Well there's this girl at my school who used to be one of my close friends, until she started backstabbing me. Every guy I liked and was getting close to, she would do everything in her power to steal them, including making up rumours about me. She has done that for at least 4 guys. One was my boyfriend at the time, which was awful. Now, she's starting to try to steal some of my closest friends. What do I do?
2007-01-29 12:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her and tell her you don't like what she's doing and she needs to grow up.
After that be done with her and don't deal with her any more.
2007-01-29 12:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick the ever living hell out of her... HA HA HA.. No no, no violence.
You know, she has some issues if she feels its needed to steal all your stuff. Personally, I have always told myself, if someone doesnt want to take the time to validate a rumor, then they were to weak to be my friend anyways. Be honest with your friends, and show nothing but love for your enemy.
Cause in the end, she'll end up looking the fool because she will get caught up in her own web..
Good Luck
2007-01-29 20:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by -Dr. D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hav a situation close to that, but its with a guy who makes up rumours about me and tells the kids i like. just ignore her, try to hang out with your friends, make sure she doesnt know who u like. ignore her and shell ignore you, most likely. she might not, if its really bothering you, then tell a counseler, so pretty much ignore her, try hanging out with your friends more and keep your crushes a secret
2007-01-29 20:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to say smack her in the face but then you are lowering yourself to her level...stay away from her and don't give her any reason to talk about you ..she is a very shallow jealous person don't waste your time worrying about her ppl will come to see her the way you do she will end up a loney bitter person you can't ask for more than that...lol
good luck
2007-01-29 20:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by sway137 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not going to tell you to talk to her about it because in girl world that wont work youve got fight back to what shes been dishing out and tell her "i know your doing this because your jealous of me...and knowing that i can take anything you throw at me...just watch me..." and walk away. You could kill her with kindness...She will most likely back off, but if she doesnt find out her weak spots and sabatoge lol i know its mean but its the only thing that gets girls to back offf...well that and water!
2007-01-29 20:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by ugly truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, first i wouldnt call her ur friend at all... then i guess i would just not pay ne attention to her. dont talk to her or nething... keep a distance. about the rumors and stuff, i cant say much. ppl shouldnt believe all they hear. if u have a boyfriend he should believe u and not sum stupid rumor ur "friend" said
2007-01-29 20:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously she is jealous, there is something about you that she wishes she had, but she can't get it so her only option is to take stuff from you. I'd say confront her, and don't be all subtle about it grill her ask her want her problem is.
2007-01-29 20:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by D.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can be nasty! All I can say is that she is probably jealous of you. Just kill her with kindness, and if your friends are REALLY your friends...they'll stick with you. Ignore the rumors and try to be as nice as you can! :)
2007-01-29 20:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by Lynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This probley isn't the best advice but i'd tell her that you don't appreciate it and ask her to stop and if she smarts off haul off and knock her out.
2007-01-29 20:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by Shaynee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probaubly jelous of u, ask her what her prob is, or u can her life living hell
2007-01-29 20:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by Boi Crazie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋