Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

My boyfriend of two and a half years and I broke up about 3 weeks ago. We have been through a lot in our relationship. I do believe that he loves me, and I'm not quite sure of all the reasons why we broke up. Anyway, we have a mutual friend who told him that I had a date. Our friend told me that he sounded like it really bothered him. He asked me about it and I told him it was true, and he sounded a little angry. So I asked if he was angry and he said no no not at all that he was just curious. Then he said "that's fine honey. I'm not mad at all. In truth I'm hanging out with Niki this weekend." Niki is a long time friend of his and I know that she isn't interested in him and I pretty positive he isn't interested in her. What does this all mean??? Advice, please!

2007-01-27 08:35:03 · 4 answers · asked by ambrosius15 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My coolest friend ever is moving to Israel for 2 years and he just told me like a few days ago but now it really hurts to think about not seeing him for that long. It takes alot for me to cry... but ... lately I've been having a hard time not to cry about. What should i do?

2007-01-27 08:34:27 · 5 answers · asked by Phyched4Christ 1 in Friends

wut chall goiin do for da weekend...prty and stuff huh......

2007-01-27 08:33:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-27 08:33:11 · 19 answers · asked by ?????????????? 1 in Singles & Dating

I have just such a offer possible,but in order to make it happen I may have to pretend to love someone more than I do.However, this is my lifes dream being put on the table.

2007-01-27 08:32:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if u fell in love with a girl...and so it happens that this girl is ur bestfrnd or atleast she thinks of u in that way...and u know that she can only c u as a brother would u like her to change the way she talks 2 u so ull get over her?...if not how would u like her to act with u?

2007-01-27 08:32:23 · 6 answers · asked by unis_1990 2 in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me after 8 months saying that he couldn't do the forever thing and that he was only 20. We are still friends right now...close friends. We see each other everyday, talk on the phone at least three times a day, eat together, sleep together, and he's there for me in a way no one else has ever been. But I feel like I'm holding up his life because he refuses to date anyone else until I find someone else and he's always available when I need him. The only thing is...I can't see him with anyone else and I love him, but what do I do now?

2007-01-27 08:31:48 · 8 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

By the way Mike is my boyfriend

2007-01-27 08:31:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've recently broken up with my girlfriend in a 3 year relationship! I still love her very much! I miss her so much it feels like i'm dying. I still want to go out with her but she says that she needs time to sort herself out. Our relationship went well the first 2 years then i started having work related problems. I felt that i was not doing as good as her brother and nephew (money). It made me feel useless and not good enough for my girlfriend. Things started going backwards from there as i started avoiding my girlfriend more and more. I felt like she thought i was useless and i couldn't handle the idea. My work situations got worse and i jumped from work places alot recently. I didn't realize what i was doing to her. Now after she has broken up with me i know how she felt. She kissed a few guys and slept with one after we broke up. She says that she wanted to get me back for hurting her. I dont think she did those things! She wants me back too but she needs time to work things out??

2007-01-27 08:30:27 · 2 answers · asked by Necron 1 in Singles & Dating

i have decided that if my boyfriend of three years doesnt move in with me by the start of april i am going to dump him on the first day of his local cricket team starts this season.

it will be a saturday and he will be spending most of the day there and they usually spend most of the night there after the match getting drunk whether they win or lose just coz its the first match.

so basically i know he will be ok if i dump him that day as he will be with his mates anyway.
and its a saturday so i can go out with my mates round town.

so what is the best way to tell him if it happens coz chances are it will.

2007-01-27 08:30:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a healthy 47 year old Florida woman. I am 5'9" and weigh 150lbs. I have blonde hair and blue eyes. No kids. I eat healthy and take care of myself. I am financially secure and self employed. Everyone tells me I look 10 years younger than I am. I probably act younger since I never had children and I am a child at heart! Kids love me! When I was younger I was stunning and turned heads everywhere I went. That doesn't happen any more. Am I just old? How old is old? Why do I feel so ugly now?

2007-01-27 08:29:50 · 20 answers · asked by TropyWife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with her 6 years and we used to hang out every second we got. Now i see her once or twice a weekend and maybe once during the week. I can't really see her during the week b/c of work and school. But today she said she would rather see her friends.

2007-01-27 08:29:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wondering If I should give him one for his b-day, got a sexy one planned out.

2007-01-27 08:29:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am curious at the answers for this question. Take not though, I said traits, meaning characteristics. Not physical features.

2007-01-27 08:28:38 · 21 answers · asked by PinkDiva72 1 in Singles & Dating

I think this guy that I like likes me but I'm not sure. How can I tell?

2007-01-27 08:28:06 · 10 answers · asked by Amy Y 1 in Singles & Dating

hey i'm 22 & my sister is 35 she always try to keep me horny with every way she can find, she always in front of me (changing her clothes )&SOME TIMES BE TOPLESS. EVEN SHE'S MARRIED & have 2 wonderfull sons & a husband but her husband always travel.
she always show me her new panties when she wear them.& break point whish lead me to ask you what i should do to keep heras my sister is: 1) i was taking a bath then she entered & wanted to give me a bath like when i was young boy i lucky cause i was at the end of my shower so i escaped from her trap.
2) last week i was sleeping in her geust room while her husband was away on business she came to sleep with me in bed wearing a very very extremly hot lingerie then she gave me her back put my hand arround her waist & she kept pressing her bottom against my manhood.
so help what i should do i love her as my sister & i don't want to lose her please help.

2007-01-27 08:27:23 · 10 answers · asked by geen 1 in Family

My back-stabbing so-called friend stole the guy like. How can I get pay back? She's "smart" so I'll need something good.

2007-01-27 08:27:00 · 8 answers · asked by mean girl 1 in Friends

A guy at work has treated my friend very badly,he wined and dined her,told her he loved her,then one day went distant and told her to wait for him because he had 'family problems' ,then after a couple of months dumped her over the phone. She found out that he moved another co-worker into his house. My friend told everyone at work on friday about the way he treated her and now she wants to make him suffer. She told me she is going to tell everyone at work that she's pregnant,i think it's a good idea,what do you think?

2007-01-27 08:26:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

had a really bad day... my leg hurts because of a sparing, my sister (which is really close to me) is far away and my best friend is angry with me... what ever but... i'm feeling kinda lonely... what would u do, if u were me?

2007-01-27 08:25:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

alright if you are dating a guy and he tells you not to go see him one weekend because he says he's "tired" and his friends tell me that they saw him in his dorm with another girl, and ya'll break up because he says he doesn't want to "hurt" you anymore and all that, should you take them back even though you know what they did was wrong and you know they lied to you when you confronted them about it. and you love this guy enough to do anything for him. should you take them back when he's the one who broke up with you?

2007-01-27 08:25:21 · 10 answers · asked by whathurtsthemost06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-27 08:24:47 · 14 answers · asked by Michael 2 in Singles & Dating

What can i do would i look it? touch it or wat? should i put my finger in there and try to take it out, or try to push is as far as i can with my dick??

2007-01-27 08:24:37 · 12 answers · asked by hookypuss 1 in Singles & Dating

cause their is this really annoying kid in my class but i can't help but to like him. you know? its wierd?

2007-01-27 08:24:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Prorbaly there are thousend of ways to do that...but share your own experience. I have also several other questions...to say that girls often tell me I am good looking but I am shy to do anything with them...and when a girl told you that you are good looking does this alway mean that she likes you? I mean if a boy tell this to some girl its 99% chance that he want to do "something" with her, like sex or merriage :))).
And offcourse whats the most important tihng for the girls...is it money,look,sense of humour? I guess its not since I have this things at some level but am still clueless with girls.

Thanks alot!!!

2007-01-27 08:22:44 · 2 answers · asked by Bobi G 1 in Singles & Dating

I know babies copy everything they see around them,if you do something they in return will copy that.But this was something i didnt want my oldest daughter (2years) to copy. I laugh about it now but thought it was really crazy then. I was cooking when her father came up and kissed me, nothing big and that was it. she's seen us kiss before and one day while we sat watching tv, she was off to the side and out of the corner or my eye i saw her kissing one of her bears. i laughed and asked him to look too, she wasn't paying us any mind and as we watched she jumped on her bear and said "yeah" my eyes poped open and we went quite. from then on we've been only kissed when she's not looking and its something i've put off asking about but its something she'll forget or was i over reacting. like i said, i laugh about it now but wow was that odd.

2007-01-27 08:22:43 · 5 answers · asked by alexis c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this guy i met at my workplace, we exchanged emails. The first email I get from him is for a date, but I was a little bit scared about it so I didn't answer him. Then we chatted and he kept insisting on the date. I freaked out and told him that I only wanted to be friends, but we still chat and flirt (I think) online. But after those 2-3 days of flirting... I think I want that date... Do I still have a chance? Did I ruin my chances? How can I let him know that I want that date?

2007-01-27 08:22:28 · 25 answers · asked by cutie 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance got in some trouble as a minor and is finishing up his "time". It's a long story but i'm not going into that. He is in state custody now at a youth development center maybe for 6-15months we don't know yet.

I wish he wasn't in there so we could something so special for V-day. What could i send him that he would love?

I was thinking a really nice card a picture, the lyrics to that song "my valentine" by Martina and some chocolates, since the food there isn't great!!

does that sound ok? or should i just stick w/a card and a letter? he's already got 4 pictures....

(granted i know you are thinking why are you wasting your life with this guy. I don't love him for his record or felonies i love him for what is in his heart, which people tend to look past and judge him for what he has done. that's wrong nobody is better than anybody. Money or no money nice house nice car or no nice house or nice car EVERYONE deserves somebody and somebody that will love them at that).

2007-01-27 08:21:59 · 12 answers · asked by Fresca Jesca 2 in Singles & Dating

Where do they hang out? And by nice I mean kind, mature, sensitive, considerate, compassionate, etc. That is if they truly do exist. Age range = 20 -25.

2007-01-27 08:21:09 · 7 answers · asked by demondesolator 1 in Singles & Dating

Upon entering this relationship, my bf and I were skiddish because of the bad breakups prior...it took a while, but it seems that the less i push the more my bf wants to go more things together and with my family. The problem is that I tend to analyze everything and i don't want to come up with the wrong conclusion. He is a person of few words and his actions are favorable. I need the advice of males and females...

2007-01-27 08:19:50 · 1 answers · asked by mary n 2 in Singles & Dating

Yeah, like when im walking, or talking on the phone with him he's always quiet and doesnt really talk. When we talk, we talk about stupid stuff, like he asks me "Whats on you're mind" or things like that. What could I do so it's not like that? And my friend says he loves me. Well thats what he told her. I have no idea what to do.

2007-01-27 08:19:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating