if I always want to be with my best friend, pass my arm arouand her, give her huggs though i don't do that? see, i've never done any of these things with her. I always want to talk to her, tell her how amazing she is, that i'm glad she's in love, i tell her she's unique, right now, i want her next to me, give her a hug, and let her go, what does it mean?
2007-02-03 13:13:53 · 18 answers · asked by sara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I can see that you adore her. She is at 'the top of the food chain" to you which rocks. Take care of her and always be there for her, which I'm sure you already are kiddo. I am confused with a statement you made "i want her next to me, give her a hug, and let her go". If you were a lesbian (this is just my opinion) why would you ever want to "let her go"....If you are or are not a lesbian it's up to you kiddo. Don't ever look at that in a negative way. For your life is as important as any ones - don't ever forget that. If I may I would suggest that you need to find out if you are a lesbian. If so or not you'll know more about yourself and that is the key to leading your life kiddo...Good luck angel...:)>
2007-02-03 13:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can I ask you a question..... would it be a bad thing if you are a lesbian? I am happily married with 2 daughters, but if life had turned out differently I don't think I'd have a problem swapping teams, now back to your question, you mentioned telling her your glad she's in love... is she in a serious relationship with a guy? next question, how old are you, we all go through different phases in our lives and finding your sexuality is just another phase you have to endure. I have the belief that if you can't deal with the answer don't ask the question, meaning if you don't get the answer you want can you cope with that, if not keep quiet, if you feel strong emotions for this girl and your brave, tell her how you feel, but REALLY let her know that no matter what nothing will harm your friendship, you just felt the need to be honest with her about how you feel when your with her, and how you feel when you're apart, good luck, take care, I hope it brings you happiness, Yvette
2007-02-03 21:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by The Boss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only u can answer that. i give my friends hugs all the time & i am not a lesbian! i tell my friends theyre unique & i tell them theyre very pretty, but im just trying to be a good friend. after all, only u know if u have feelings for someone in that way. i think as time goes on, u will be able to figure out if u are or not. having to ask makes it a little iffy if u know ur true feelings.
2007-02-03 21:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's s girls nature to be loving & caring, it doent mean tat ur a lesbian. Don't worry about it. Give her a hug n tell here she's the best friend you've got. Guess she's ok with it.
2007-02-03 21:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a very odd person, arent you?
hmm...i hug my girl friends all the time, and i am NOT a lesbian. i tell my friends that they are uniqe. i tell them they are pretty. but i am just being a good friend. maybe that is all ur doing. sometimes u just need a hug. that does not mean ur a lesbian. maybe try getting a hug from a guy friend. no problem there, i hug my guy friends all the time, i have like 50! geez!
2007-02-03 21:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by sweety_pie!! <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have sexual thoughts about her? Think about her A LOT? Wonder what it might be like if she told you she had feelings for you, perhaps that were a little confusing...and would like to talk about them? Or maybe it's just infatuation, her essence...not necessarily that you're "into" women. It takes a lot of soul searching to discover what kine of relationship you want and need to be fulfilled.
2007-02-03 21:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by foggyhart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that meant mean that you just care about her as a friend. but on the other hand you meant be starting to have feels for her.but just give her a huge if you feel that you shouldn't then don't .i have a lesbian friend and we been friends for about 6 months and she gives me hugs there's nothing wrong with it. unless you feel that it meant make her uncomfortable
2007-02-03 21:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by sheena w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just means that you are a great friend who is compassionate. Stop thinking so much into things.
Do you look at other women and think about being with them sexually? If so, then you need to be asking that question.
2007-02-03 21:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by totally ignored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you love your friend and there is nothing else to it. The nature of a good friend is truly loving the other person and cherishing their happiness. It sounds like you have that.
2007-02-03 21:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry i feel that way too... ever since my BF died i always want to hug, and be with all the time, the next closest person to me, my best friend. you should get a man, yes you should.. i, unfortunately, will not because i dont feel comfortable after what happened to my BF..
2007-02-03 21:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by cutiepi8903 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋