My friend is OBSESSED with this guy! But, I like him too! She'll get way mad if she finds out I like him too. AND, I think HE likes me. My friend is already suspicious and I'm gonna get in trouble. What do I do?
2007-02-03 12:58:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sleep with him first....worked for me.
2007-02-03 13:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by transvainia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now Now.. thats not really true.. I have been in some of those. Some wome are just crazy and do not deal with rejection well. Not wanting to go there but the woman im with now is like that.. I have broke up with her so many times and thinking about doing it again for good this time.. Shes CRAZY!! thats a whole nother story.. but um.. she would be outside of my home calling.. and call me for help and make up all sorts of stories just to be with me.. and on some real ish.. I would not be calling her even when I was just chillin on my own.. when I would have a woman she would do extra even go to my myspace and send messages to every woman she thought I was with ... So the only thing that brotha can do is.. change his phone number and get it non listed.. if he does that and it keeps on.. he is doing something than.
2016-05-24 01:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is a golden rule among girlfriends....u dont mess with your gf's boyfriends.
However, this guy isnt her bf, so that makes him untaken.
I say tell her and then just roll with it. See who he chooses. If she gets mad.....then she isnt a friend afterall.
If she feels like u shouldnt even like anyone she likes, then whos to say she wouldnt say she likes any guy that is remotely cute?
Thats not hardly fair to the rest of you girls.
If she hasnt dated him, go for it. Let her deal with it in her own way. It isnt your fault if he chooses you over her.
Good luck.
2007-02-03 13:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. If she is a good friend then the problem will easily solve. Othe way, ask the man the question that whether he like you or not. The answer will absolutely help him to choose his lover, between you and your friend.
2007-02-03 13:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by keo p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, if she gets mad at u then she's not a real friend, I mean y get mad at u if it's only a guy, this had happened to me once, my best friend like this guy name Cory!, and I started to like him, even if he went out with almost every girl, N-E-Way, I told her I liked him, (before Christmas break) She didn't get mad at me, but then, he his friend Juan ask me if I wanted to go out with him, I said yes, and so, lunch time, My friend found out and got mad at me!,(happened before x-mas break) well I know that's a long story, sorry, But just tell ur friend, and you'll c who's ur real friend.........hmmmmmm....hopes this helps......
2007-02-03 13:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Shay. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this would depend on if your friend ship is real. You have to ask yourself is this guy worth losing a friend over. Sounds to me like this guy is enjoying this. there is alot of guys out there who like being with one girl then getting with the friend behind there back. I would put some seriouse thought in this.
2007-02-03 13:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by redfirecracker2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur friend dznt control u, ur attraction, or the ppl who lik u! if she cant respect that shes not a good friend... take control of ur own life n if she gets mad @ u explain shes not ur ruler!
2007-02-03 13:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by ♥SwEeT_SpOrT_ChIk♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with your mouth. say hey i like the same guy. works for me
2007-02-03 13:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by McDaniel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i think is that if you are friends then you should be able to tell her that and she should not get
bye annsie lots of love emmsie
2007-02-03 13:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by pretty you 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her if she's affraid of a little competition and take him.
2007-02-03 13:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by soquetrumpet1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋