Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

Let me give you some background. This guy has been one of my best friends for a year and a half and just a week ago we finally told eachother how we felt about eachother. All through the week he has been wonderful and sweet to me. He's not trying too move fast, nor does he move too slowly. To me he's my 'perfect guy'. But today we went to the movies with some of our friends and I could tell he was hinting to hold my hand... but I didn't notice until after he gave up. :( Then after the movie he walked right past me and went up to my other friends in front of me. Our shoulders brushed and it didn't feel like an accident, but then he hardly talked to me for the rest of the time we were hanging out, which was only a half hour, because then he left without telling me why. And when he left he never even gave me a goodbye hug. I don't know what's going on, and I don't want to annoy him, so I'm not sure if I should call him or not. At least, not yet. What is going through his head?

2007-02-03 13:25:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to Florida and your wife won't go cause she won't fly, would you go?

2007-02-03 13:24:39 · 14 answers · asked by ><>JHF<>< 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Once people get married they have a tendancy to get tooooo comfortable and do things like pee with the door open, or want to talk to their spouse while going to the bathroom... would you do that or do you do that... and why?

2007-02-03 13:24:03 · 2 answers · asked by smurfette 3 in Singles & Dating

yo yo yo y is it dat so many girls like me yo its crazy they r tryin to give me der numbers and stuff whats up yo

2007-02-03 13:23:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not to be too invasive, but on a regular basis does the Male or Female in your relationship initiate sex. Or, is it about 50/50. Thanks!

2007-02-03 13:23:03 · 29 answers · asked by Ak K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How long after a guy's mom dies, should you wait before asking him out? Complicated relationship. He asked me out right while I was breaking up and our date did not go well. We still talk every now and then and are both attracted to each other; but timing is never good. About a year ago, his mom died; before the holidays, his mom's cousin started going through the same type of illness as his mom and he was afraid she was going to die, too. Don't think it'd be appropriate to ask him out on a date, yet (especially with Valentines' coming up). How long should I wait? And, I'd like to call just to make sure he's ok...Ideas?

2007-02-03 13:22:51 · 14 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Singles & Dating

a couple of weeks ago i got my first period (im 13) and then i had lunch and the benches and tables were white so i sat down and i got up and it was red on the seat so i told my friend and we went to thhe locker room so i could change into my sweats. but while we were leaving my bff and crush (GUY) was right behind me walking the same way and i had a HUGE red stain on the back of my pants and i turned around and said "hi joey!" and then while i was changeing from my pants into my sweats i realized he had to of seen it since it was huge! i mean how embarresing?!?
soo do u guys think he noticed???

2007-02-03 13:22:20 · 11 answers · asked by :) 4 in Singles & Dating

I really like one of my friends. I am not sure if she knows it, though.

In my mind I have been planning to surprise her on Valentines Day.
I wanted to leave some gifts for her in each of her classes, and
leave clues for her on each of them. On the last one, I want to tell
her that I like her, I am not sure how she will react to this, and I am not sure if this is a good idea.

We have known each other around 2 years. I really like her and I am afraid that she wont feel the same way about me.

If anyone could please give me other ideas & tell me if it a good idea or if I should think of something else? Am I coming on to strong?

2007-02-03 13:22:05 · 28 answers · asked by Sancho... 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 13:21:26 · 5 answers · asked by sexyallday 1 in Singles & Dating

how do yu tell if a girl likes you. i have a friend that i used to date then we broke up and did not talk as much as we use to. now latly we have been talking every night. i still have feelings for her. i wanna know how to tell her i like her but then agin i dont , but how do i know if she likes me?

2007-02-03 13:21:13 · 7 answers · asked by christian k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and i made plans to see each other and he stood me up i rang and rang his phone i sent text messges and i wait then decied to go to his house but i have only been there twice i got lost that was all day yestday i and still havent herd from and he hanvt talk to me for 5 days is this bad?

2007-02-03 13:20:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mi u knoe what thats by the butt is hurting like crazy
i am 14 and a vergin
idont wanna tell mi mom
its a really awkward question
plzz help!!

2007-02-03 13:19:43 · 1 answers · asked by jen kutcher 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, the situation was like this.
next to my house is a vacant lot.. sometime i clean the front /yard from that lot.. and since i moved to my house couple years ago.. i always have problem with this nasty old skinny skank, she have dog and always let her dog shitting and peeing on that front lot/yard.. and never pick-up after that..
one day i tried to talk to her but her respond was so rude..since that day i just never talk to her.. until last couple hour she curse on my mom because my mom just try to talk to her don't let her dog peing over there.. because smell so stink,
then after that we had argue.. she called me b**th.. and other nasty word and still she did not take her dog s.h.i with her..
i just called police and report to them about that skank..
My question is can i make press charge about her because she was so racist and called me other nasty name??
then what should i do to make everybody stop to leave their dog s.h.i.t to that vacant lot?
is there any law or else

2007-02-03 13:18:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 23
Im 6,0 tall
185 pounds
Blue eyes
Blonde hair
I am very nice
I get along with every one
I play football, basketball, Pool, Hockey,
I very sweet
Romantic
generous
im a neat dresser
I listen to anything in music

2007-02-03 13:18:37 · 37 answers · asked by Chris F 3 in Singles & Dating

my sister is crazy her boyfriend is married and has been for 25 yrs and she knows it she has been messing around with him for over a year putting up with his foolishness and on his time why?

2007-02-03 13:18:05 · 10 answers · asked by drightchristy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have seen this guy around school. When I first walked passed him, I noticed at the corner of my eye that he was staring at me (my face, to be exact.) I looked back at him, and he did not avert his gaze. And now, whenever we walk pass each other, I noticed that he'd look straight ahead when he'd see me, glance at me for a couple of seconds, then would quickly look away.

Does he think I'm attractive? What exactly is he thinking?

We don't know each other at all, if that helps.

Please, rude comments aren't appreciated.

2007-02-03 13:17:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need some advice. i really like my guy best friend who went out with one of my closest friends. i think that he might have some feelings for me also.and i want to tell him how i feel but im afraid it will ruin our friendship, and im afraid of how he might react. * guys if this has happened to you tell me what you think about this dilema**

2007-02-03 13:17:53 · 2 answers · asked by lkolka 3 in Singles & Dating

i dunno why but i am bored

2007-02-03 13:17:49 · 12 answers · asked by jen kutcher 2 in Friends

shes 14 or 15 ... im 18. i thought she was a junior but shes a freshman. im a senior. shes a great girl... got everything i look for in a girl but the age difference. yes i realize that would be illegal. whatchu think?

2007-02-03 13:17:30 · 9 answers · asked by Mr. Bobby D - The Angels Fan 3 in Singles & Dating

ok..theres dis guy dah i really like..buh he says he dont like me...buh then his best friend was flirtin around wit me and he put his arm around me "supposedly playin wit ma hair"....and [[[he]]] was lookin all sad and everythin....[[[he]]] tried 2 look everywhere buh where we were....so im confused...do u think he likes me or not?!??!

2007-02-03 13:17:27 · 6 answers · asked by Genny gennie gen gen~~~~~~~~~!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

the last time that my hubby and I had sex. We got married 9 months ago and should be in the 'honeymoon" phase of our relationship....I'm to the point now where I have just stopped asking because I don't want to be a nag....I'm just so sad. I like sex and I can't believe this is happening....

2007-02-03 13:16:22 · 10 answers · asked by MK 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom passed away when i was 9 and didn't know my dad. i only seen him 3x since age 6. he has denied me a father/daughter relationship and then died last year on my bday. my 18yr old sister had legal gaurdianship of me and my twin sister, but often separated, even in school, as we fought each other.today we are NOT close. my mom had 6 total kids, we are all in diff. states so im alone and now 34, single mom.. I am "frustrated" about things i have gone through in life and would like to know ways people cope with death/trauma.(5 family members passed in 1 year recently) &NO i am NOT on drugs) how did you cope? any time i talked to a dr. they would put me on anti depressants and NO pill will help heal growing up with no parents. doesn't work 4 me
My relationships in the past were all negative, and i stay single now. Why is it that people who grew up with no parents (fathers ) have bad relationships? my twin is co-dependant. im very independant. .. ok enough for now thanks.

2007-02-03 13:16:07 · 19 answers · asked by deniseinoakland@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family

I am sorry and I know that I just asked this, but I forgot something.
I think about him constantly. I have a diary with his name written in big black letters on the front. I have written many songs about him. I think that he is perfect.
If I am, what should I do? My parents say that I am too young to date.
Additional Details

17 minutes ago
I also want to know if I am in love!
And my parents are very strict and I have to wait 4 years! It is crazy!

16 minutes ago
The only reason that I am asking is because this is the first time and I don't know what it feels like.

10 minutes ago
My heart races when he enters the room. I Sit next to him in all of my classes.

I am on a strict diet FOR HIM! I HAVE basically STOPPED EATING!

2007-02-03 13:16:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't understand at all why my husband doesn't ever try to make love to me? We've been together for 4 years now and he has always managed to find an excuse for the way he neglects me, but they are wearing out. I don't think I can deal with this much longer. He is always (and I mean always) satisfying himself, but as soon as I return to the room, he acts like nothing is going on.
He told me one time, if I would get him some viagra from the Dr. that this would help us. I got 16 of them. All of which he took once I had gone to sleep and he was alone. I love him and I know he loves me but I am very confused and I don't know how much more I can take. What is the problem and what can I do to change this?

2007-02-03 13:15:53 · 20 answers · asked by a17blossom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the guy ive been dating 4 a long time is shutting everybody out now. his friends keep asking me whats wrong w/him cus nobody's heard from him in a long time. last i heard he was having financial problems & has been working himself 2 death! he's not talking to ANYBODY right now. 1st, i thought it was just me & i thought i had done something wrong cus he stopped talking 2 me b4 cus he assumed something that wasnt true. im a little worried now cus nobody really knows how he's doing or anything. last time i saw him, he was feeling kinda down and was really quiet. i text him from time 2 time & leave a voicemail seldomly. im really scared, but i just wanna get him 2 communicate w/me. i always let him know when i do text & talk 2 him that i care and im ALWAYS there 4 him no matter what. what should i do and what do u think is going on w/him? HELP!!!!!!!

2007-02-03 13:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 13:13:55 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

if I always want to be with my best friend, pass my arm arouand her, give her huggs though i don't do that? see, i've never done any of these things with her. I always want to talk to her, tell her how amazing she is, that i'm glad she's in love, i tell her she's unique, right now, i want her next to me, give her a hug, and let her go, what does it mean?

2007-02-03 13:13:53 · 18 answers · asked by sara 1 in Friends

been married 30 yrs, love her but she doesn't seem to want to have sex, well the way I like it.

2007-02-03 13:13:04 · 4 answers · asked by Les the painter 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This is a serious question and I need to know .I'm confused right now and am not sure.My husband insists that it's not, because I promised to "give that to him" when I married him. Why are some men kind and loving,while others are down-right mean to their wives at times? I try and try, but it's never enough or good enough. I have no family to turn to-I just need some advice. We've been married for 6 1/2 yrs. I'm 30, he's 47(and in excellent physical shape for 47). We have no kids.Yet, I'm afraid if I leave he will do something crazy. Advice?

2007-02-03 13:12:58 · 25 answers · asked by angelia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-03 13:12:55 · 16 answers · asked by Gaby S 1 in Friends