Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

My friend is OBSESSED with this guy! But, I like him too! She'll get way mad if she finds out I like him too. AND, I think HE likes me. My friend is already suspicious and I'm gonna get in trouble. What do I do?

2007-02-03 12:58:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

"if you want a GOOD RELATIONSHIP, it's going to take commitment and dedication to keep it running... if you simply respond to everything that's happening in the spur of the moment, that is really going about things in a very unstable manner. If you find a person who is willing to work with you through the difficulties, and occasional disagreements, commitment, respect, love, and dedication are what hold the relationship together"

My ex of 6 years dated a girl last year 2006 when we broke up. Last year I begged him to come back, and he did not. He threw her up constantly in my face,while he was dating her.They stopped dating and me and him moved in together. I found out in January 2007, he gave her his new cell #. I kicked him out.

Am I wrong, for not working things out? If there was no trust, or commitment, should I have tried to work through this?

2007-02-03 12:57:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf sexually harrasses me. he grabs me at school and church. i told him to stop and i told my mom about it. she told me to tell him to stop but he wont. he grabs my breast and my butt and he grads the side of my stomach. so what should i do?

2007-02-03 12:55:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have no clue what to get my boyfriend. we are both 14 and have been dating for only like a month. Idk what to get him at all. I heard he was aving all his money to get me something and i would feel bad if i didnt get him anything. I also dont want to look dumb getting him something wierd? anybody have advice? PLEASE

2007-02-03 12:55:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think about him constantly. I have a diary with his name written in big black letters on the front. I have written many songs about him. I think that he is perfect.
If I am, what should I do? My parents say that I am too young to date.

2007-02-03 12:53:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want him to not be able to controll himself

2007-02-03 12:53:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To keep it short we only talk everyone once in a while, but when we do it is good. We don't really get chances to see each other, because we don't live near one another. How should I approach this?

2007-02-03 12:53:10 · 3 answers · asked by littbddy 1 in Singles & Dating

So I have this best friend(who is also my ex-boyfriend) who i like again-should i risk losing our freindship, or just ignore it and move on??
some info-
-i dumped him
-it only lasted 2 weeks& 1 day
-i think he likes me 2(but im a little byist)

im also afraid to make a move cause hes kind of a dork and im worried about my reputation(shallow, i no but plz dont judge me)

2007-02-03 12:52:13 · 10 answers · asked by Evelyn 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello I am a 26 year old women I just broke up with my boyfriend and I am about to go crazy can somebody please HELP. H and I have been friend for 4 years until we decided to take our friendship to the next level this past summer, since than we have been dating for 7 months unfortunately things didn't work out; I now lost my best friend and my first love. H. was my very first boyfriend he also took my virginity, I was in love with him every since we were friend he was the best thing that ever happen to me until this week-end. To make a long story short I just recently find out that the love of my life was cheating on me I have been in such a shock since I found out I can’t even go on with my daily life I have been in bed crying for a week now please help.

2007-02-03 12:52:04 · 24 answers · asked by cherryredcathy 1 in Singles & Dating

is there a certain age you should be
before having sex?
i know that everyone says "when you're ready"
but how do you know when you're ready

2007-02-03 12:51:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have seen this come up everywhere and i dont know what it means...help plz!

2007-02-03 12:50:57 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex for 2 years. We went on a "break". Then broke up because he thought he liked other people. He was the best relationship I have had, I was devastated. My ex is sorry for what is done and wants to be with me however I have found a new guy at uni who I like. So who should I choose, or what should I do? tohelp me answer the question

2007-02-03 12:50:29 · 4 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex for 2 years. We went on a "break". Then broke up because he thought he liked other people. He was the best relationship I have had, I was devastated. My ex is sorry for what is done and wants to be with me however I have found a new guy at uni who I like. So who should I choose, or what should I do? tohelp me answer the question

2007-02-03 12:49:36 · 21 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

I have two guitars that my mother bought for me, a 6 string and a 12 string. My oldest daughter asked for both so she could play them (so she says), my youngest wants one because it is something of mine that my mom bought me.


To make a long story short… My youngest said if the oldest wants them just give them to her… the oldest says she wants both or none or just give them to the youngest.


Gee what is a mom to do? Here I am trying to be fair to each of them and end up just frustrated. In my endeavors not to offend one, I have found that I have offended both and left with the decision what to do; any suggestions?

Silly,huh...

2007-02-03 12:48:45 · 6 answers · asked by Golden Smile 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

when a person asks a question, something that is maybe personally bothering them in a light or serious manner, why do people who disagree with the questioner use the site as a forum to expel all their anger and high virtues on a stranger? what is the reasoning behind a person who logs on so that he/she can call names and insult a person who is in a situation that they don't view as 'moral'? why can't they stay out of it, and leave it to people who can offer genuine and articulate advice?

2007-02-03 12:48:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i recently got in contact with a guy i knew as a kid,when we were younger he was crazy about me.he keeps asking to hang out to see what can happen between us i guess romantically on his part anyway.he says he s single and doesnt have any female friends but he does have female associates that he keeps in contact with over the phone every now and then.he says theres nothing romantic between him and his associates but i feel like theres no real way to know if hes lying or not so i think its best to keep it or a friendship level it makes it easier for us both.any thoughts?

2007-02-03 12:47:45 · 3 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Friends

my best friend performed oral sex with this new boy she just met..and i am the one who intoduced them.
she's worried that she might get pregnant because she swallowed some..... when she was doing oral with the boy.
i feel bad cuz i also don't know if she will get pregnant or any other disease..

PLEASE GIVE US ADVICE IF YOU KNOW...
WILL SHE GET PREGNANT?? she's only 17.

2007-02-03 12:47:02 · 7 answers · asked by gabi c 2 in Singles & Dating

i met a guy nd fell for him, he told me he loved me everyday and was always around. Then out of no where he said that we are to close nd he isnt ready for a relationship so we should just be friends. it hurts me to just be friends with him because i am used to getting kisses etc.. he tells me i should wait about 3 months, thats a long time and i am willing to wait for him because i love him soooo much but im not sure if its the best idea, i dont wanna apear to be 'one of those chiks'
wat should i do???

2007-02-03 12:46:36 · 7 answers · asked by brOkenn 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad is currently deployed in Iraq and has plenty of spare time. I feel bad he never has anything to do but sleep and have been thing of something to send him so he wouldn't be nearly as bored, any suggestions?

2007-02-03 12:46:21 · 4 answers · asked by Confused guy 2 in Family

2007-02-03 12:46:13 · 7 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 12:46:04 · 5 answers · asked by HOPE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I been in many relationships.. (more than 40) good and bad and from every time I had a relationship even if got my heart broken or I broke someone else's heart I felt I had learn something new and had helped me in some way to become a better person..

but in my curent relationship he never even had a female friend and he is very unexperince on how you should be in a relationship.. he is doing many things wrong and yet I know he is very in love with me based on his actions rather his words.. and I do too...

but I been thinking if he get a bet more experince maybe it will help us build a better and much stronger relationship that may last forever...

I need to know if you would let him/her get experince if you were in my situation?


P.S. he is 26 and I am 22 and no I don't meant our sex life I meant relationship

2007-02-03 12:45:05 · 12 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy at school is VERY annoying, and yesterday he asked me to go the prom with him. He is nice i guess, he always tells me i am pretty and crap, but see the thing is i got him kicked out of our schools JROTC program, and he wants me to go. so i feel bad about it, and i am thinking about going, but is that wrong, to go just to make amends? plus you got to buy the dress and get the hair and nails done. and i can tell you now, i am a tom boy of sorts. so me in a dress may look wierd, lol. so should i go with this annoying boy or go to make amends with him?

2007-02-03 12:44:57 · 14 answers · asked by photo_girl_90 2 in Singles & Dating

the only thing is i dont know what finger it goes on. and im going to give it to her for her birthday at disneyland. can any one help me

2007-02-03 12:44:29 · 10 answers · asked by ramdom hero 1 in Weddings

My brother ha a wonderful girlfrend she is smart and very talented but she is a lot more better than me she is artistic,she can sew she does gardening hen we where at he dinner table whe she told my mom that she did all this she was like the dauthger of my heart and that there just hurt I try to talk to my mom but she always says get over it but what she said reall hurt me and plus am very jelous of my brothers girlfriend and very upset because me and my brother have never been close to all he is always out with her when i want to spend time with her i give him hints that I wan to spend time with but he never gets i my mom goes out of her way and buys her a venus fly trap for her it feelslike know one in this word understands my life as being sixteeen my brother is very disrepctful of me he was once on the phone with her until 1 am and i suffer for bipolar disorder and i need sleep and sleep doesnt come easy for me

2007-02-03 12:44:01 · 9 answers · asked by Lizzy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

we are in highschool and the same age so there is no problem there. but i have a friend and she is also friends with him. im pretty sure she doesnt like him but i think he has some type of attraction to her. and sometimes i think she might like him. he will bring her up as a subject sometimes and it will be totally random and sometimes she will say "i love you to him" and she says it in a "joking" way, but sometimes it doesnt sound so jokingly. if im with one of them then the other one will ask where the other one is. our relationship has been less connected than it used to be. and i dont know if i should break up with him or not.... but i really like him. and also me and him never hang out but they are always together. what should i do? and is there anything going on between them? thanks.

2007-02-03 12:43:56 · 5 answers · asked by <3iluvluv<3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 12:43:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-03 12:43:16 · 16 answers · asked by cheryl j 1 in Singles & Dating

? is there a perfect match? give me some wisdom people. i'm kinda down right now

2007-02-03 12:43:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm lonely and I find a girl with tattoos attractive.

2007-02-03 12:42:50 · 10 answers · asked by Keith Partin 1 in Singles & Dating