Am I a Sl*t for this?

Question

I have a boyfriend who I like so much! But see we live in different states and only get to see each other 1 week a year. Lets call hime Alex. I
Just got in to 7th grade and fell into a mega-crush with another guy, Mark. I only ever see Alex 7 days every 365 days. Am I wrong to like Mark?
Should I break up with Alex and hold out for Mark?
Or just give Mark up? Help!

Answer 1

sweetheart you are not a sl*t at all. you only get to see alex a few days out of the year. and you must be so lonely for a boyfriend. and that's totally understandable. so don't you feel guilty for falling for another guy. it's perfectly normal. the best thing you could probably do, is to talk to alex, and tell him that you've met someone that you really like, and that you would just like for the two of you to be friends for now. and then you will be free to like mark and not feel guilty about it. you are still so young, and you don't need to be tied down to a guy that you only get to see 7 out of 365 days. that's just not fair to you. you need to let yourself have fun!
Best Wishes With Everything

Answer 2

Well, maybe you and "Alex" need to have a long talk on the phone. Just be honest. Tell him that it isn't fair that you two don't see each other so what's the point of being together. And you really don't know what "Alex" is doing either. He might have someone else too, but is afraid of hurting you. You're still very young, there will be a whole lot more "Alex's", so just talk to "Alex" then once that smoothes over, you can give Mark a chance.

Answer 3

I have a feeling what ever happens you are going to end up with mark. because you may be seeing him 365 days every 365 days. Alex just may remain a friend. So keep Mark if he likes you too. Tell alex if you feel you want hurt his feelings. Or do like most girls, say nothing.

Answer 4

Well hunny. You are in what 7th grade? and having a long distance relationship?? Thats a lot for you and from my past experiences, you and "Alex" wont last no matter how much you guys say it will. And by you continuing the relationship it will mess you up until you get older hunny trust me. I still remember how dumb i was for doing that ar such a young age. I say go for that kid mark. You liking Mark isnt making you a slut hunny, its just the way of life. Finding someone closer to you is wayyy much better trust me =]. Oh and rarely any long distant relationships ever work out. I hope you take my advice hun.

Answer 5

You may think you like Mark because you are less attracted to Alex and miss him too much. It's normal to think you like another guy if your boyfriend is never around. I personaly don't believe in long distance relationships, and maybe you and Alex should see other people for a while. Maybe Alex feels the same way.

Answer 6

first question is which boy do u like more?
If it is mark then ask mark how he feels for you and if he likes you.
tell Alex that you want to break up because you hardly ever see each other and that you have found someone new.
if you like Alex forget about mark. maybe you can just be friends with mark

Answer 7

Mark is there dear, Alex is not. Your not happy with the long distant thing are you? You are young and have to live. Since you are young. Mark is the better choice. Break it off with Alex. If you and Alex are meant to be, later in the way future you will hook up again.

Answer 8

Honestly, Lissy sweety you are too young to be thinking about guys right now and whether or not you are a sl*t. You should value yourself. Now is the time you should enjoy your crushes, enjoy living life. Love comes later and it comes hard. I am not saying it is not love, but have fun. Make friends. you should maintain a healthy relationship with Alex and be cool with Mark. If you and Alex or you and Mark were meant to be then it will happen, but you are too young to be worried about love. Love is love, it rooted deep and it endures years. It grows strong and it matures. Do not miss your days of having fun because when love comes knocking at the time it should you will have missed out on your now.

Answer 9

I think you should go for Mark. I understand that long distance relationships are very hard to keep. I've been there. You just need to tell Alex that it's hard for you to only see him once a week every year, and that it would be better if you didn't see eachother anymore. Move on, girl!

Answer 10

Break up with Alex. Hold out for Mark
Enjoy 7th grade as a single gal.