Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

I was discharged from the Army about a month ago and my boyfriend is still in but he is in training so I can't move with him until he gets permanent party status. He won't be out of training for 5 or 6 months. We plan on getting married soon, but it is hard to be away from him for so long. I talk to him every night, but I am scared that I will lose him...

2007-01-28 12:51:38 · 13 answers · asked by Bad_Boy_Lover_4_Life 1 in Singles & Dating

He didn't file last year because he was scard. how should file this year and resolve this problem,or can I file seperate?
We are still legally married. what can I do?

2007-01-28 12:51:21 · 11 answers · asked by nitaofpancho 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-28 12:50:17 · 50 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are paying for our wedding this summer and have agreed not to spend alot of money on valentine's day. Any ideas for a nice gift?

2007-01-28 12:50:12 · 7 answers · asked by toriisen 2 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone hear have a mentally disabled sibling or relative..if so share your story

2007-01-28 12:49:58 · 4 answers · asked by Lvgrl23 1 in Family

I am interested in a guy from work (Christian), and I am not.Over the last month and a half,there is a lot of unsaid communication between us.I feel that we mutually know we like each other, but haven't said anything.Last week he invited me to his church and today he again imd me & reminded me to join him if I was interested.I went there and they were talking about how to get more & ore people to come there.It kinda irritated me because to me seemed like he only invited me because his religious duties tell him to.I believe there is only one god and I respect all religions.I am bewildered if he likes me or if he just sees me as an opportunity to talk about Jesus(which I am not opposed to).But afterwards, he introduced me to his friend & told me that she is from his home town with a lot of importance.He has taken me out on lunch & I did too last week & we have good time with each other. We flirt & both smile a lot for no reason.He looks at me different then his other F friends.Plz help!

2007-01-28 12:49:30 · 3 answers · asked by skagen.2006 1 in Singles & Dating

Most people start out just friends, but eventually, would they fall for each other?

2007-01-28 12:48:59 · 22 answers · asked by Kitty 3 in Friends

I have been best friends with my actual boyfriend for about 2 years. We recently started dating about 4 months ago.... but he is mormon and will be going on his mission in April. The only way we are able to communicat is throug mail. We love each other so much but i dont know if our love will survive just by writing letters for 2 years. I love the guy and i do hope we end up together in the end? Do you belive that it is possible for a relationship to last just by writing letters for two years without seeing each other???

2007-01-28 12:48:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-Everytime i ask her to do something, we end up going with other people.
-Its very hard to tell if she likes me or not.
-I dont know what question i can ask, that would reveal how she feels indiscriminatly.
-I dont know if shes had a boyfriend before, so she may be worried about moving to fast, especially because we will be going to different colleges next fall
-How do i mangage to ask her out casually.. enter into a relationship slowly?

2007-01-28 12:48:20 · 3 answers · asked by John D. 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm curios to know what initially attract a man to a woman and also what holds your interest? Do you like it when a woman makes the first move or would that put you of? What do you think of women who sleep with straight away and would you want to continue a relationship with a woman who did this with you? Anything that you have to this about this question and any other opinions please.

2007-01-28 12:48:19 · 37 answers · asked by LMac100 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 12:48:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends a college freshman (just turned 18) and I'm a highschool sophomore (15) so I can understand why they're skeptical but we've been dating for half a year in secret and he loves me. He said he'll wait till I'm out of highschool until we can date again but I want to know if there's anything else we can do about it. I can honestly say that I love him, and if nothing works we're both ready openly date and wait till I'm out of highschool till we can finally be together. But my parents think I'm to young and that I need to focus on school. It's just frusterating beyond belief.

2007-01-28 12:47:56 · 6 answers · asked by lilmissyme778 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have always been in drama filled relationship and finally I decided to get out of them. 6 months later I met this WONDERFUL guy who is so caring, genuine, attractive, funny, makes me smile and brings out the best in me. I'm not jealous of him and I trust him 100% which is very strange for me. I think that in the past I thought that "love" was mis-trust and jealoust because that showed that I didnt want them to have anyone else therefore I "loved" them. Now that I trust him, I question my love for him. I have convinced myself of so many things. Commitment phobic, anxiety issues (which I have), hormones, End of infatuation, and falling out of love. I just have this gut feeling that something is missing or that something is wrong. My whole family LOVES him and I sometimes I question myself and wonder if I am with him for me or for my family.

I want to be with him forever. He makes me happy and I LOVE doing nice things for him

People say follow your gut but I WANT to be with him!

2007-01-28 12:47:36 · 3 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'd love to know how love affects people mentally, emotionally and physically! =)

2007-01-28 12:47:05 · 18 answers · asked by Lvgrl23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok one night i was with my friend and i was sleeping over at her house and we were playing this game ( the game was: we play a game that we both know then if we lose we haev to take one peice of clothing off, then at the end when we were like out of mini games or both naked, by the way we were both naked, we had to play sexual dare or duouble dare, so then she picked double dare and we had cards that we wrote sexy dares to do then she picked 2 and the first one said: "the person who asked the other person to do this dare has to lie down and the other person has to stick her fingure up the person who is laying down's *****, so she did adn i had the fingure in my *****, then the other card said that they had to sleep with each other naked, so we did, also it said: PS before and during the night you have to fingure each other, so we did) i will tell you the rest.

2007-01-28 12:46:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 12:46:07 · 3 answers · asked by +..:Juicyyy:..+ 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone else lost a loved one because an over large letter fell on them?

2007-01-28 12:45:56 · 10 answers · asked by Robb the B.D.C. 5 in Friends

There is this guy and my frend made me call him then i had no idea whta to say. Then I found out he had a girlfrend but I know he has feeling for me.

2007-01-28 12:45:54 · 3 answers · asked by kfacer.2000 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked this guy out and he saids no. now hes being a jerk, so i tell him that he says its only cause he said no. what should i say back??????????

2007-01-28 12:45:53 · 8 answers · asked by Lena 1 in Singles & Dating

over 750 children in thier home and took them every where, and it cost them everything they had

2007-01-28 12:45:47 · 2 answers · asked by crojobe 1 in Family

ive known him a little over a year and just recently ive had feelings for him.. strong feelings. I dont think its a good idea to go for it because he has so many strings attached, he has a 16month old girl.. who lives 21/2 hour drive away with the mom. He has a another girl friend who is in love with him and they are what i would call friends with benifits. Our relationship is really different we can talk for hours and we ALWAYS have a great time when we hang out, drunk or sober. Sometimes when im too drunk to drive home he lets me crash in his bed and he never pulls a move we just cuddle. We flirt alot but he flirts with lots of girls. and if i did ask him out and it didnt work out it would probably be really akward because we have mostly the same friends.. what do i do! does it sound liek maybe a little crush i could get over??. Its hard to hang out with him and not be thinking about what it would be like to kiss him or date him or things like that. advice?

2007-01-28 12:45:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-28 12:45:17 · 2 answers · asked by luvabout 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 12:45:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's a girl in one of my classes that I really like. I have 2 problems though. 1. She might like somebody else and 2. I don't want to ask her out, her say no, and then loose her as a friend. I don't know what to do. I do have the ability to suck it up and be a man though.

2007-01-28 12:44:34 · 1 answers · asked by beatleandacdcman 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband had his son living with us for 2 years,and he has paid child support all this time to his ex.Just recently his daughter now has moved in with us about 3 months ago and he is still paying.His ex does not help in any way shape or form with his kids and hasnt bought them nothing for christmas or even on their birthdays.The child support office also garnished his tax refund from last year,and probably will again this year.We turned in updated info to the CS office,but still,no response.any suggestions?

2007-01-28 12:44:33 · 16 answers · asked by jenn g 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In not that great looking, but i'm the nicest guy any one knows. I've never been on a date, though. Should I work out or try to make myself attractive? Or should I just let it happen?

2007-01-28 12:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by Franz T 2 in Singles & Dating

I ask them to bring me a bottle of water then they gave me a citrus flavored water. Then I yelled at them and I called them retards. How come my parents are retarded?

2007-01-28 12:44:12 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

In what position should I make love to my wife tonight. The repsonses that are in the majority when...I leaning towards the "chili-dog".

2007-01-28 12:44:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

anyone know were I can play this 60's song on line?

2007-01-28 12:44:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He is still madly in love with this girl that dumped him for no reason at all. I even asked her why she did it and she said no reason. Just resently she started going out with someone else and he has been upset ever since. How do I show him there are other people out there that will love him more then she ever did?

2007-01-28 12:43:59 · 8 answers · asked by kiissntheraiin14 1 in Friends