Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday afternoon. I have done some thinking and some talking and some writing and I think I have solved the problem why he broke up with me. The problem is that I know where he is but he won't return my calls, or texts or anything. I'm trying not to be pushy or over enthusiastic but I really want to tell him what has been going on. His reason for breaking up with me was he didn't want to come between me and my parents anymore. Well I think I have a solution in the works but I really want to talk to him about it. We have/had plans on getting married and everything but then this came up. I don't know what to do. Does it help to answer my question if you know that his sister was killed a week before Christmas? And he recently moved home to be with his family and now we are 600 miles apart. Any help would be nice.

2007-01-29 12:34:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok really what is the difference among these words? If i say this to a girl what different impacts can it have on them? Because i don't know ,i like this girl but i don't know whether its love or not. And we have even spent one night together without even mentioning that if we like each other or love each other and we just started making out. So what it is actually? and yesterday in one of her texts she sent me she mentioned me as a friend, so what actually is going on between us i really don't understand.

2007-01-29 12:34:10 · 8 answers · asked by rdx 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, so you had an argument. You both got angry. Happens to everyone. But, now it's over.

Why not just kiss and make up and move on?

I know all wives are not like this, but this is what I hear from most of my married friends.

Once the argument is TRULY OVER, why can't it just end there? Why the silent treatment, for example, afterwards?

Why can't (some) wives control their emotions, knowing that it can hurt their relationship? This kind of behavior only serves to damage the relationship.

Some guys are like, "Oh, you're STILL not talking to me? After I apologized when we were BOTH arguing? OK, fine. I'm out."

2007-01-29 12:33:11 · 18 answers · asked by Jay 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok people, if you find this offensive then don't answer it, b/c its not to people who must speak their opinion about it to put the question down. But what are some weird and fun exciting places to have sex at. I'm running out of ideas. And I don't like one spot it gets boring.

2007-01-29 12:32:34 · 10 answers · asked by Shaynee 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm an older disabled women that needs help to get by. I will make A meanful guide on cha cha .com. I have A life time of experience to share. I need the help to pay my bills. Could someone help me Please, and back me on the cha cha website? I will be forever greatful to you. Sally

2007-01-29 12:32:00 · 2 answers · asked by sallykinsredd 1 in Singles & Dating

Why? And why does he always end up getting his way? Lights on make me feel uncomfortable about my imperfections, why is he so insistant about having them on???

2007-01-29 12:31:18 · 19 answers · asked by FIT-GAL 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help im still in luv wit my ex-bf but i need to get over him becuz we dont even think were gettin back together so others boysz are askin me out but i alwaysz tell them no becuz im stuck on him wat do i do????

2007-01-29 12:31:09 · 25 answers · asked by ♥ SEXii LADiiE ♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well there's this girl at my school who used to be one of my close friends, until she started backstabbing me. Every guy I liked and was getting close to, she would do everything in her power to steal them, including making up rumours about me. She has done that for at least 4 guys. One was my boyfriend at the time, which was awful. Now, she's starting to try to steal some of my closest friends. What do I do?

2007-01-29 12:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that I met through my ex girlfriend. We became cool and we used to be close. I felt that it came to the point that all she wanted to do was use me. I always took her to get food and that was it, no hanging out or anything. Was I wrong to tell her to lose my number or do you think I was right? Shes twisted in a lot of ways.

2007-01-29 12:30:17 · 20 answers · asked by DJ 2 in Friends

I'm about 5'5", 135 lbs, dark (almost black) hair that is curly and about midway down my back. I have pale skin with rosy cheeks and freckles around my nose. My eyes are a deep brown and my eyelashes are curled and thick. I have midway between a square and an oval shaped face and my eyebrows are well-shaped. I have a big smile with straight white teeth. I wouldn't say I'm extremely thin, but I'm on the average side with measurements of 36, 24, 38. I have a great sense of humor (and i find dirty jokes hilarious) and I hope to be attending NYU next year (so i consider myself intelligent). So boys, what do you think?

2007-01-29 12:30:12 · 10 answers · asked by DivaHawk 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend who I like so much! But see we live in different states and only get to see each other 1 week a year. Lets call hime Alex. I
Just got in to 7th grade and fell into a mega-crush with another guy, Mark. I only ever see Alex 7 days every 365 days. Am I wrong to like Mark?
Should I break up with Alex and hold out for Mark?
Or just give Mark up? Help!

2007-01-29 12:29:53 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 and in college, so there are many girls around...
I've been on one date in my life, never had a girlfriend, and I'm NOT ugly.

2007-01-29 12:29:12 · 15 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

i feel like a little gurl cuz i got bad grades in my report card so how do i calm him down!?

2007-01-29 12:28:22 · 9 answers · asked by short stuff 4 in Family

I found god in love.

He showed me that miracles do exist, and that I m worthy of light after all.

is that weird? i used to be agnostic, but now i beleive.

2007-01-29 12:27:16 · 18 answers · asked by God 4 in Singles & Dating

I asked my b/f if what I had done in bed was good and he said, yes, I can tell you have had a lot of practice because you did a really good job. I thought he sounded a little snippy. He has asked me a lot about my past experience and definitely hopes I have had as little as possible. Therefore, I didn't know what to make of his comment. Is this a sign of jealousy which shows interest or is he thinking I am a Ho which is insulting and he is rethinking the relationship? Any ideas?

2007-01-29 12:27:06 · 7 answers · asked by LDR02 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 12:26:51 · 12 answers · asked by lauren l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Middle aged male. I have been married for 15 years. A wonderful 2.2 year old son. I have not had sex for two years. Wife is never instereted. Always wanted to cheat on my wife but never have. I am in this relationship for my son. But a man needs sex. How do i get my insterested again when she is so busy with other things. I think i will cheat

2007-01-29 12:26:50 · 12 answers · asked by GARY P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay here is the deal. My ex has visitation rights with my kids every other weekend. Everything is good and fine. However, I just found out that the kids do not spend a big chunk of their weekends and some nights with their father. They go over to their father's in laws' homes. I do not know these people. Don't even know their names. All I know is one of them has a dog named Muffy. I'm upset about this and want to know if an attorney is needed to give the dad a wake up call that when the kids come over for their visitation, they are to be visiting their father. Also as a note, I wouldn't mind one bit if their father was with them, but they are not...he stays at home all weekend while the kids go somewhere else. Thanks in advance

2007-01-29 12:26:49 · 4 answers · asked by ♪♫♪justpassingby♪♫♪ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I was at her house and the toilet got clogged (it clogs easily). Her mom yelled at her, and I told her I was sorry because I snapped at her earlier.

Later that night, she broke up with me, but after talking with her about some details I hadn't mentioned before-hand, she decided to give it a second chance. The next day, (Sunday) I made a lot of smart-eleck comments to make her feel guilty, about the way she tried to make me feel ashamed because I called my mom the previous day for moral support.

I made her cry on Sunday, and for once, I was happy I made another human being cry or was happy for standing up for myself. Should I feel bad about it?

And also, what should I do? I really want to go out with her, but I'm not sure if its right for us. Help? My life is a mess right now.

2007-01-29 12:26:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mine just will not clean up after his self!!! He leaves his clothes where ever he takes them off and his dishes where ever and im tired of cleaning after him all day

2007-01-29 12:26:04 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this boy at my school but it's like he doesn't even know i exist. Im shy to tell him how i feel because im afraid he won't feel the same way back. What should i do to get him to notice who i really am??

2007-01-29 12:25:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I caught up with this girl from high school on myspace, where having lunch tommrow, she sent me a comment asking if i got plans and had pics of whiped cream an hand cuffs, and roses, does this mean she wants to have sex? should i bring a flower or something?

2007-01-29 12:25:36 · 7 answers · asked by lstbob51 2 in Singles & Dating

my brother said that im going to make great wife someday because i cook and i clean up afterwards,and i get up every morning with a fuss and i do my own laundry

2007-01-29 12:24:43 · 6 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

is this ur way of moving on? what could she do to get u back without actually seeming desperate? especially when u guys are long distance?

2007-01-29 12:24:13 · 5 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf & I are discussing our future plans and he would like to wait for another 6 years before we start a family due to his career (enlisting & training with the air force). I am 30 and he's 29. I already have 2 children from a previous relationship so it wouldn't bother me if I didn't have more children - but he would like a family of his own.

I have tried telling him that not only do the "risks" increase after the age of 35 but I also have other mitigating factors that may hinder my chances of pregnancy especially at that age. In my early 20's I had laser surgery & I had a cone biopsy done to remove precancerous cells from my cervix. I also have only one functioning tube left as one of my tubes was removed after an ectopic pregnancy ruptured. I am trying to convince him that if we wait until HE's ready to start a family, that we may not have very good odds in our favour.

Any help or wise words from women would be greatly appreciated.

2007-01-29 12:23:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this boy. But I'm terrified to talk to him. He's like soooooo hot. There's a school dance coming up. But i'm so shy to ask him. What should I do? I mean...he will probably not want to go with me. Or he's going to ask someone else. ??? I really really like him.

2007-01-29 12:23:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

basically i fall in love to easy its like one kiss and im hooked yea,and then i always seem to get heartbroken i just need some tips on how to like be with someone and not get hooked as much as i do cos im fed up of being heartbroken all the time i guess i just love the thought of commitment but it never works out :( any tips would do cheers guys

2007-01-29 12:22:38 · 2 answers · asked by liam_jones_10_10 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy,and he seems to like me.and I want to ask him to go with me and my sister for a adventerous hike threw the woods,or for something similar,like not to break the ice and go crazy,then he might not like it,and he won't ask me out.Help!!!!

2007-01-29 12:21:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I Live in America and i need to send a special someone who is visiting India roses for valentines day. she's somewhere in Nadiad, Gujarat does anyone know a good site to order flowers so that they get delivered to her home. Please help. Thank you in advance.

2007-01-29 12:21:17 · 11 answers · asked by Ankit 4 in Singles & Dating

I am not a really dressy person but i dont want to go in a tux, it is only the year 11 ball so nothing extravagent or real expensive (im not exsaclt 'in the money' either). i want to wear something original and not too girly and just something that will suit me for who i am, any ideas? thank you so much :)

2007-01-29 12:21:06 · 3 answers · asked by munchyblonde 1 in Singles & Dating