Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

People are telling me that I am being used because I am in a long distance relationship (new - 3 months) with a man who had been seeing someone also long distance before me and has not broken it off yet. Both relationships are sexual. I am hoping he will break off the other relationship without my having to ask him and am giving him time to make sure I am who he really wants. I know we should not have been sexual but if just happened. We have a great time together. If he is using me then why does he call me every day and get involved in every aspect of my life? Doesn't that mean that he must have real feelings for me and plans to work on the relationship as though it has a future - even though he hasn't broken it off with her yet? I mean if he was just using me why would he show some much interest and waste so much time every day showing me that he cares? It does hurt me that he hasn't ended it with her but I am hoping he will soon. Doesn't he sound serious about me?

2007-02-03 13:36:34 · 20 answers · asked by lover_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

What is your nickname?
How did you get it?
Who gave it to you?
Do your friends call you by that nickname or just one person?

2007-02-03 13:36:28 · 24 answers · asked by YAWN 6 in Friends

I can't afford to pay my rent tommorrow because my transmission went out last week.I will need my car because I live in Redlands California and work 25 miles away in Fontana.I suffer from a wage garnishment as well.Is it possible for me to break my lease then use my rent money to fix my car?Should I sleep in my car until my money is right or should I go to a pay by the week motel.I don't wanna move back to Mississippi because the wages suck really bad like $6.00 an hour bad.I love California and I like my job.I have my co worker take me to and from work and I even pay for the gas but he still causes me to be late.My boss is very understanding and even let me use the company van some last week.Should I sleep at my jobs parking lot and go to the health club to shower everyday untill I save up for a apartment?I found this place in San Bernardino that will find me a place for 500.00 a month but they want a 150.00 sign in fee then they promise to find you a place.I am all alone out here.

2007-02-03 13:36:21 · 8 answers · asked by spice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, the situation was like this. Next to my house is a vacant lot.. sometime i clean the front /yard from that lot and since i moved to my house couple years ago. i always have problem with this nasty old skinny skank, she have dog and always let her dog shitting and peeing on that front lot/yard.. and never pick-up after that. One day i tried to talk to her but her respond was so rude.. since that day i just never talk to her.. until last couple hour she curse on my mom because my mom just try to talk to her don't let her dog peing over there.. because smell so stink,
then after that we had argue.. she called me b**th.. and other nasty word and still she did not take her dog s.h.i with her..
i just called police and report to them about that skank..
My question is can i make press charge about her because she was so racist and called me other nasty name??
then what should i do to make everybody stop to leave their dog s.h.i.t to that vacant lot?
is there any law or else

2007-02-03 13:36:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-03 13:34:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, girls who aren't totally wierd think about guys a whole bunch!!!!!! Do guys think about girls all the time, too? I wanted to know because I wanted to see if a guy I like might think about me a lot, too!!!

2007-02-03 13:34:28 · 5 answers · asked by Katiee 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't trust myself, nor anyone else. I trust my dad the most out of anyone. I trusted a person I once dated. That's all.

2007-02-03 13:34:18 · 8 answers · asked by :-) 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this kid in my history and english class... but i dont know if he likes me... i want to do something for him on valentines day but i dont know wat!!!!
help me plz!!!!

2007-02-03 13:34:18 · 13 answers · asked by awsomehottierocks 1 in Singles & Dating

for a professional massage in it and also give him a card. He's my BF of less than 3 months.

2007-02-03 13:34:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I should be working on a project for my job right now, but can't get around to doing it. I don't want to, should I meet up with a new boy that likes me today and do it tommorow, or should I get it over with and risk not meeting him?

2007-02-03 13:33:55 · 12 answers · asked by Rock, Paper, Scissors 7 in Singles & Dating

i fall inlove with a married man ,our secret relatioship last for about 7 yrs.i decided to have baby from him i dont expect any support from him,i dont expect him to be with me all i want is baby from him regardless of the sopport from him that is ok for me.he told me that if i want baby ,he agreed but he wanted baby boy and if girl he will not care.if we dont see each other he dont care to text or call me,he even forget me maybe!i want to know if he is still there for me..even i know that he will not be mine forever..pls help me

2007-02-03 13:33:43 · 12 answers · asked by seductive77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean cuz my friend who is now 23 has a boyfriend and she is ages apart from him

2007-02-03 13:33:13 · 30 answers · asked by chels 2 in Singles & Dating

I seem to have a better relationship with my mother-in-law than I do with my husband. My mother-in-law and I are planning to get a house together, with me and my husband. When my husband and I get into arguements she sides with me and it pisses him off. So is it a goo idea to let the mother-in-law move with us. She gets drunk on weekends but is still a good grandmom.

2007-02-03 13:33:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hes an ordinary guy who used to be really nice. now whenever we go to movies or the mall or something he wants to kiss and thats it. PLEASE help me!!!

2007-02-03 13:32:57 · 8 answers · asked by Willow 1 in Singles & Dating

when I got my divorce, I was making a lot more moneies then compared to what I make now. I am about to lose my home if I cant keep up on things. Is there a way to reduce my child-support or eliminate it without looking like the bad guy. She( my ex) is making monies now but not on paper. How can I use that in court to protect me so that I dont find myself on the street.

2007-02-03 13:32:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know this guy online. We met in a virtual world, and know eachother by pretend names. We both know eachother by our virtual names. Though we also both name eachothers real names. We have said I love you a lot of times, using both our pretend names, Last night he said I love you, and used my real name. Might this suggest that he wants a real relationship, outside of the internet? By the way, I am 25 years old, and old enough for either sort of relationship, I am single, I just wanted to know if anyone thought this hinted at anything.

2007-02-03 13:31:50 · 18 answers · asked by amelia e 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf want to get married later down the road..but im catholic and hes a jehovahs witness and as you all know..they have very different beliefs..and they dont celebrate holidays at all..and i never thought it was a big deal..until now that im in a serious relationship with my boyfriend..because when we have kids i wont be able to celebrate birthdays or mothers day or fathers day and christmas..etc..but my family still does..and they dont want me to change religions..and my boyfriend has told me that in order for our relationship to work ..is for us to think the same way and we cant if we have different beliefs..i need opinions please! :(

2007-02-03 13:31:47 · 24 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Weddings

but he likes someone else...how do I make it known to him that I like him without seeming to needy?

2007-02-03 13:30:08 · 10 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Singles & Dating

experience (or too much experince) does not mean will be helpful to build a strong lasting relationship.. what are the dos and don'ts I should be doing to help him and me be in a healthy postive relationship..

2007-02-03 13:29:54 · 4 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Serious opinions please. It seems as if when you decide to enter into a long term relationship, just because things get rocky, it's no reason to walk away. I thought you were suppose to keep trying. But how do you know when there's no more need for trying?

2007-02-03 13:29:24 · 28 answers · asked by Honey 6 in Marriage & Divorce

experience (or too much experince) does not mean will be helpful to build a strong lasting relationship.. what are the dos and don'ts I should be doing to help him and me be in a healthy postive relationship..

2007-02-03 13:29:08 · 9 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Singles & Dating

Mama said
You cant hurry love
No, youll just have to wait
She said love dont come easy
But its a game of give and take
You cant hurry love
No, youll just have to wait
Just trust in a good time
No matter how long it takes

2007-02-03 13:28:50 · 5 answers · asked by Éan 3 in Singles & Dating

Just a thought, I want to know what the world is thinking.

2007-02-03 13:28:45 · 10 answers · asked by nsqueet 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this ex-friend that did something bad 2 me a long time ago, I forgave her,and I try 2 be her friend again but she doesn't want 2. So I don't bother anymore, but I met this guy, he is very sweet, nice, honest, and caring. We became friends, but I started 2 like him. I thought everything was going 2 be okay, except I found out my ex-friend likes the guy I like 2. I don't want 2 hurt her by taking him away, because I'm not heartless like her, but I really like this guy. So I had a talk with him, and he told me he doesn't really like my ex-friend, because she is 2 attached 2 him and she talks about him alot like they were getting married. He told me he doesn't like that, and he doesn't even want nothing 2do with her. I know he doesn't like her and I probably have a shot with him, but even though I'm not her friend anymore I don't want 2 hurt her like she did 2 me. So what should I do??

2007-02-03 13:27:46 · 16 answers · asked by Ash C 2 in Friends

What is up with all the women these days saying their husbands refuse sex.... this is unheard of . Are men so far out of touch these days with their masculinety that they no longer have THE DRIVE? I blame it all on these woman forceing their men to dress like Ryan Seacrest and the holr METRO push and they are reaping the reprecussions of it all ... Where are all the REAL MEN ???

2007-02-03 13:27:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've always wondered...but since i'm not a guy i shall never know...so i decided to ask

(please don't be rude...if you feel the urge please don't post an awnser...it would be very much appreciated)

2007-02-03 13:27:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is up with all the women these days saying their husbands refuse sex.... this is unheard of . Are men so far out of touch these days with their masculinety that they no longer have THE DRIVE? I blame it all on these woman forceing their men to dress like Ryan Seacrest and the holr METRO push and they are reaping the reprecussions of it all ... Where are all the REAL MEN ???

2007-02-03 13:27:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he has been gone for 18 months
what routines will change
what will happen when he comes back
what are 13 year old boys going threw?

2007-02-03 13:27:09 · 4 answers · asked by godschild 5 in Family

i saw this really hot guy at this place and he looks really nice. i know hes a lot older than me. i am 13 and i think he might be around 16, maybe 18. is that too big of an age difference to ask him out?

2007-02-03 13:26:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and me had an altercation (I was messing with someone else), but after I realized how much I love her I am willing to prove to her that I am not a bad boy. I don't go to the clubs or bars (unless me friend is deejaying that night). After work, I go home and give her a call. Plus, when I invite her over I sometimes make dinner or take her out. But I feel that some of her feelings has changed for me. So how can I prove that I am not the same a**hole she once knew? Ladies, you comments are appreciated

2007-02-03 13:26:07 · 10 answers · asked by Kingston 2 in Singles & Dating