Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

I'm into a relationship with a girl from my college days. Now it has been two years that we've passed out. These days she is not able to give me time and i have kept away from her because of this. We are very much steady but lately i have developed feelings for this another girl who is as beautiful as an angel. The reciprocations are equally good from her also. My family says that the second girl would be good for me on the whole with perspective of settling down. Now but i have this guilt inside me that why shud i be falling for another girl when i'm already into a relationship. This guilt is killing me day by day. I know it sounds bad, and i feel miserable about myself. Thats why i'm asking out for some good advice. Please help. From inside i also know that the second girl would be great for my family and me too. But i have feelings for my present girlfriend also. I am in a dilemna now. Please please help !!!

2007-01-27 09:22:38 · 28 answers · asked by Pulse 1 in Singles & Dating

is it hard when you work uo to 10 hours a day please help me thank you xxxxxxx

2007-01-27 09:21:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy who doesn't understand me when i say these 2 r alike. i am having some trouble dealing with it. can u help me explain it to him so he will understand?

2007-01-27 09:20:37 · 15 answers · asked by waverunner 500 1 in Singles & Dating

r going to watch freedom writers is it ok to be shacky and scared alittle(this is our 1st date and my 1st date EVER!)is it okay that im pickin him up?

2007-01-27 09:20:30 · 13 answers · asked by Emo_Gurl™ 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been togther 8 years and the last 3 years he won't let me touch him or will he touch me....when i ask why all he says is i don't know. I used to joke that ppl would think i beat him if i was to pat his butt walking up stairs. I tried the shower thing and was told don't ...for 3 years all he did was say no ...so i gave up trying. He took care of his needs on the internet with porno...and our son walked in on him once and questioned him by saying thats wrong you have a wife. He to this day can't answer the question why? He looks at other women so i know he's not gay. HELP!!!

2007-01-27 09:19:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found out my wife cheated not once but twice. We got past it for my child, and we are much better now. I am still uneasy around anniversaries because they symbolize how long we've been together, but she has strayed in between. Would it be fair for me to say I dont want to celebrate them anymore?

2007-01-27 09:18:15 · 32 answers · asked by Dear Cabbie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Sorry to bother you with that question. I know it might be personal. However, let me know what you think?

2007-01-27 09:15:57 · 31 answers · asked by Nicole S 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for over 20 years. However I have been very unhappy for the past 5 or 6 years, Although I remained faithful. Then I met one of my new colleagues wife, Dolce. Dolce is beautiful, vibrant, sexy, fun!! We hit it off immediately!! The next thing I know my colleague is constantly putting us together!! And we kept getting closer!! Eventually the inevitable happened - we began to have an affair. At first it was wonderful. She was so new - and wanted me so much. But I could not 'be with' two woman. So I had to leave my wife. It was the only thing I could do. I told Dolce that I understood that she couldn't leave her husband just yet. They have two boys 10 and 14. And she said she needs time. I found out that she had an 8 year affair with one her husbands best friends. That ended just 2 years before I enterd the picture. And she has maintained contact with the love of her life from 20 years ago. And she was going to 'visit' him just last week!

2007-01-27 09:15:47 · 25 answers · asked by mud_creek2001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-27 09:15:36 · 2 answers · asked by Marla M 1 in Family

The feelings that I have for my boyfriend are very strange....possibly cause a NORMAL relationship is new to me but I am not fully convinced yet.

I care for him very much, I enjoy spending each second I can with him, am very attracted to him, trust him 100% ( I think in the past I defined love with jealousy and mis-trust) now that I actually trust someone I feel as though I dont care/love them cause I dont have that emotion. I think thats what I defined love as before.

But at the beginning of our relationship (infatuation stage) I was 100% sure we were going to get married in the future...Now I have this feeling inside me that scares me to death. For some reason I just feel as though it is not going to work out for whatever reasons....(gut intuition...I dont know?)

Do you think this is normal what is happening to me because it is my first normal/drama-free relationship or do you think I am actually falling out of love?

2007-01-27 09:15:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night I went out with work colleagues and met the boyfriend of one of my colleagues. As I walked into the bar he already knew my name as he introduced himself.

Towards the end of the night, he spoke to me, saying:I'm his idol, he admires me a lot and that he hopes that his girlfriend won't dump him to be with me!!!

What could she have possibly told her boyfriend about me for him to say those things to me???

Could she secretly fancy me???


This was the 1st time i met him....

2007-01-27 09:14:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

have all the love for each other....

2007-01-27 09:14:23 · 12 answers · asked by rachie 4 in Weddings

I havent seen my man for a whole year since I live in a different country and I'm finally gonna see him in a couple of days.What would be the most romantic and sexiest thing I wud do for him.............that will make him want to hold me n not let me go?????

2007-01-27 09:13:20 · 9 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 09:12:47 · 8 answers · asked by Aisha A 1 in Friends

must know why the hits? why fathers why? always wit the lemons pls halp ;_;

2007-01-27 09:12:01 · 14 answers · asked by Toga 2 in Family

I have a boyfriend that I love, but he is somewhat imature and I have kids. I am willing to work on that, but I am talking with a man that is my age and I am attracted to he is somewhat famous and I am flattered that he likes me. He also wants to meet up. what do I do?

2007-01-27 09:11:36 · 4 answers · asked by surfawave 1 in Singles & Dating

and guys would you have sex with any girls in exchange for services of any kind what kinds of services. are have you ever did this sort of thing before guys are girls. working on the car, yard work ( landscaping) etc.

2007-01-27 09:10:45 · 28 answers · asked by devil weed 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother and his wife are divorcing. They have 1 child together and live in 2 different states. She has their son and he recently asked her for his social. He currently does not financially support his child. Why would he need his social security number and is it necessary for the divorce?

2007-01-27 09:09:51 · 10 answers · asked by MariClaude 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 36. I finally told my parents that I only spend time with them out of a sense of obligation. I have always felt this way. They make me miserable. I always feel depressed after any conversations with them or any time spent with them.

2007-01-27 09:09:17 · 12 answers · asked by ahhihello 2 in Family

These guys got so jealous of me walking up, sitting on my brother's lap, and burrowing my head into his chest. Why?? We are just brother and sister. We are also very close to eachother. Why were they jealous??

2007-01-27 09:08:43 · 22 answers · asked by Kiah 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 09:08:19 · 19 answers · asked by the bertis 2 in Singles & Dating

been with him for three years dumped me three weeks ago. i've been persuading him to come back together. we've always had these quarrels and breaks ups but i would just say sorry even though it's not all my fault and we'd get back together. reason why i think he is sticking to his gun this time is that family has been backing him up eg mom told him she would bet him money we'll get back together again.
he seems really angry at me and won't listen to me. he also said sex was the only thing we had which i disagree with. but since he already admitted that sex was good with me should i use it? is it too fatal attraction or would it work?

2007-01-27 09:08:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I havent had contact with my dad for about 14 years when suddenly out of the blue he calls. Now he has organised to fly dow,n to where I live to get married so that I can attend and be involved. Im 24, so Im willing to let all the past go and be happy for him, but what would you get some one who is basically a stranger as a wedding gift? He doesnt drink and cant take anything large home as will be returning on a plane. Please Help!!

2007-01-27 09:07:45 · 3 answers · asked by Ange 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok my dad passed almost 4yrs ago. He had this wife, I did'nt care that it wase'nt my mom, it was the person herself. Never got along with any of our family, just a total *****. Well they were together for 10yrs then she finally convinced him to marry her. Following there marriage she started collecting a number of insurance policies on my dad( we did'nt know). And on approlal of the third, my dad was found dead, the day after my brother had seen him.She had him cremated 4 citys away, in record time, by a friend.Not even 24hours from time of death. (Again, we knew nothing).Then when we asked for his remaines she stated that she had already went and spread them on thr bar room floor, where they had met. WHAT! we know she killed him. So, this lady who killed my dad called me this morning, (have'nt spoke to her since that)and asked me if she could see my daughter. I'm wanting to go to confront her , I'm afraid I'll blow and something stupied, but I'm needing to say something THAT'S MY DAD.

2007-01-27 09:07:06 · 7 answers · asked by D lux 2 in Family

I would like your opinion on this subject and why.

I have read that parents are now putting homing devices in cell phones, headphones, and cars. I understand that the plus side of this could be to protect your child from harm. But, if the child was to find out about the homing devices, what would happen to the relationship between the parents and the child? I would like your opinion on this matter in full detail. Thanks.

2007-01-27 09:06:22 · 1 answers · asked by Imagine, Its Contagious! 3 in Family

I'm with him everyday. I've never felt this way about a guy before (as cliche as it sounds). How would I prevent it from being awkward afterwards? And there is another guy on my scene who I like but not as much as him (but I know the other guy likes me... a lot).

Life wouldn't be fun if it was easy, I guess!!

2007-01-27 09:05:54 · 7 answers · asked by Girly girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 09:05:43 · 16 answers · asked by Jennifer D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He's engaged to a beautiful girl in his country....they're getting married in a couple months. But he's been seeing my friend and having sex with her....and they were having sex way before he got engaged and still do.
Does he like my friend or his fiancee? and isn't that cheating? Today I texted my friend "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you"....I told her that Karma is a btch! One day she sure will get engaged too...and I wouldn't want that to happen to her.

So, you think he likes my friend?.....because that's what she believes!!

2007-01-27 09:05:03 · 6 answers · asked by Bibi 5 in Singles & Dating

I think he's cute too.. should we just get it on? We don't live in the same room, just under the same apartment.

How do we actually "go out" and date when we have already gone out to eat and go to shows really often?

2007-01-27 09:04:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

before i thought she liked me because she looks at me and smiles. we only talk for one period in class. i think i'm really shy and i couldn't confessed to her at all, so i decided to confess to her online. she was always angry at me, before all of this happened for some reason even though i didnt do anything wrong. i confessed to her 2 weeks ago, and we never said a word to each other. what should i do???

2007-01-27 09:04:15 · 4 answers · asked by johnnobody 1 in Singles & Dating