Should I stay or should I go?

Question

The feelings that I have for my boyfriend are very strange....possibly cause a NORMAL relationship is new to me but I am not fully convinced yet.

I care for him very much, I enjoy spending each second I can with him, am very attracted to him, trust him 100% ( I think in the past I defined love with jealousy and mis-trust) now that I actually trust someone I feel as though I dont care/love them cause I dont have that emotion. I think thats what I defined love as before.

But at the beginning of our relationship (infatuation stage) I was 100% sure we were going to get married in the future...Now I have this feeling inside me that scares me to death. For some reason I just feel as though it is not going to work out for whatever reasons....(gut intuition...I dont know?)

Do you think this is normal what is happening to me because it is my first normal/drama-free relationship or do you think I am actually falling out of love?

Answer 1

Sweetheart, there are no easy answers to this. The bottom line is that your decision is entirely up to you. And in life and love there are no guarantees. If you stay it could be either great or horrible. The same could be said for if you go. Love is a funny thing, it changes over time. The relationships that work the best are those where both partners are committed to live and love (act lovingly) despite the circumstances of life. If you can make this commitment and you think your bf can too, you have a great chance. Again, there are no guarantees, but ask yourself, is he worth the risk...

Answer 2

you are the only person to know if you love him or not but because it is normal you don't know what to expect there is no drama no worry or whats going to happen next. Do you want to be in this relationship if so make it work for you do special things together surprise him get him to surprise you. I hope you find your answer

Answer 3

go