Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

My Italian born husband has lived in the states for four years. He constantly talks about moving back to Italy. He wants to take our daughter to Italy to visit his parents. They refuse to come here. I cannot bear the thought of being away from her for more than a work day. I get anxious when I am at work late. I am a teacher and have summers and holidays off. I told him that we could all go together then. He says I cannot go with him because the tickets are too costly in the summer and at Christmas. His mother hates me. I feel like he does not want me to come because he doesn't want to deal with the stress. Also, if I am not there his mom can do what she wants with our daughter. I am really against this ideal. He says he has every right to take her there. I think he should be able to take her to Italy, but I should be able to go along as well. I fear that he may take her there and not return home. Maybe I have seen too many movies.

2007-01-28 12:43:08 · 8 answers · asked by mfilippelli1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have met some very nice and incredibly confident men who know what it is

they are looking for and for whatever the reason we just haven't clicked yet

but I have been on other sites and this site http://www.nudistfriends.com/?tid=ice has classy men and women who are considerate and respectful towards eachother

so Thanks and I haven't given up hope yet

2007-01-28 12:43:05 · 2 answers · asked by woow cool 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it normal for me to just want to fool around with girls but not have a serious relationship. I dont think i am ready for one but i still want tp be physical with girls. Is this normal?

2007-01-28 12:42:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or is even the friendship some innocent way in indulging in an attraction. I am wondering because I rarely see men with so called unattractive female friends.

2007-01-28 12:42:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

oops i mean steaming cup of tea...shall i have choc digestives or plain with it???...;0)

2007-01-28 12:41:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 12:41:05 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Poots♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 12:40:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i told this guy i liked him and he said he likes me too a lot. i'm realllly shy, and when i go to school tomorrow i'm going to be embarrassed b/c he knows i like him now. at first i thought it was no problem to tell him, because i was sure he liked me too and he does. but now that i'm thinking about tomorrow i don't know what i'm going to say to him! and i'm just going to feel weird around him. what should i say?

2007-01-28 12:40:21 · 11 answers · asked by alaina marie 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is an unemployed 19 year old girl with a 1 year old child who lives with her mother and father.

She wants to put her son in day care so she can get a job and actually buy him stuff with his own money and learn to be more independent but they refuse to let her put him in a daycare since neither her nor her sisters were put in daycare when they were small.

After she had given birth she had 2 anxiety/panic attacks and was put on medication for it which she used only for 4 months and then stopped when she realized it was all just mental.

My girlfriends mother has threatened her several times that she will take her to court and take her son away from her because of the fact that she is a 19 year old girl with no form of income to support the child and has been on medication.

I tell my girlfriend her mom is just bluffing but shes really scared. Is there any truth to what her mom is saying or any place I can get information on this?

2007-01-28 12:39:51 · 5 answers · asked by hitokiribakura 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well there is this guy that ive been seeing for about a month, and we had been talking about 2 months before. In the beginning we talked everynight for about 2-3hrs, now it seems hes always too busy and we talk only for about a half an hour at most! Also he used to call me a few times a day, and now it is down to about once every other day. It seems like he is distant and is not interested anymore but when we do talk he tells me he loves me and wants to be with me. He also seems that he doesnt make and effort to see me. Also because I am younger than him and hes allowed to go to bars that im not allowed to go in im afraid hes cheating, he also is known to be the player type. Alot have people have told me I shouldnt be in a relationship with him, but I like him soo much, I just wish he would be the same guy I started talking to. I dont know if I should pursue a relationship with him or break it off?!? Ive tried to gain his interest but it seems impossible. What should I do?

2007-01-28 12:39:34 · 6 answers · asked by Iwannaknow 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's the thing, we met through the phone b/cause of a friend of mine that met him chating on line. She wasn't interested b/c she is to old for him so she introduced us through the phone instead. Now, in our 1st conv. he was already asking me to be his girlfriend, then he started asking me that he wanted me to move in with him, all within the same week and while he still not seen me in person yet! While this whole is happening, he is constantely calling like every 40 minutes asking me how am I doing, and asking why haven't I called him..... bla, bla, bla! It wouldn't stop! So I actually stopped calling, and he still calls like once or twice a week asking me why haven't I called him, and if I don't want anything else with him. A few minutes ago I had my sister tell him that I had gone out because he just wouldn't stop calling the house. When she did tell him, he asked with whom I had gone to the movies with.My question is,how can I make it any more clear to him that I'm not interested?

2007-01-28 12:39:16 · 26 answers · asked by denisse1515 2 in Singles & Dating

let's just say that I know someone who I think is being abused by his or her parent/s.I'm not sure but I suspect it.What should I do?

2007-01-28 12:38:44 · 13 answers · asked by Nikki 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-28 12:38:37 · 9 answers · asked by tombia90 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i get my boyfriend for valentines day? i want to get him something that isnt cheesy and something he will really like. hes a skateboarder who isnt all that romantic. he likes rock music and family guy. i dont know how to make his style in a present

2007-01-28 12:38:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everybody has been to scared to say anything for more than 10 years and now it is affecting my children and our relationship. i dont want to lose my mum and best friend. she says it is noone elses business but hers.

2007-01-28 12:36:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay...im a freshman in highschool who likes this girl. we talk alot about stuff and eat lunch together every day and play soccer after school. we even study together with friends and stuff. the bad news...she has a boy friend. we talk about him alot to and she is uncertain about him. he really likes her but she doesnt think she likes him any more. this wknd me and her and 2 ofher friends went to da library to study. later we went for shakes and nachos and she bought mine cuz in broke. later it was just me and her at the library and we were writing on a peice of paper. i ask her about her bf and she said she was thinking of breaking up wif him. then i told her that i liked her. she then said that prbly wasnt good cause she has a bf and now dat she knows dat i like her it makes her think about breaking up wif her bf even more. i told her to do wat makes her feel right. was telling her how i felt a bad thing? or do u think she likes me(lunches, soccer, studying)???help!!!

2007-01-28 12:35:25 · 27 answers · asked by soccerfancmac1 2 in Singles & Dating

Like, we cant sort our dicussion problems_and why not go to therapy or something?
Why is the solution just to end everything

2007-01-28 12:35:22 · 18 answers · asked by monis 2 in Singles & Dating

He came from the city originally, married me here in the country, deceived and cheated on me; left me and is hanging around.

2007-01-28 12:35:18 · 12 answers · asked by Jan Frost 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to be his friend but he keeps telling everyone that I'm going out with my current boyfriend to make my ex mad. NOT TRUE!! My ex keeps making stupid comments but then he gets all sweet and I cant help but forgive him. Im so confused!!

2007-01-28 12:35:00 · 4 answers · asked by BrittyBabe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 12:33:34 · 26 answers · asked by buggles06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't mean two people working a nine to five. I mean 2 work-a-holics aspiring for a bigger and better career such as maybe you are a lawyer and she is a software consultant. Both jobs require extra hours, a lot of "networking", and constant education. Yet you have a kid than means one of you has to be home by 6PM to pick them up from daycare, fix dinner, etc.

Can it work? Anyone have success stories where you are happy with your job, your marriage, and your family? Right now, I'm not happy with either.

Thanks.

2007-01-28 12:32:54 · 14 answers · asked by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What is beautiful to you,A kiss,a rose,A diamond ring.
Holding hands under the moonlit sky,listening to the birds sing.
A little baby lost in tears as you rock the child back to sleep.
When man you asks you to be his wife,with words of love he reaks.
In your last dying breath what would you say was beautiful to you

2007-01-28 12:32:45 · 15 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

how do i forget the person whom i really love n we hurt each other by breaking up due to some reasons... how do i stop thinking abt the person n not let the person control my mind, my heart all the time???

2007-01-28 12:32:13 · 3 answers · asked by -LOST- 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well if you see my other questions you'll know whats up.So I'm thinking of leaving and I know he'll try to track me down......I need to know if there is anyway to clear my hard drive so he can't retreive the info from the hard drive and see who I've been talking too or where I've been getting help?? Any advice would help....Thank you and God bless

2007-01-28 12:30:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok dont ignore this question just because im a student!
well i want to do better this year at school and to stop talking a lot because it got me into a lot of trouble. well ever since kindi, i was a smart student top in every class never failed, but last year i just got into trouble more and my marks went a bit down ( i passed everything though), and i also became friends with a girl and everyone thought she changed me. this girl left the skool and now is my chance to get better.

so anyway... i want to stop talking in class, although my friends would want to sit next to me and talk and if i just completely ignore them they would hate me. so what do i do if they start talking to me in class?

2007-01-28 12:30:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have had alot of guys want to go out with me but they aren't the ones i like how do i get hot guys if im not super skinny i have a few extra pounds i mean i think i have pretty face no acne or any gross stuff but no1 really notices me at school how can i change that o and another thing i don't dress girly i usaly wear black im NOT GOTHIC i swear but thats me how do i get alot of guys to notice me?????

2007-01-28 12:30:04 · 15 answers · asked by skater_gurl_rawks 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 12:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And she has a great personality too. Would you want all of the attention that would come with that? Would it be worth it?

2007-01-28 12:29:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 12:29:14 · 5 answers · asked by gone 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 12:29:05 · 7 answers · asked by xoxbabexoxox 2 in Singles & Dating