2007-01-28 12:38:37 · 9 answers · asked by tombia90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love someone then let them go and if they come back it was meant to be and if not then use that time to grow and learn something about you.
i had that same feeling after i got married and had kids my husband gave me sometime and i realize that i had it much better at home. some women feel like they lose a part of themselves when they get married as in long term goals of work and or school let her know that whats important to her is important to you also. if you have kids, it might be what you wanted but when a woman has to stop working and becomes a stay at home mom and house wife it can be a bit overwhelming
2007-01-28 13:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by sxyrd45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. The more you hold unto her the more she will crave for freedom. Every second that you stay together will be like prison cell for her, beacuse of the unaccomplishment that she thinks of. As soon as you let her go, that will be the time that she'll see the blessings that she have while she's with you. "If you love somebody set it free, If it comes back It's yours, If Not It never was. ...
2007-01-28 12:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by mardiel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont fight her about it. it will only make things worse. If you feel strongly about her- Let her have the space she thinks she needs. if her feelings for you are real and strong, she will be back. Just be prepared for her to decide not to. It is best if you can part on good terms. I think she needs time to figure out what she really wants for herself and in her life. dont close the lines of communications...keep them open. be there if she needs you. it may be difficult but it will probably be best for both of you. support her in her attempts to feel accomplished. just make sure you both know what that means.
2007-01-28 12:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by katlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her.. dose she feel this way because she feels life as passed her by... dose she want to go to school and better herself''// if that is it.. tell her she can go and still be with you..or maybe just a nite out on the town once a month or twice will help.. talk it out and see where her head is at
2007-01-28 12:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to rethink and pay her some attention if you haven't done that. It's easy to lose the passion one had when first married. It's hard to keep it going.
2007-01-28 12:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by VW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her her space and move on with your life... If you love someone you let them go.
2007-01-28 12:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her the door.
If she does not want to be there you cannot keep her.
You do not need to put up with her crap though.
" There is the door" usually works.
2007-01-28 12:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if that's the way that she feels, then go. But you're staying right where you're at.
2007-01-28 12:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do nothing but divorce her...
2007-01-28 12:41:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋