Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

my ex came crawling back after he left me, we were apart 2 mnths, and he said all the right things and made a big effort for the 1st week, now we decided to take things slow and start from beguining, i dont get any lovin txt messages anymore and last 4 days wen ive txt him he hasnt replied or if he does it like 6 hours later and doesnt even talk about the last message i sent. i think ive worked out what hes doing, i believe hes now changed his mind again and cos doesnt want to hurt me, is not makin a effort so i will end it with him, that way has no guilt on his shoulders.
he used to do it with his girlfriends before me, do you agree this sounds like what hes doin and whats the best way to get revenge?

2007-01-25 23:10:11 · 30 answers · asked by sweetness 3 in Singles & Dating

my buddy mark got this tattood on his back as his ex girlfriend used to call him this and he thought it was cute. what does it mean?

2007-01-25 23:09:32 · 4 answers · asked by No Name 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year what can i do to celebrate with him? any suggestions?

2007-01-25 23:08:26 · 22 answers · asked by tinkerbell_575 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother started with her hand, and then we graduated to the belt, the switch, the ironing cord, and lastly the extension cord.
I grew up to be a normal adult, but I look back on it and see it as abuse now.

2007-01-25 23:08:20 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

2007-01-25 23:08:20 · 5 answers · asked by damo d 1 in Friends

I met a guy on Friday and we've been texting & calling all week, arranging to meet up again etc. but....
I sent him a text message yesterday and he hasn't responded - do you think he's blowing me out?
I obvs don't want to text him again as that would be shameful!
Hmmm - I'm stumped!

2007-01-25 23:05:50 · 20 answers · asked by Éan 3 in Singles & Dating

He confessed this to me, before then I had suspected him of it, cos he often chatted with girls on the net, tld them he wasn’t married, they call him often but I didn’t react wrongly to it, I tld him I didn’t like it but he didn’t stop. He used to call me sweetheart but stopped and now uses my real name, I asked him about it and he said he jst prefered that, meanwhile he call those net girls sweet names.
I have been very loving n sacrificial taking care of my two step kids. I often asked him if I was doing anythn wrong so I cld change, he said I was perfect n he wld let me know if I was going wrong
I hve forgivn him but I cant get over the hurt, the pain is eatn me up, I had been cryn and thinkn ever since and he says my reactions make him rgret telling me.. I dont wnt to hurt him so I hurt within n dont show it, I pretend am a happy person n am dyin inside, now hw do I forgt n how do I let the pain go, he says he confessed cos he loves me but i think he did cos he ws bein blackmailed

2007-01-25 23:05:40 · 14 answers · asked by girlgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he is sick with cancer, often in and out of hospital, we are both 25 yrs old, i love him very much but i am start to feeling my life is too stressed to go on, i just want to have a normal life, is this too selfish? we been out for 18 months

2007-01-25 23:04:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Ex is being a really mean witch. We haven't spoken in almost two months now. She broke it off this time and I'm saying THIS time because she has a habit of breaking up with me and getting back with me. She breaks up over stupid, petty things. Anyhow, this time, she's going around telling people that I'm stalking her. First off, I live 5 hours away from her, I haven't been where she lives since I last saw her and I haven't called her. I've emailed here and there but she will not respond to the email. They aren't nasty emails or emails of love just very general hey how are you emails. She's done this so many times before that I know that usually we get back together but I don't think so this time, at least I don't feel like going through this anymore. So, why is she calling me a stalker? She refers to me as her 35 year old stalker. My ex is in her 60's. Someone said because of her age, it's making people think she's all that. I'm tired of it. Can I get her for harrassment

2007-01-25 23:04:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I heard that if a guy offers a girl or a woman a drink, it means he's interested in her. I'd like to ask guys out there if this is your way to show an interest in a girl/woman. And ladies please tell me, do you think it means a guy is taking an interest in you if you're offered a drink by a guy. Thanks for sharing what you know with me. I really appreciate it.

2007-01-25 23:04:21 · 5 answers · asked by danielle s 2 in Singles & Dating

Has he got a problem or what can I do?

2007-01-25 23:03:04 · 10 answers · asked by Kiss_Kris_xo 2 in Singles & Dating

Instead of letting people talk crap about their kids to their face, especially by another family member?

2007-01-25 23:00:11 · 14 answers · asked by afrprince77 2 in Family

Hi, i donot have more frds . I ma a amicable and straighforward person. I donot like to back bite or decieve. i like to share every possible thing with my frds .My frds are valued more to me then anything.more abt me , jst message me at some1rahul in yahoo messenger. I m waiting for u there.

2007-01-25 22:59:35 · 9 answers · asked by rahul 2 in Friends

when ever i go to my g/f place
she always wears a deep neck or a backless top n a mini ,
moreover she put her legs in such a way dat i can even see her panties.

what and how to do............???plz help

2007-01-25 22:59:24 · 10 answers · asked by trust 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 22:58:19 · 7 answers · asked by ashish g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 22:57:21 · 10 answers · asked by estarinuta 1 in Singles & Dating

Long story, I will try to make it brief..
This guy I met through a friend, lives out of town,
Whenever he came here he would flirt like crazy around me, even if he was with his girlfriend.

He moved up to where I live, and broke up with his girlfriend moved in with me. It lasted 3 pathetic weeks before he moved back, to where he was from.

He said he was moving back down south not for the exgirlfriend but because he wanted his old job back.

He would still come up and visit me once a month and we would still slept together.

now he keeps talking about his (ex)girlfriend to me, although I haven't asked I assume they are back together....

I am confused when this happened... I have a feeling he was sleeping with us both at the same time..

I feel guilty, I don't even think she knows that he was living with me. Should I attempt to contact her and tell her the truth??

2007-01-25 22:57:04 · 21 answers · asked by suedoe 2 in Singles & Dating

i am going to trinidad for my son's birthday on sunday,but i live with my boyfriend right now.he told me when i am leaving to trinidad i must put the rest of my stuff in storage,he said dont leave anything of mines at his house.but my uncle is moving into his new apartment on feb 1st,so i asked my boyfriend why i should do that and he says in that way my uncle could jus put my stuff in my room when he gets his apartment.so i got upset he said i have no reason to get mad,nothing is wrong with that.am 20yrs and he's 24yrs,do u think am acting immature,what would u have done in this situation and also what would u think?

2007-01-25 22:55:29 · 1 answers · asked by hott g 1 in Singles & Dating

My boy is in the Canadian Air Force...he went away on course for 41/2 days he had two 12 hour on call shifts and the rest of the time was confirmed to be xbox 360 and drinking time. He called me twice on one night once sobre the other time drunk and has not phoned since last night they had a big party with free booze. I don't want to be a naggy girlfriend or not understanding of him but I think he should have tried phoning more than one day which was just to check up on me to see what I was doing. He left his cell phone home on purpose it was no accident. He is coming home today and I feel really hurt - should I ignore these feelings and be more understanding. We have been together for about 3 months and he says he loves me but I think actions speak louder than words. Please help!! :(

2007-01-25 22:54:36 · 4 answers · asked by valleygal 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and i broke up one year and 6 months ago..as of now, we're "friends"..honestly i still love the guy and sometimes i ask him for a hug. I also send him expensive gifts during christmas, his birthday, valentines day etc. and whenever we see each other. I even saved for a round trip plane fare to be where he was so that i could celebrate my birthday with him... Is it obvious that i still love him? and DOES IT LOOK LIKE I'M COURTING HIM?

2007-01-25 22:50:50 · 9 answers · asked by frisky_pink_bunny22 3 in Singles & Dating

I was with a guy for four years. To me it was the best relationship. We had loads in common and we enjoyed the same humour. Unfortunately we're not of the same culture and a year a go his family wanted him to marry a girl of the same culture. The way he ended things between us wasn't the best and left me unable to stay friends with him at all and left me wondering if he really did care for me. It's been over a year now, i know he's with someone else now but i still miss him so much....will i ever get over him

2007-01-25 22:49:28 · 23 answers · asked by Caz 1 in Singles & Dating

I have bin feelin dis way 4 awhle nw, if i leave da rm nd wlk bk in a few mins l8r dey r pure jumpy, i avn asked dem cause im afraid i could be wrong, i also found a chain he ad bin missing in my mams drawer wen i was lukin 4 a bracelet 2 wear!!! wat do u tink??!11

2007-01-25 22:49:25 · 4 answers · asked by xoxDeexox 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother has been dating this guy for about 4 years. Since day one he's been a complete loser and being that I and my brother live with her, it gets old. He told her he "loved" her since day one and persuaded her into letting him move in with us. Now, he doesn't "live" with us but he literally stays over every night until we tell her we're getting tired of it or she gets mad at him, then she tells him he needs to go home because we don't want him here. He puts her down, always saying he doesn't like her hair or he doesn't think she should be eating that, etc. etc. He's hit on me. He's said inappropriate things in front of me and my family. He is very immature. He puffs up and pouts when things don't go his way. He picks fights with me and likes to stir things up. He acts like he owns her house, her car, HER. And most of all, he's changed her. She lies to us, always giving us what she thinks we "want" to hear, instead of being honest. She lost a job due to him coming to her office and staying daily (This shows how controlling he is, there's so many examples I can give). She has become almost the opposite of what she used to be. No longer dedicated to her family and herself. Just dedicated to him. She says all the time she is tired of him, but she won't leave him because she's scared of him. He has literally stalked her since day one. Always calling her every 10 minutes or so, following her, showing up where she is, etc.
I could go on about how much he's ruined her and our lives but I'll stop now.
I know it's not place to say who she can date or not, but when it's broken her down so much and when it directly effects the entire family and house, I can't help but be pissed that this has happened, and I feel such negative things for her ever since this happened, even though we've always been best friends. What can I do, say, etc.? Anything?

2007-01-25 22:49:17 · 5 answers · asked by Bee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know its a personal preference but would you prefer sky diving or going on a hot air baloon ride?

2007-01-25 22:49:12 · 9 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

As a kid growing up i was spanked mainly by dad right up till i was 17-this was usually over his knee bare bottom-did any one else get this---i am 40--so it was some time ago

2007-01-25 22:48:26 · 30 answers · asked by colin t 1 in Family

we should go together.

2007-01-25 22:47:20 · 12 answers · asked by canaan k 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy flirts with you and takes yo on a date, but then after a few weeks, says to meet him at a club, you wait and wait but he never shows and then when you decide to leave he walks in with another girl, comes to you and asks whats wrong, you ignore him and then he asks you to leave he's new girl alone. The next day he phones you to appologise, says he is sorry, he knows he was a pig and so on. what should you do, forgive him or not???

2007-01-25 22:47:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 22:46:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one word in all blanks.

2007-01-25 22:44:16 · 8 answers · asked by javed a 1 in Singles & Dating

birth date: 18-march-1982
birth place:ratalam(m.p)
birth time:11:50 am

2007-01-25 22:41:10 · 16 answers · asked by Bhaanupratap singh k 1 in Marriage & Divorce