i met a guy nd fell for him, he told me he loved me everyday and was always around. Then out of no where he said that we are to close nd he isnt ready for a relationship so we should just be friends. it hurts me to just be friends with him because i am used to getting kisses etc.. he tells me i should wait about 3 months, thats a long time and i am willing to wait for him because i love him soooo much but im not sure if its the best idea, i dont wanna apear to be 'one of those chiks'
wat should i do???
2007-02-03 12:46:36 · 7 answers · asked by brOkenn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow. okay, if he told you he loved you every day and then just suddenly stopped, that's just NOT acceptable!!!!! do you really want to be with someone so fickle? when dealing with a situation like this, you have to ask yourself, 'do i really want to be someone like this?'
2007-02-03 12:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to reflect upon your relationship. See how you really feel by taking a break and seeing what you think three months from now. It may seem like forever but it's a relatively short period of time to help you figure life out. Sometimes a break from the relationship is just what the two people need to grow closer and really appreciate each other or decide that the relationship wasn't working out.
If it's a situation where you are really not dating at all during the break and you both agreed to see other people do so. If he's seeing someone and you are pining after him it's not as alluring as if you are dating someone else as well. Nothing drives a man crazier than wanting something he can no longer have. If you are not available and he sees how interested another man is in you he may realize that he doesn't want someone else taking the place he feels he should have in your life.
If he doesn't realize that he can't live without you then he is obviously not in love with you and you should move on with your life before he destroys you and your life. It's amazing how much time the average woman spends asking silly questions like "What did I do wrong?" and "What can I change to make him love me as much as I love him?"
The answers are you did nothing wrong and shouldn't change anything about you except finding a man who will appreciate the great thing he has when he has it. If he is unable to appreciate you then he doesn't deserve you.
2007-02-03 13:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by water water 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Just friends"?? Phleese. You can't be "just friends" if you're still interested in a relationship. If he cared about you, he would not have put you through this, he would have made a clean break. Obviously, he wants to have his cake and eat it too. You need to stand up for yourlsef - stop seeing him, and start looking for a new b/f. He can go his own way.
2007-02-03 12:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him and wanna wait the 3 months,, wait and see what will happen..
or else,, move on with your life,, and get someone better
2007-02-03 12:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly your not one of those chics dont think that.No right or wrong answer here.If you want to wait then wait hope it goes your way hun xx good luck
2007-02-03 12:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by The Ghost of Scousertommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you honestly if YOU feel you should wait then you should if you have doubts about it date other ppl and then later maybe he'll come around
2007-02-03 12:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by DrunkHunk03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you do? You can't force him into a relationship he doesn't want... so I guess you will have to wait.
2007-02-03 12:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋