and nice guys like me always have to listen to it. a friend of mine can't stop doing it...about people we know, about people he knows but I don't know. There is something wrong with everyone in the world to him. I wonder what he says behind my back. Is he trying to make himself look better? what is it?
2007-02-03 03:39:40 · 5 answers · asked by bruce_eel 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know if you should really consider yourself to be a nice guy if you listen to people being spoken about behind their backs, why not tell your friend that you don't agree or don't like it, or why not choose nicer people as your friends. You will feel better if you are true to yourself.
2007-02-03 03:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by mia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends is insecure about his life, something is probably going wrong and he can't fix it so he talks about people behind there back to make himself feel better. Next time he dose it tell him to stop and that it's ridiculous and try and tell him why it's wrong. Good luck.
2007-02-03 03:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by nathan920ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those people are suffering from mental illness for that I do not think any cure is available. Before you become crazy in the company of such guys, decide not to associate with them and maintain your peace for your own good.
2007-02-03 03:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Marks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be some insecurities within themselves. When he starts to talk about people, just say you aren't interested in listening and walk away...maybe if no one listens, he won't talk.
2007-02-03 03:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by redstarr7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have their own insecurities.
2007-02-03 03:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋