I seem to have a better relationship with my mother-in-law than I do with my husband. My mother-in-law and I are planning to get a house together, with me and my husband. When my husband and I get into arguements she sides with me and it pisses him off. So is it a goo idea to let the mother-in-law move with us. She gets drunk on weekends but is still a good grandmom.
2007-02-03 13:33:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As a general rule, living with in-laws is NOT a good idea. Although it sounds like you have a good relationship with her, it sounds like her relationship with her son is a little rocky. Letting her move in will likely only accentuate the fact that she doesn't get along well with him, and will cause a rift between you and your husband -- not a good idea. The closest that I would let her move is next door... maybe a duplex? To me, that would still be a little too close for comfort.
2007-02-04 03:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you have such a good relationship with your mother-in-law, but don't let it be a detriment to your marriage. Don't let your MIL move in unless your husband supports it as well.
2007-02-04 18:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finances, sex and then inlaws are the biggest cause of divorce. If you want to stay married don't stay so involved with her.
2007-02-04 20:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋