I have been dating someone for 3 yrs..on and off. We have been through a lot of personal stuff but no cheating she is 34...I'm 42. No she says she wants to date other people. I told her I want to marry her. Should I get over it an move on. Will she ever accept me if I convince her not to date others?
Stay in and fight for her or let her go and get over it? I don't want to have these issues when we are married.
2007-02-03 03:31:36 · 7 answers · asked by drinkornot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hello?? She wants to date other men. What more do you need to know? There is nothing you can do to change her.
You deserve more from a woman but at least this one has been honest with you. She has done all she can to make it SIMPLE for you to move on.
2007-02-03 03:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lois M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is scared and not ready to commit. Give her space and her freedom. Letting go is hard, but maybe by letting her know that you are willing to let her go she will realize that is not what she wants and this way she will be able to analyze her feelings and fears. You sound like a wise, mature man, so don't settle for anything less than what you are willing to bring into a relationship. Good Luck.
2007-02-03 12:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she does not love you the way that you love her.. Sounds like it is a dead end relationship to me. Even though it will be hard i feel that you should let her go and move on with your life and try to find someone who will love you the way that you love them and she will want to marry you not put you through this.
2007-02-03 11:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you have known each other for 3 years .. and that is on and off?
Sorry pal but I guess you are too late to propse marraige bacuse you are now lacking seriosness in her eyes. She doesn't find you 'trustable & countable' for marriage..
This is why shewants to see other people. And her saying this to you, to set the case so mildy and delicately) demontrates that she doesn't wanna break your heart either.
LET HER GO!
If she comes back, then you 'll consider again whether or not to propse her..
2007-02-03 11:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you marry her you are going to regret it,she told you straight that she want to date other people you cannot stop her from doing it.do yourself a big favour and find someone who is interested, you deserve better.good luck.
2007-02-03 11:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by prettyg 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let her go... but tell her that you were ready to commit long term. If she loves you she'll come back sooner than later.
2007-02-03 11:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont convince her.She is34 and quite matured.you will convince her now.what about after marriage?
2007-02-03 11:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋