i saw this really hot guy at this place and he looks really nice. i know hes a lot older than me. i am 13 and i think he might be around 16, maybe 18. is that too big of an age difference to ask him out?
2007-02-03 13:26:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would you do something so stupid
ok so i am 13 too
but the thing is why would you go ask a really hot guy who you didn't even know?
that sounds extremely stupid, and plus why not ask somonewho is cute and you know him?
plus the older guy might use you
come on use your brain
and just cause i think like this doesn't mean that i don't have frineds or a bf
i have both
and im pretty popular too
not to sound like an egotistic bitc* but yeah
2007-02-03 13:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by GeTtHeExTrAcReDiTcUzIaM2mUcH4yOu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that before you ask him out you should find out how old he is. I'm 14 and I'm dating a guy that is 16 and I don't think anything is wrong with it... after all girls do mature faster than guys so we're pretty much at the same maturity rate. Once you find out how old he is then that should help make your decision. If he's 18 he's not worth it, that age difference is too much. If he's 17 that's still a little much but not as bad and if he's 16 i would say go for it! But be careful. You want to make sure he's not just in it to take advantage of you. Me and my boyfriend plan on staying virgins and we still have fun in our relationship. Just don't let him pressure you into anything.
2007-02-03 21:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Choconilla♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are asking the question i think you already know.... at 16-18--- guys are usually thinking about one thing... and even if you are a mature 13 it could be one of the biggest mistakes you could make.... wait... it's worth it...and if he's worth it he'll be around a few years from now... not to mention the major law infractions for an 18+ to have a relationship with a 13 yr old...
2007-02-03 21:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Robyn R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm 16 and I know how boys my age think...compared to when I was 13. It might not seem like a big deal, but in all reality you all live in two separate generations.
2007-02-03 21:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by SweetiePie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm ... that's a toughie.... lets see ... introduce ur self like say Hey Im.... and then compliment him... (guys love compliments..) then see what he has to say ... walk a way and see if he tries to stop u.... if he doesnt then turn around and be like "Hey ... there is this movie playin that is soppused to be really kool... and all of my friends are goin with a date... would u care to be mine for a night?"
then just see what he has to say.. he might think that ur too young.. then yea u are... but other wise take a chance and speak ur mind.. its a lot easier and works a lot faster... thats what i learned with my boyfriend... he came to school being a new kid and i told him his 3rd day that i thought he was cute and admitted to likein him... a month later once we got to know each other we started datin...
2007-02-03 21:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it really matters. If you only saw him somewhere and you only think he sounds nice, then you need to wait... that is a little too fast, and slower is better for a great relationship!
2007-02-03 21:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Katiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 16 and would never go out with a girl that young
2007-02-03 21:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy (who wouldn't be too bad looking) I would def. see if your eye catching,and If you said hi to me that wouldn't be awkward.You could be friends with me and then build up your relationship from there.
naw meen?
2007-02-03 21:30:17 · answer #8 · answered by Highfive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask him out. go out with someone closer to your age. good luck
2007-02-03 21:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think age doesn't matter...as long as both of you are happy...just dont tell mommy=]]
2007-02-03 21:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by christopher m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋