the guy ive been dating 4 a long time is shutting everybody out now. his friends keep asking me whats wrong w/him cus nobody's heard from him in a long time. last i heard he was having financial problems & has been working himself 2 death! he's not talking to ANYBODY right now. 1st, i thought it was just me & i thought i had done something wrong cus he stopped talking 2 me b4 cus he assumed something that wasnt true. im a little worried now cus nobody really knows how he's doing or anything. last time i saw him, he was feeling kinda down and was really quiet. i text him from time 2 time & leave a voicemail seldomly. im really scared, but i just wanna get him 2 communicate w/me. i always let him know when i do text & talk 2 him that i care and im ALWAYS there 4 him no matter what. what should i do and what do u think is going on w/him? HELP!!!!!!!
2007-02-03 13:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can only offer possible answers, because situations like this can be very different and hard to understand, but here goes:
He might just be trying to start over again. Sometimes people decide that their friends aren't good enough for them, and when they see the opertunity to get out of the situation they're in with them they'll take the oppertunity.
He may want a break from his life and is devoting more time to his work simply because it's consistent and allows him room to think about his life.
He may have something terribly wrong and is too scared to tell anyone, and is trying to deal with it himself.
Or it could be that he's just lost a sense of his friends and will eventually come back to them when he remembers how important they are in his life.
2007-02-03 13:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what u just told us. Find him, pull him aside and explain to him how you feel about whats going on some guys will talk if they feel somone cares enough to talk to them face to face and some don't but ether way its worth a shot hope this helps
2007-02-03 21:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Chad D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know that when he is ready to talk you with be there for him.
2007-02-03 21:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but you should sit him down and ask him.
2007-02-03 21:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by boilerman426 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
randomly run up to him and give hm a big hug!!
2007-02-03 21:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe [: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋