We have been togther 8 years and the last 3 years he won't let me touch him or will he touch me....when i ask why all he says is i don't know. I used to joke that ppl would think i beat him if i was to pat his butt walking up stairs. I tried the shower thing and was told don't ...for 3 years all he did was say no ...so i gave up trying. He took care of his needs on the internet with porno...and our son walked in on him once and questioned him by saying thats wrong you have a wife. He to this day can't answer the question why? He looks at other women so i know he's not gay. HELP!!!
2007-01-27 09:19:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he is gay or he just isn't sexually attracted to you anymore. I can't believe you put up with this for 3 years. Here is another idea, he is seeing someone else. Either way you need a divorce, unless you want to continue in a sexless marriage.
2007-01-27 13:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lorayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been together 8 years yet your son is already mature enough to not only recognize masturbation and internet porn but to ask why not f*ck mommie instead of your hand?
Wow. 7 going on 37.
ANY-way, you are clearly leaving something out. Someone has gained 100 pounds here, or is seeing someone else, or traumatized someone or been traumatized or this wouldn't be happening.
Try again only this time include all the important info.
2007-01-27 10:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't know you but im going to take a stab at this. Don't get offended but maybe he doesn't love you anymore or isn't attracted to you. Sounds like you guys have communication issues and bad. But no this is not normal. Or he has some issues with himself .
2007-01-27 09:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by sirjames 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, if Dr.s havent reported something you're completely able to having intercourse. they allow you to comprehend if it wasnt secure for you. As for no longer being interior the temper I thoroughly comprehend. I went via an truly long term no longer wanting it, stable factor became my boyfriend became so busy we actually didnt have time to attain we werent having intercourse lol. Now that I hit the third trimester, even nevertheless i've got faith extensive, i for my section like it returned. He constantly gets mad as quickly as I say i'm too enormous for it and tells me i'm ideal, it facilitates. i'm presently 31 weeks 4 days and intercourse is returned in our ordinary!!! supply it a pair weeks and doubtless the urge will come to you. some like it all of the time for the period of being pregnant and a few dont like it in any respect. in user-friendly terms a style of stunning being pregnant indications lol. stable luck
2016-11-27 23:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him and move on cause this is not going to work anymore . Leave and take everything . good luck .
2007-01-27 10:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell gay men look at women.Something is wrong,either he is gay or he is getting it somewhere else.
2007-01-27 13:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes secretly seeing someone else on the side? i say divorce him then he can play with himself all he wants
2007-01-27 10:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by ღCCღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's absolutely not normal. Could he be gay?
2007-01-27 10:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by kaitlyn.roberts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he's impotent and terrified of performing.
2007-01-27 11:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by Lucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not believe you .I Know it hearts but he does not love you.move on.good luck
2007-01-27 09:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by LILI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋