I am sorry and I know that I just asked this, but I forgot something.
I think about him constantly. I have a diary with his name written in big black letters on the front. I have written many songs about him. I think that he is perfect.
If I am, what should I do? My parents say that I am too young to date.
Additional Details
17 minutes ago
I also want to know if I am in love!
And my parents are very strict and I have to wait 4 years! It is crazy!
16 minutes ago
The only reason that I am asking is because this is the first time and I don't know what it feels like.
10 minutes ago
My heart races when he enters the room. I Sit next to him in all of my classes.
I am on a strict diet FOR HIM! I HAVE basically STOPPED EATING!
2007-02-03 13:16:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only reason i m dieting is because I think that he will like me better that way...
2007-02-03 13:21:31 · update #1
You are in obsession. I know it feels like love, and in some ways, I'm sure that there is love there, however, your running into the chance of losing yourself in this and that's not good. True love means being your whole self. That means NOT changing anything for someone else. Changing your weight, hair, clothes, makeup, personality, etc. will NOT make him like you more. This is a hard lesson to learn, and it's one that only you can teach yourself. Focus on your grades and getting into a good college so you can get a job that you'll enjoy going to instead of "stuck doing". The guys WILL be there. Most are attracted to a girl who is smart enough to make her dreams a reality. DO NOT make ANY guy your HOBBY!!! Big mistake and a total time waster. Guys like to chase girls not the other way around. If he loves you just a "tiny" bit more than you love him, he'll probably never cheat on you (advice that a good friend of mine gave me when I met my now husband and I started dating him. She's been with her husband now almost 25 years and I've been with mine almost 10.) Focus on your own interests. If you don't have a hobby, start exploring things that interest you. There really is LOTS of time to do it all! Get the education. Enjoy dating, but don't get serious until your closer to 25! That way, there's NO regrets. TONs of time to have kids to if you want them! We wanted a child. We waited until 30 to do so. Again, NO REGRETS! I got do the things I wanted to do in my life before our son was born. Of course there's always the next goal, etc. but NO REGRETS! Make sure that it is YOUR dreams that you are making YOUR reality.
2007-02-03 13:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dear, it doesn't sound like u r in love, this is just a crush. N, pls don't ask, "IF this is jus a crush, then, what is love?" coz, in all these years, not 1 person has been able 2 give a proper definition 4 Love!
2007-02-03 13:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by SMILEY B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is lust but enjoy it because the feeling is amazing it can eventually grow into love and when you are in love you will know it, you wont have to stop eating you can eat everything and you wont care and you can be as fat as a cow or as skinny as a stick and it wont matter to him or you, and you wont ever look at him with judgemental eyes you will understand him for everything he is and for every thing he does
2007-02-03 13:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by christin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're definitely sprung but love is a strong word and if you truely love him you'd know love is deeper than physical attraction no one is worth starving over. If he's that great of a guy he'd like you for you
2007-02-03 13:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... you really are in love! But, still. It's not good for you to just stop eating fo nrhim. If it bis really true love, he would love you for who you are!!! Don't ever change yourself fo rsome guy that might not even be interested
PS: not saying that he's not interested, its just something that might happen!!! hope I didn't just bring you down there!
2007-02-03 13:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by Katiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to me it sounds more like a crush. It definately sounds more like me with my first crush than me with my girlfriend of 5 years.
2007-02-03 13:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your parents its not fair! that you should try if it's your first date. but if theysay life isn't fair then well you can't your not in love you just have a huge crush cause if have to ask then you aren't.
2007-02-03 13:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have stopped eating?
If love were like that we'de all be anorexic.
2007-02-03 13:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by amelia e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u SHOULD eat
y dont u tell him u luv him but tell him ur not allowed 2 date
go out w/ him w/out u parents knowing
2007-02-03 13:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by itz meeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl ur sooo in love.. congrats... dun worrry about ur parents.. as long as u know that ur in love with him... then its all good... now all u have to do is tell him how u feel...
P.S. ; dont go on diet,,, that'l ruin everything..
2007-02-03 13:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by The Questionable Human Being gal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋