My brother ha a wonderful girlfrend she is smart and very talented but she is a lot more better than me she is artistic,she can sew she does gardening hen we where at he dinner table whe she told my mom that she did all this she was like the dauthger of my heart and that there just hurt I try to talk to my mom but she always says get over it but what she said reall hurt me and plus am very jelous of my brothers girlfriend and very upset because me and my brother have never been close to all he is always out with her when i want to spend time with her i give him hints that I wan to spend time with but he never gets i my mom goes out of her way and buys her a venus fly trap for her it feelslike know one in this word understands my life as being sixteeen my brother is very disrepctful of me he was once on the phone with her until 1 am and i suffer for bipolar disorder and i need sleep and sleep doesnt come easy for me
2007-02-03 12:44:01 · 9 answers · asked by Lizzy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am one sleeping aides and am sleepng better
2007-02-03 12:56:51 · update #1
I have had low self steem for a very long time I am currently stable and sleeping well but stil feel this way
2007-02-03 13:01:52 · update #2
I am poetic and have had couple of poems pubblished but I feel like nothing is good enough
2007-02-03 13:07:59 · update #3
I dont feel like it all about me as someone had a rude comment about me i just feel realy bad about myself and have no idea what to do
2007-02-03 13:09:36 · update #4
Having all that stuff doesnt make her a better person, and deep down she may not be that happy person she seems to be. Some people go around bragging about all they can do, because they have a low self esteem problem. Live your own life and stop trying to please other people with your talents. If you are constantly trying to please other people, you will never be happy. Life with bi-polar is tuff, I know because I have it. Take your joy over your own accomplishments, however small, others don't have to walk in your shoes, and the pain of being bipolar. Life is tuff enough, without comparing yourself to others. Your young still, you have many stuggles and victories yet to experince, who knows, when your older your life may be much more successful than your brothers girlfriend. But really the point is not talents or success, its finding joy in yourself.
2007-02-03 13:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by nyker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could go passed your mom and brother, and ask the girlfriend herself if maybe she could teach you how to do artwork or sewing. It may be that you are coming across as jealous to your family, and if you try to change how you are handling the situation, they will try to include you more. Best of luck!
2007-02-03 13:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, go back to see doc and get your meds adjusted. You don't need to compare yourself to your brothers GF, or compete for your mothers love. You are beautiful the way you are with your own talents and individuality. My heart goes out to you.
2007-02-03 12:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by gr8mindsthnkalike2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nobody better than you we are all equal and that is the first thing you have to realize. when you look in the mirror just tell you self that you are important and you are good at lots of stuff your just not thinking of that love your self first be happy
2007-02-03 12:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it's OK everyone goes through their stages. You just need to surround yourself with upbeat people. And on ething that will make your whole future better is Jesus. If you want Jesus then just email me. Click on my e-mail sign when you click on my avatar. Jesus changed my life and he can change yours too. I'm free to tell you what you need to know.
2007-02-03 12:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by soquetrumpet1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you struggle through from bipolar-disease, please refer for your therapist about what you sense. when you're literally not seeing a therapist refer for your mom and father or a college counselor about installation an appointment. Your brother is transforming into up and his pastime in his lady friend/pals as hostile to kinfolk is accepted. it isn't about you in any respect.
2016-11-02 06:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are bipolar and you need to stop re-posting in different ways. Your mother is right. Find yourself and learn to like you and stop the hating.
2007-02-03 12:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, maybe your meds are off, go see your doctor. You're making no logical sense whatsoever....
2007-02-03 12:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are suffering from depression I've been there myself
2007-02-03 13:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by drightchristy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋