i've never wanted to make money sound so hard to figure out until now.At first i had my own money and could take care of myself and then after gettiing married i talked it over and wanted to be a stay at home mom. we talked about having at least four kids or so.and he would say "my money is your money and and your money is your money" i didn't make any money so that was kinda of the funny.but as things add up and we try to cover everything, his kind of giving me a cold shoulder in a way. like the one time i called before he got off work to ask him to pick up something small on his way home and he got a lil pissed. he didn't have to say say but i could feel it. maybe i should start working again to help him with the stress or is there more to this then it looks?
2007-01-27 08:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by alexis c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In todays world, love and money are directly related, because these are the 2 things that cause the most arguments. What you have to to do is agree on the money, separate or joint accounts, bills, etc., and come to a compromise so that money isn't an issue.
Money problems will make people fall out of love, that's just the truth.
2007-01-27 09:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you asked him if he wants you to go back to work.........daycare is very expensive and working well he is at work is very hard to do because you never see each other..........Why don't you talk to him and see if it is the stress of work or if it is the money issue. and money can't make you happy just because they are rich does not mean that they are happy it just means the bills are paid on time.......So talk to your husband and find out What the problem is.
2007-01-27 18:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by colston5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to work, then he will see how hard it is to balance kids,work, and home. Its not that it is impossible, but he has to be willing to contribute more then just money.
2007-01-27 19:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Skinz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to live without money...
I can live without love if needed but money is required for food, rent, utilities, car, etc.
2007-01-27 22:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-27 17:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by troUbL£$oM£ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋