I am confused about this guy?

Question

I am interested in a guy from work (Christian), and I am not.Over the last month and a half,there is a lot of unsaid communication between us.I feel that we mutually know we like each other, but haven't said anything.Last week he invited me to his church and today he again imd me & reminded me to join him if I was interested.I went there and they were talking about how to get more & ore people to come there.It kinda irritated me because to me seemed like he only invited me because his religious duties tell him to.I believe there is only one god and I respect all religions.I am bewildered if he likes me or if he just sees me as an opportunity to talk about Jesus(which I am not opposed to).But afterwards, he introduced me to his friend & told me that she is from his home town with a lot of importance.He has taken me out on lunch & I did too last week & we have good time with each other. We flirt & both smile a lot for no reason.He looks at me different then his other F friends.Plz help!

Answer 1

Yes, it sounds like he used the church thing as a way to break the ice, see how you interested you might be, etc. That way, if you had turned him down, he could have played it off like it was just a friendly church invitation and not feel as rejected (and save some face). Plus, if he's considering a relationship with you, he may have wanted to see the potential for future compatibility in terms of religion, etc. If he's introducing you to other friends, especially those who are really important to him, that's got to say something.

Follow your instinct: you said yourself that he "looks at me different than his other friends" and you both "smile a lot for no reason." I think that's all you need to know.

Answer 2

I would say he likes you. If he doesn't make a move soon go ahead and make the first move. After all, letting guys be completly in charge of a relationship is no longer how relationships have to be dealt with.

Answer 3

he likes you... just sleep with him!