my bf and i made plans to see each other and he stood me up i rang and rang his phone i sent text messges and i wait then decied to go to his house but i have only been there twice i got lost that was all day yestday i and still havent herd from and he hanvt talk to me for 5 days is this bad?
2007-02-03 13:20:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't call or go back over to his house. Just wait for him to call you. Let him explain his actions. There is really not enough information. I don't know how long you two have been talking or have he ever did anything like this before. But just be still and let this issue answer itself. In time you will get an answer to the truth. And you will know yourself if the relationship is in trouble or has something serious happen. Sometimes people have to handle things alone before they can share their problem with anyone, not to say this is right because you are the girlfriend but it happens. So just relax and let him talk without an argument and go from there. Good luck. Remember what love means to you, and you will know if it exist in your relationship. Because love cares for you in a way that will keep you at peace at all times.
2007-02-03 13:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be bad, but you have to give him the benefit of the doubt, what if his gma died or a relative you would feel really bad. Talk it out first and then decide. Take care Heather
2007-02-03 21:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not unless he is laid up in a hospital or dead, he has no excuse for standing you up, let alone not calling you for 5 days. I would say leave him alone. Once he sees that you appear to be over him, he will come running back like a sick puppy.
2007-02-03 21:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by totally ignored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure sounds it. I think you should move on and find yourself a man who can treat you right. Someone who is nice, treats you with respect and with courtesy. I can understand that sometimes a person can miss an appointment: but nice people call and apologize.
2007-02-03 21:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by Your Highness 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
real bad.
He either forgot,
is stuck in the hospital
or was just playing with you.
Confront him next time you hear from him, and keep calling, and texting.
2007-02-03 21:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhhh...Yeah! for Him if you are not smart enough to quit calling and find someone who has a better cellphone...I hear cingular has fewer dropped calls and girlfriends...?
2007-02-03 21:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by BAILEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for him to come around, and say that your sorry you couldn't make it. just act like you stood him up! thats what i would do!
2007-02-03 21:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by with The Vicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm, sorry to say this but I think you have been dumped... better just move on and chalk this one up to experience.
2007-02-03 21:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i say dump him. thze r signs of cheating
2007-02-03 21:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by ♥SwEeT_SpOrT_ChIk♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk!!! Find someone better girl! You dont deserve that crap!
2007-02-03 21:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by my spill canvas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋