Should I dump her? Should I go back out with her? Or should I let her crawl back to me?

Question

I was at her house and the toilet got clogged (it clogs easily). Her mom yelled at her, and I told her I was sorry because I snapped at her earlier.

Later that night, she broke up with me, but after talking with her about some details I hadn't mentioned before-hand, she decided to give it a second chance. The next day, (Sunday) I made a lot of smart-eleck comments to make her feel guilty, about the way she tried to make me feel ashamed because I called my mom the previous day for moral support.

I made her cry on Sunday, and for once, I was happy I made another human being cry or was happy for standing up for myself. Should I feel bad about it?

And also, what should I do? I really want to go out with her, but I'm not sure if its right for us. Help? My life is a mess right now.

I didn't go too far into detail, but its entirely not my fault. She started this. I was already ashamed for some reasons, and she just brings them up when she knows I have problems. It was very wrong of her, so I just made her feel worse by saying some statements.

And yes, I want her to crawl back to me because theres nothing I did that should be a reason for breaking up. I only said those things so she would realize what she was doing, and it was more of a lesson than anything.

Answer 1

you shud just tell her you didnt mean what you said when you made all those remarkes!! that just what you do first then you talk it out with her why yall broke up in the first place!!after that yall shud just talk for a whyl and then just see how it goes form there :) understand!!never say anything about a gurl crawling bak to you that NEVER helps!!!!

Answer 2

Well, I think you should give it another shot if you both are able to deal with it. How old are you two? I think if you want a mature relationship then you should find out if she's wanting the same. If not, try the relationship again, what is there to lose? If you want a mature relationship and she can't give you that...move on. Communication is key. You both need to communicate better. Let her know what's up and tell her to do the same with you. Good luck.

Answer 3

You can't be too old, because you haven't learned yet that what goes around comes around. The fact that you are happy that you made her cry speaks volumes!

Answer 4

I don't know how old you are, but if you are meant to be together, then the back and forth splitting up, arguing, and guilt trips wouldn't happen.

Move on, and don't waste any more time.

Answer 5

Dump her