What do men want in a woman?

Question

I'm curios to know what initially attract a man to a woman and also what holds your interest? Do you like it when a woman makes the first move or would that put you of? What do you think of women who sleep with straight away and would you want to continue a relationship with a woman who did this with you? Anything that you have to this about this question and any other opinions please.

Answer 1

this isn't one of those questions where there is a right and wrong answer... different strokes for different folks...

however i can tell u what works for ME... i need someone who's confident and a little sassy... sense of humor is key, and if it's not too much to ask, some brains... a goal in life and isn't taking anti-depressants...

in terms of outward appearance, of course they need to be stunning... nobody wakes up in the morning and says; "hhmm, today i think i'm going to find myself a semi-cute girl to date..."

general rule of thumb that i tell all my female friends... if u EVER plan on seeing the guy again or being in a potential relationship, do NOT, i repeat, do NOT put out on the first date... end of discussion...

Answer 2

well..attraction has many forms but sexually i am attracted by the eyes of a woman(that is how i picked my wife) and of course the boobs, the bottom and so on.. She (my wife) did not sleep with me the first time we went out(this makes men thinking she is not an easy woman to get) but even if she did I would have kept my relationship with her..

Also a woman that doesn't talk too much is very interesting(i mean that she doesn't talk foolish). And a woman that makes me feel important for the small things in life as well as the big ones.

My wife..she is like that and I love her so much and she loves me . we are together for nine years today.

Answer 3

I like a straightforward woman, one that is not scared to voice her opinion, but who will also listen to reason and do her best by me. I think of women who sleep with a guy as just the same as a woman who would rather wait a while. A woman is a person who has her own mind and can do what she wants, within the usual boundaries. Someone who can laugh, someone who is not afraid to cry if she feels like it, but most of all I like a woman who enjoys a good argument. Don`t really like the timid type.

Answer 4

Aside from physical attraction...I like it when a woman is able to offer her opinion and also ask questions about me.

There is NOTHING more annoying than a woman who runs her mouth incessantly, not even giving me a chance to speak.

Likewise, on the other end of the spectrum but also an interest killer, is a woman who laughs idiotically at everything without a single thing to contribute conversationally.

Answer 5

MY MOTHER ALWAYS SAID THAT GETTING A MAN IS LIKE BUYING A PIG WITH A POKE.. AS FOR YOUR QUESTION , NOT TO BE SMART!!! OR SOUND CHEAP!THE ANS. IS " THEMSELVES " NOT TO BE PESSIMISTIC OR NEGATIVE I HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU ? WHAT CAUSES THE DIVORCE RATE IN THIS NATION TO BE 60 % OR MORE ? SOMEONE , SOMETIME, SOMEHOW MUST LOSE INTEREST. SEX IS THE INITIAL RESPONSE - - - MEN ARE ESSENTIALLY MOTIVATED WITH SEX. STATISTICS PROVE MEN THINK OF SEX EVERY FEW SECONDS AS OPPOSED TO FEMALES WHO THINK OF SEX MUCH LESS OFTEN.,I SUPPOSE THE STIMULATION LESSENS AS THE YEARS PAST AND THEN WHAT HAPPENS- - - THE MALE BEING THE MALE, OFTEN STRAYS.LIKE A TOM-CAT AND THEN ULTIMATELY THE MARRIAGE ENDS IN DIVORCE. OFTEN TIMES TOO THE FEMALE STRAYS BUT I THINK MALES SUB-CONSCIOUSLY SAY THINGS ETC THAT MAKE THE WOMAN LOSE INTEREST AND THE MALE USES THIS FOR AN EXCUSE TO BREAK THINGS UP AND STRAY ETC. I THINK ITS GREAT IF WOMEN MAKE THE FIRST MOVE AND IF THEY SLEEP WITH YOU IMMEDIATELY. I WOULD THINK NO LESS OF A LADY THAT SLEPT WITH ME IMMEDIATELY.OR SOONER. MEN USUALLY , I THINK, LIKE A LADY WHO IS SHAPELY AND HAS A JOB SO SHE CAN CONTRIBUTE TO THE HOUSEHOLD, SOME LIKE CERTAIN RELIGIONS, SOME LIKE A LADY WHO COOKS AND CLEANS AND STAYS HOME ON THE RANGE ( COOKING STOVE ) SOME GUYS LIKE COW GIRLS AND LIVE ON A RANCH OF SOME KIND. AND COMPETE IN THE RODEOS . SOME LIKE TO ATTEND A BRETHERAN MEETING AND READ THE BIBLE BEFORE EATING,SLEEPING WHATEVER. THE AMISH AND MENNONITES ARE GOOD EXAMPLES OF STRICT TYPE FAITHS. I WONT RAMBLE ANY MORE. GOODNIGHT !

Answer 6

No. 1 They love a woman that has pure innocence. Every man will fall in love with a woman like that. Just like the song, "Behind Close Doors"

Answer 7

what i look for in a women is a kind heart loving and caring
easy to get on with , if the women wanted sex on the first night
i would tell to Waite , don't give your love away to easily i would not be put of by this , as it is today living would never go into one night stands , treat your body like a church , don't be talk into having sex , wait until you are ready , i wish you well

Answer 8

the 1st part of the question is like asking what keys want with locks.
is he your kind of key? are you his kind of lock? just like you girls or desire defer.
for the 2nd part it does not matter who makes the move, in my opinion, but generally boy prefer to move first. what you can do is create the right atmosphere for him to propose and hope for the best.
for the 3rd part of the question, i take it you want a long relationship? sex occures in many ways and the results are too varied to predict a future outcome.
you might get what you want or you may not.
it is hard to proceed with answers because the impression is given that you are asking a question that those not involve you personally.

Answer 9

initial attraction with outlook and personality.I like if she makes the first move.continue relation,physical matters and all others depends on her and situation and that can not be described beforehead.If u r a woman ,u get the assences on that vary way,its a matter to feel no description can outline

Answer 10

The first scent of her will always be with me forever. After that how she reacts to me. Does she throw herself at me or does she make me wait to see if I am serious or just another guy that wants to have sex first and see later. These things will always, attract a man. A woman that doesn't act like you are the one the first time you meet are always going to be the ones to pursue the hardest. Trust me on this.