my ex came crawling back after he left me, we were apart 2 mnths, and he said all the right things and made a big effort for the 1st week, now we decided to take things slow and start from beguining, i dont get any lovin txt messages anymore and last 4 days wen ive txt him he hasnt replied or if he does it like 6 hours later and doesnt even talk about the last message i sent. i think ive worked out what hes doing, i believe hes now changed his mind again and cos doesnt want to hurt me, is not makin a effort so i will end it with him, that way has no guilt on his shoulders.
he used to do it with his girlfriends before me, do you agree this sounds like what hes doin and whats the best way to get revenge?
2007-01-25 23:10:11 · 30 answers · asked by sweetness 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just so you know i meeting him tonight to 'talk to him' and im 22 yrs old we lived together and have a house together
2007-01-25 23:29:48 · update #1
burn his car
2007-01-25 23:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by OMG 3 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Let me explain this to you. This guy is an @$$. And the thing is..he KNOWS you're so into him. Forgive me but that shows you're 'hooked'. Men AND women always want a little mystery..and unfortunately men and women find security in NOT being showed over-security. Its kinda stifling. When he broke up with you, he decided this. When he took you back, it was coz u weren't giving him the security of loving him anymore. When u took him back and started acting all lovey-dovey again he got that security. Which is why its not thrilling him anymore. You already know u don't have an honest and pure loving rship here. You're just "bait" to him. So... here's your revenge:
1. Either stop msging him... EVEN when he msgs. When he asks u what's wrong.. why u've been ignoring him just behave non-chalant and say u're busy with some stuff.. then say "i have to go.. see u later" Just behave busy. It'll drive him nuts thinking why u're not showering him the same attention u used to. then when he starts "falling in love" with u... u kick him out.
OR
2. Dump him SAYING u've met someone else. and make sure u mention this : "Lets be friends". That's the worst possible insult a partner can give you after a breakup. that really shows you've cut him outta your life and loving someone new.
OR
3. Just listen to the advices here and don't take revenge. he's seriously not worth the time. he sounds like a $hithead and is probably one too for treating u like dirt. You'll find a guy who truly respects you, but learn from this rship. guard your heart and be cautious of who you're letting in in the next one.
2007-01-25 23:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Liz^24 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you are in his slave, girl. Don't be a slave for his love, move on to greener pastures. Lot's of lonely men are waiting for you. You deserve better than what he's dishing out to you. Get up and move on. I was in a relationship where I would call my girlfriend all day and all night and she would answer the phone just a few times. I denied the fact she wanted me to break up with her. Everyone I told of the situation laughed at me and this made me feel horrible. I still didn't leave, but wandered around in my lustful bliss of desire until one day I received a text from her saying it's over. It never hurt me much because I already assumed it was. Say nothing to him and move on with your life (i know it's hard but you have to do this). He'll get the picture one day.
2007-01-25 23:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by cardo11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just have it out with him, it may be a totally simple answer. ive been going out with my girl for 3 years. I hate texting, im always forgetting as im busy but she understands and we work around it.
Just talk to him before you make any assumptions. and you can rest assured if he is being an idiot then you have done the right thing and he will feel like a jerk. That is far better than revenge.
2007-01-25 23:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
allow me make sparkling this to you. This guy is an @$$. And the ingredient is..he's generic with you're so into him. Forgive me yet that shows you're 'hooked'. females and adult males people always go with fairly secret..and regrettably females and adult males people locate secure practices in no longer being shown over-secure practices. Its kinda stifling. even as he broke up with you, he determined this. even as he took you lower back, it grew to grow to be into coz u weren't giving him the secure practices of loving him anymore. even as u took him lower back and began performing all lovey-dovey lower back he were on concern that secure practices. for this reason its no longer thrilling him anymore. you already comprehend u don't have an straightforward and organic and organic loving rship right here. you're only "bait" to him. So... that is your revenge: a million. both end msging him... even even as he msgs. even as he asks u what's incorrect.. why u've been ignoring him only behave non-chalant and say u're busy with some stuff.. then say "I ought to bypass.. see u later" only behave busy. it is going to stress him nuts wondering why u're no longer showering him the similar pastime u used to. then even as he starts "falling in love" with u... u kick him out. OR 2. promote off him retaining u've met some different person. and be particular u communicate about this : "we may be acquaintances". that is the worst attainable insult a needed diverse may grant you after a breakup. that fairly shows you've cut back him outta your life and loving someone new. OR 3. only take heed to the advices right here and do not take revenge. he's heavily no longer precise extremely well worth the time. he appears like a $hithead and is likely one too for treating u like airborne dirt and airborne dirt and mud. you'll come upon a guy who fairly respects you, yet study from this rship. preserve your coronary heart and be careful of who you're letting in interior the subsequent one.
2016-10-16 03:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is for sad and bitter, twisted people... dont lower yourself. If i was you just carry on as normal.... if he does not reply for hours then just do the same and you will either find out he is not interested or just busy when you text him. Im not very good at replying to text messages according to my mates as im not a slave to my phone
2007-01-25 23:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by 2 good 2 miss 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, the best form of revenge is success, he sounds cowardly, not the stuff romantic lovers are made of, feel sympathy for the next on his hit list and have faith in karma, what goes around comes around.
2007-01-25 23:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by mia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go out of my way to get revenge, but what I would do is text him and ask him to be a man and to tell you straight if he thinks he's made a mistake in getting back with you. If he don't reply to your text, then he obviously is a coward and would you really want to be with someone like that. You deserve better. When you find that special someone you will wonder why you ever put up with this coward in the first place.
2007-01-25 23:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
He is playing with your head girl. YOU be the one to break it off the relationship then move on moving on is the best form of revenge. It will piss this guy off seeing you happy because he doesn't want you happy.
2007-01-26 19:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand why that girl 'Leela' is having problems...she's illiterate! Just move on and enjoy your life. The worst thing you can do is plan something that could likely backfire and get you in more shet than you planned for. Just tell him you've had it and go have a life.
2007-01-25 23:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
revenge is pitiful. the best way to get back at him is to simply do like you couldn't be bothered one way or the other.
fill your life with friends, family, liming, etc. do not sit at home pining for him. now i do not mean to run out there and look for a replacement, he will only see it for what it is. show him that you do not need him or another man to complete you. you need someone to COMPLIMENT you.
2007-01-25 23:18:31 · answer #11 · answered by stacy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋