my sister is crazy her boyfriend is married and has been for 25 yrs and she knows it she has been messing around with him for over a year putting up with his foolishness and on his time why?
2007-02-03 13:18:05 · 10 answers · asked by drightchristy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
TO BE HONEST, PEOPLE DO CRAZY THINGS WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE, AND FOR LOVE THEY PUT UP WITH ALL KIND OF FOOLISHNESS AND TO HOLD THEM THEY EVEN GO TO THE EXTEND IN TO HAVE A CHILD THINKING HE MIGHT LEAVE HIS WIFE AND BE WITH HER.
SHE IS NOT THINKING THAT AFTER BEING WITH THE WIFE FOR 25 YRS HE IS NEVER GOING TO LEAVE HER.
NO MATTER WHAT HE HAS WITH HER, THE WIFE ALWAYS COMES FIRST.
IS SAD TO SEE HER GO THRU THIS, I KNOW, MY SISTER DID THE SAME THING, UNTILL SHE SAID NO ONE DAY AND TOLD HIM SHE WASNT GOING TO BE HIS DOOR MATT ANY MORE, NEXT THING I KNOW, HE WAS CALLING HER SAYING AM SORRY TO PLEASE SEE HIM, AND WHEN SHE GAVE IN TO HIS CALLS SHE WENT TO MEET HIM AT THE SAME PLACE.
SHE CALLED ME UP AND TOLD ME SHE HAD AN ACCIDENT THAT SHE WAS FINE, TO PICK HER UP AT THE HOSPITAL. WHEN I WENT TO PICK HER UP SHE WAS BLACK AND BLUE AND HAD A CUT ON HER FORHEAD, BUSTED LIP, BLACK EYE AND A BROKEN ARM.
YES, HE DID THAT TO HER BECAUSE SHE SAID SHE WOULDNT MEET HIM. MY BROTHER AND I GOT HER HOME. PUT IN HER BED. LATER THAT WEEK SHE PACK ALL HER BAGS AND LEFT THE STATE RUNNING FROM HIM. I MYSELF WAS NOT HAPPY WITH THIS, BUT HELP HER. MONTHS LATER I LEARN HE HAD ANOTHER WOMAN.
MY SISTER DIDNT MADE THE COMPLAIN AGAINST HIM BUT I DID. AND HE WAS ARRESTED FOR HURTING ANOTHER WOMAN.
2007-02-03 13:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by ââ¢Â¥*~áƦ~NYSunrise~áƦ~*ââ¢Â¥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not good, i hope the wife does not find out that can be deadly for her(your sister) a woman scorn is not a good site, to be messing with a man that is married, come on all these single guys out here and you have to settle for a married man......
2007-02-03 13:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible that she has low self esteem or she just does not want to put up with the usual relationship. She may like the fact that he can not put demands on her ect. Some women do and then there is of course the forbidden to consider you know what they say anything stolen tastes better ect than if it was not.
2007-02-03 13:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by billc4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people have this overwhelming need to feel like they are loved. (even if its by a scum bag cheater)
maybe an anonymous note to the wife would put a stop to this relationship. (and maybe the wife knows and doesn't care) if hes been married 25 years its not likely this is his one and only affair or that he loves your sister and is going to leave his wife for her. it just isn't going to happen.
2007-02-03 13:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from me im involved with a man who has been with his girlfriend for 11 yrs. he has 5 kids. and has been in jail. i do things with him because i love the way he treats me. there isnt a particular answer its just i love being around him. i know its wrong and i no what im doing but that makes it more exciting.
2007-02-03 13:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by britt12790@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just crazy! What is she thinking? If she was in his wife's shoes she woudl be so hurt tofind out her husand was chatig on her. Tell her what is up!
2007-02-03 13:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by llisaisme80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a homewrecker. I hope that she doesnt have a baby with him for the kids sake.
2007-02-03 13:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she might have low self esteem.
2007-02-03 13:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by boilerman426 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we cannot find some ones mind
2007-02-03 13:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
and shes STUPID..
2007-02-03 13:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by *LOU* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋