I asked my b/f if what I had done in bed was good and he said, yes, I can tell you have had a lot of practice because you did a really good job. I thought he sounded a little snippy. He has asked me a lot about my past experience and definitely hopes I have had as little as possible. Therefore, I didn't know what to make of his comment. Is this a sign of jealousy which shows interest or is he thinking I am a Ho which is insulting and he is rethinking the relationship? Any ideas?
2007-01-29 12:27:06 · 7 answers · asked by LDR02 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What qualifies him to give an opinion
2007-01-29 12:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule number 1: What you did before you met him is your business and not to be discussed with him - ever. This eliminates a lot of problems. Never ask a guy to rate your performance again. You actually sound a bit too young to be having sex and this guy sounds like he's a bit immature as well. Don't worry about him rethinking the relationship, you need to rethink the relationship - it is your decision as well as his. Don't give him power if you are not willing to accept that you have the same power.
2007-01-29 20:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by danamarie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, sounds like Mr. insecurity is rearing his ugly head again. It is a really bad idea to talk about past experiences. Just tell him that no, you do not have much experience. It will do more harm than good if he goes in that direction. Let him know that it doesn't bother you that you aren't his first and you know that he has been with other girls. Let him know that the important thing is that you are together.
Oh, and just for future reference, don't ask a guy if you were good in bed. Just do your best, use your imagination, and don't be afraid to try new things. Let yourself go and he will be pleased. Remember, sexual satisfaction is for both people.. not just one.
2007-01-29 20:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by David L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a problem already. Get out of it now, it will only get worse for you. Shouldn't concern him how much experience you have prior to him, as long as you aren't bringing STD into the relationship. Sounds like just another guy who is insecure about his own abilities. Believe me, he will only get worse.
2007-01-29 20:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by inkinheaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's not going to dump you for being too good in bed. But, for future reference -- don't open the whole bag of tricks at one time....
2007-01-29 20:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id drop him like a fly and think before i sleep with anyone else make him wait a while .before you have sex
2007-01-29 20:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by Catie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could b both really... just give it time if he breaks up wit u find another guy...
2007-01-29 20:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋