my bf sexually harrasses me. he grabs me at school and church. i told him to stop and i told my mom about it. she told me to tell him to stop but he wont. he grabs my breast and my butt and he grads the side of my stomach. so what should i do?
2007-02-03 12:55:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and im not gonna do something drastic like go to the police.
2007-02-03 13:00:41 · update #1
You really need to find a new boyfriend before it gets totally out of control. You don't deserve that. Try hitting him in the nuts the next time he does it to you and maybe he'll think twice before doing it again!
2007-02-03 12:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well if he really love you he should stop. But if he keeps doing it go to the principal or go to the cops. Because he is abusing youand if he isn't stopped now he will do worse stuff next time. SO tell someone and have him to stop or else and if he strikes you go to the cops. And remember when he comes whining about don't do this remember how he is now and don't ever forget. Because what will happen if he rapes you and you don't tell or he tells you if you tell he will hurt you. SO be carefull and tell right now, SO be carefull.
2007-02-03 21:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the EXACT same problem. I also hate it. What I found that helps is show them that you are really upset about it and if you notice that he is going to do it, walk away but let him know that it's his fault that you are leaving. This is teenage guy's way of saying that they like you. If you like him like that too, let him know and tell him that him doing that is reuining any chance of being with you. But DON'T stand for it! Make a big deal about it!
2007-02-03 21:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Francheska B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've told him to stop, then break up with him.
He sounds like he's not a good boyfriend anyway and all he wants is your body.
You can also report him to the adults at school and he will get in trouble. He'll learn his lesson then...hopefully.
All the best!!!
2007-02-03 20:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
hun, the next time he does this to you, you need to reach around and grab his wrist and tell him very seriously to knock it off. tell him that if he keeps on harrassig you, u WILL break up with him and you WILL report him. most likely he will then break up wtih you, but that's probly for the better.
good luck! *mwah!*
p.s. all of these 'grab his balls' things WILL NOT WORK. i repeat will NOT work. he will just think that it is even more ok for him to touch you bcuz u r touching him.
2007-02-03 21:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by sweety_pie!! <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, hes a loser. A guy should respect you and sounds like he wants one thing. Think of him as an older man - like a big perv? Ever seen one of those? ewwww.
Tell him you want to break up and for him to get as far far away from you. Tell him to get away.
Thats so disrespectful especially in church. Ewh gross.
Id drop him ---- so fast.
He iwll be one of those nasty old men one day........do you want to be with that?
Ohh, and hes a horny boy - most of em are. There parents taught them no respect. A good guy will not act like that cause his momma taught him better.
2007-02-03 20:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mia l 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
thats just a lack of respect for you . you might want to up grade on boy friends ! Dont be treated like a pice of propertie or a pet !
2007-02-03 21:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by nick H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump hom and let him know to stay away from you. That is pure disrespect. If he doesn't stop you may have to go to the police.
2007-02-03 21:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your not gonna phone the police just dump him or he will just carry on and theres better people out there who will respect you
2007-02-03 21:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by glowing flair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go screw the back side of a porcupine and call the
po po.Tell him over the phone so you don't get hurt.
2007-02-03 21:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by soquetrumpet1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋