kiss yourself...well, it depends on situation
2007-02-03 03:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to be a tease without being a tease, what every girl wants to know.
The first question is...are you a virgin? If you are then a guy has to respect that, and it gives you the upper hand in the relationship. It may sound sexist and old fashioned, but every guy wants a virgin to be in love with him and will work a lot harder at making the relationship work. Let him kiss you after the second date, resisting at first, but become active in the same kiss you started to resist, guys love that, but don't EVER say no unless you REALLY mean it because no ALWAYS means no, and when you make a guy think that no means yes you could be turning him into a rapist. Boys like girls to slightly tease them, but not so much that they are confused about about what you want. If you get emotionally serious but want to hold out on sex indefinitely, drop your towel coming out of the shower before a date and make it look like an accident (that way you're not really a tease) because after a while a boy will feel like a total chump if he's spent over $500 on dates with you without even seeing you naked, no matter how much of a gentleman he is.
2007-02-03 12:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by Baddest_Bandulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not worry about what the guy you are going out with thinks.... do what is going to make you comfortable. If he doesn't like that fact you wont kiss him and leaves,,, then he was destined to leave anyways and you saved yourself from kissing an ***. If you choose to kiss him, it will be harder to determine his true feeling for you because he will start to think he can get more kisses or maybe try to move on to getting other things...
Dont worry about the date,,, just enjoy yourself. If it is ment to be then it is ment to be.
2007-02-03 11:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by K G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this sounds like a cop-out but do what feels right at the time. if it stops a t a kiss fine, if it goes further then good luck you will need it.
2007-02-03 11:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by insane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First date with that guy or ur first date. Do not be shy... Just let him to kiss...
2007-02-03 11:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Glace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wanna kiss him... just go ahead and kiss him...
but if u dont want to yet... tell him that... communication is really important!!!
Good luck!!! :)))
2007-02-03 11:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by inlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel is right for u.
2007-02-03 11:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by kute_regina_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE NATURAL...
2007-02-03 11:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by ian Christopher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋