Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

Would you move out of your apartment you shared with your separated roommate if he was paranoid his wife was going to come over? Would you pack up your stuff and your cats and move into a hotel until you found a room mate? Or would you stick around and wait until she found out?

He just wants to avoid a confrontation, doesn't know if he wants to work on his marriage and doesn't want to screw up his chances. Why should I do what he wants?

2007-01-27 08:47:38 · 20 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

it seems sometimes that they arnt..are they all extinct?

2007-01-27 08:46:55 · 41 answers · asked by tigress 1 in Singles & Dating

i need a new boyfriend i dont want to be lonely.im single and dating any-body have advice????????????????????????????

2007-01-27 08:46:37 · 10 answers · asked by Pinkie 1 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my bf and we are roomates with our own bedrooms,when its time i want to start dating how do you think the guy im going out with would feel?

2007-01-27 08:46:24 · 14 answers · asked by miss fetch 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 08:45:55 · 5 answers · asked by davidtoo1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Any physical trait..Breasts, Butt, Eyes, Lips, ANY..Have fun!

2007-01-27 08:45:30 · 1 answers · asked by PinkDiva72 1 in Singles & Dating

Well when ever I'm the phone with my friend she's always talking about one of our really good friends behind her back, but when ever our friends are around she acts like nothing ever happened so I was wondering do you think she's talking behind my back too?

2007-01-27 08:45:22 · 12 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2 in Friends

My friend Jessica told me that today, and no ... I didn't hit her lol. I would never hit a girl, but do you think that's true that it's ok for a girl to hit a guy? Who the hell made that rule? Shouldn't it be NO hitting from a girl or guy lol?

2007-01-27 08:45:06 · 38 answers · asked by Joseph 2 in Singles & Dating

i've never wanted to make money sound so hard to figure out until now.At first i had my own money and could take care of myself and then after gettiing married i talked it over and wanted to be a stay at home mom. we talked about having at least four kids or so.and he would say "my money is your money and and your money is your money" i didn't make any money so that was kinda of the funny.but as things add up and we try to cover everything, his kind of giving me a cold shoulder in a way. like the one time i called before he got off work to ask him to pick up something small on his way home and he got a lil pissed. he didn't have to say say but i could feel it. maybe i should start working again to help him with the stress or is there more to this then it looks?

2007-01-27 08:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by alexis c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would you like some company?

2007-01-27 08:44:14 · 13 answers · asked by tigress 1 in Singles & Dating

How long does divorce take it going on 4 months.We have 2 kids,
We both want custody.I live in the city my wife live in the county with her parents.Right now my wife pays me child support. She
hasn't pay me seens it started 3 months ago.She has a law
her lawrey tells my wife to pay something on the child support.(she refuse).Then my wife file for custody and child support against me in the city circuit court without her lawery.The kids stay
with me 5 nights a week(schools nights).She has them on the weekend.My lawrey talks to her lawery,My lawery telling me,Her lawery is saying my wife feels she don't have to pay child support or day care. She claiming that she's the primary care taker.
I'm talking to Co-worker,They're telling me the judge will ask her she lost her mind.* You're behind on your child support.*you have the kids 2 night out the week.You're asking for child support and custody.The Co-worker are saying the judge might though her in jail for not paying child support

2007-01-27 08:44:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, this woman is driving me crazy. She is evil. let me give some background on the devi'l spawn. She is a blood sucker of society. She has worked a total of six months her entire life, she lives off of wealfare and foodstamps. Her house is a garbage dump, like Joes apartment. She is a sad soul. The woman doesn't think of anyone but herself. She hasn't liked me from day one. Reason being, that I don't jump whenever she needs something, that I feel that she is not an old cripple (shes 55 ) and can do EVERYTHING for herself. I don't pity her in any way! She asks her son for money, knowing its OUR money and we don't have enough ourselves, but the welfare check didnt come yet and she needs apack of marlboros. someone kill this woman She has a brand new grandaughter who is now 3 months and she has seen a total of 3 times! And her reason? she doesnt feel good (equals I am to lazy to get up take a shower and get over there) he knows his mom is wrong, yet he still pasifies her, HELP!

2007-01-27 08:43:45 · 4 answers · asked by Tina B 1 in Family

I have been with this man 5 years and engaged 1yr.3mo. He has a very expensive lifestyle than I. He lives in a very large home, He has a daughter in SD State college which he pays for everthing apt. food, utilities, and gives her a very handsome allowence, He has made it clear to me that his home is his and his daughters home. I told him I dont want to live in his house that I want are own home and our own memories. The thing is he has been looking at homes that are way out of what I can afford But he expects me to pay a50/50 split. I recently sent him a long email explainig how I feel regarding marring him and what I can afford. I explained to him that I dont make what he makes but I could contribute what I can. He makes more than 10 times than I do. I just cant afford to keep up with him. He hasnt responded to my email but has sent me two emails telling me he is working on a responce. What should I do after 5 yrs. being together and him knowing everthing about me.

2007-01-27 08:43:33 · 13 answers · asked by PATTI O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl's a real sweetheart. a dimepiece, long brunette hair, iced out(lot's of bling bling). Ive seen her twice and she thinks I'm funny. I asked her if she was single the first time I saw her, and she tells me she's got a B/F(don't they all tell me that anyway?), but she's only been seeing the guy for a couple months and I don't think she's that happy with the guy. I've been single for the last 8 months and I've just been partying alot, but I really just want another g/f. she's 20 and I'm 25 so it's much perfect for me. So, what do you think, should I pursue her or just drop it?

2007-01-27 08:42:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 08:42:05 · 21 answers · asked by keith 1 in Friends

The guy i am going out with on the phone he di not know i was there so he said he did not know if he liked me!

2007-01-27 08:42:01 · 14 answers · asked by mackenzie m 1 in Singles & Dating

Bf gave me a black eye?

we were big time fighting.. the cops were knocking on the door..i dont rly remember what happened but my bf smacked me in the face 3 times

i knw i hit him sometimes and i was acting crazy because im scared of the cops but im 5'3 97 lbs and i was just wondering if its ever okay for a guy to do that?

heres a picture of my eye
http://img259.imageshack.us/img259/7041/...

2007-01-27 08:41:12 · 41 answers · asked by shannon b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

for the very first time my aunt took me aside and told me that she needed to ask me alot of questions about my marriage,do you think she had the rights to do so.we feel very hurt that she has done this and our married life is as solid as a rock with no problems.

2007-01-27 08:40:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i think its a huge turn off, i despise fatties.

2007-01-27 08:40:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is sweet, loving, and is actually generous, but he is so laid back and a procrastinator that he hasn't given me a birthday or Christmas present for 2 years. With Valentine's Day coming up, I don't want to "force" him to buy me something, yet I would be happy with a card. What should I do if he doesn't get me anything again?

2007-01-27 08:39:51 · 11 answers · asked by Mars 2 in Singles & Dating

Right.


Theres this guy.
He's my dentists son.
My dad told him I fancied him.
I spoke 2 him once on msn.
He is my friend on bebo.
I dont think he knows who I am.
I saw him today.
But was too scared to talk 2 him.
His dad knows me.
I dont know if he has a girlfriend
But I quite like him.
Im not sure what to do.
Im scared i make a fool of myself as I will still see him
occasionally.
And my parents would find out.
And I would see his dad everytime I go to the dentist.
He goes to a different school.
What do i do?
Please help as im so confused.

2007-01-27 08:39:33 · 3 answers · asked by Laura4864 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you like girls that are taller or shorter then you?

2007-01-27 08:39:22 · 11 answers · asked by shortie 3 in Singles & Dating

Like a certain scent: vanilla, cinnamon, strawberry, etc.

2007-01-27 08:38:40 · 16 answers · asked by Christy J 1 in Singles & Dating

we were big time fighting.. the cops were knocking on the door..i dont rly remember what happened but my bf smacked me in the face 3 times

i knw i hit him sometimes and i was acting crazy because im scared of the cops but im 5'3 97 lbs and i was just wondering if its ever okay for a guy to do that?

heres a picture of my eye
http://img259.imageshack.us/img259/7041/dscf7459as7.jpg

2007-01-27 08:37:38 · 81 answers · asked by shannon b 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't really mind too much, I'm 10 months older than him which isn't a huge difference, but I'm afraid we'll be made fun of. Should I just ignore other people and date anyway?

2007-01-27 08:36:54 · 21 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Singles & Dating

as you get older or do we just know what we enjoy

2007-01-27 08:36:48 · 40 answers · asked by miss smidgey 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am going on travel for work next week. A guy I work with and I have been flirting for a while and have acknowledge a mutual attraction. We haven't acted on it because I told him I wasn't ready for a relationship or even FWB.

Now I am ready. I asked him to come out with a group of us to dinner and he said he was busy during the day but his evenings should be free. Since then I haven't said anything else because I don't have the details.

I want to call on Monday to tell him I want to see him while I am down there and ask him if he wants to get together. If he says he'll call me back after he checks his schedule, would I be too direct if I said "if you have to check your schedule, then you must not want to see me that badly."

Sometimes, he has a habit of not wanting to appear to be too interested, making me wonder and I don't want to play games. I hate waiting! How should I approach it?

2007-01-27 08:35:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am really lonley we went on a field trip a few days ago i was watching the sunset with my friends for the first time but i wish she were there with me holding my hand and that hannah montana song (if we were a movie) kept running through my head while i was thinking about her i wont give up becuase something gives me a will to keep going but i dont know what please tell me what i should do to at least get a chance with her :)

2007-01-27 08:35:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of two and a half years and I broke up about 3 weeks ago. We have been through a lot in our relationship. I do believe that he loves me, and I'm not quite sure of all the reasons why we broke up. Anyway, we have a mutual friend who told him that I had a date. Our friend told me that he sounded like it really bothered him. He asked me about it and I told him it was true, and he sounded a little angry. So I asked if he was angry and he said no no not at all that he was just curious. Then he said "that's fine honey. I'm not mad at all. In truth I'm hanging out with Niki this weekend." Niki is a long time friend of his and I know that she isn't interested in him and I pretty positive he isn't interested in her. What does this all mean??? Advice, please!

2007-01-27 08:35:30 · 6 answers · asked by ambrosius15 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 08:35:17 · 2 answers · asked by keith 1 in Friends