I met a guy on Friday and we've been texting & calling all week, arranging to meet up again etc. but....
I sent him a text message yesterday and he hasn't responded - do you think he's blowing me out?
I obvs don't want to text him again as that would be shameful!
Hmmm - I'm stumped!
2007-01-25 23:05:50 · 20 answers · asked by Éan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol, i think you have alot of good advice already. me and my gf can only IM each other at the moment, and there are times she wants to chat with me and i cant, and there are times when its the other way round :( but we know how much we love each other, and we know there will be another time when we will be together again. if he is truly interested in you, he will get back to you. dont text him again, you may give him the idea that you are clinging. and thats not atractive to any man. good luck angel!
2007-01-25 23:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by wolf man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible he is blowing you out so to speak. However, you say that you have been texting and calling all week and arranging to meet up. Did anything happen? Did you have a disagreement or anything? If not maybe he has just simply been a bit busy. It is also credible that he might not have got your text message. Mobile phones (just like Royal Mail) aren't foolproof you know!
My advice is to contact him again. But don't say anything like "I don't know if you got my last message...", forget about your last message, and above all just be super cool.
2007-01-26 07:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right don't text him again, it will make you seem clingy.
He may just be busy!
Have you actually arranged to meet? If so wait till then, then just send a simple breezy text to ask if your still on to meet. If you still have no reply then he was definitely blowing you off.
Good luck!
2007-01-26 07:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, if you've been texting and calling all week, he may have had a hard/busy day of work/school. (I don't know how old you are.) Sometimes I don't realize that my boyfriend has called until a few hours after-wards because of a hectic college schedule. Just wait for him to call/text you back, and things should carry on just as smoothly as before.
Goodluck!
2007-01-26 07:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up just yet. When i text my boyfriend it could take him anything from 5 minutes to 2 days to text back and i know he fancies me (we're together 2 years so he'd better). If hes been texting all week, chances are hes as smitten as you are.
2007-01-26 07:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by kit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dana, guys are guys. Don't be too clingy with him, he needs some space. If you've done it everyday, maybe he needed a rest. I wouldn't text him or email him or call him, let him make the first move. If not, he's going to think that you're too clingy and maybe even not bother with you. Trust me on this, let him come to you.
2007-01-26 07:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really into you he will give you a shout. dont get too hung up on guys, it will make you insecure.
Just do what you do and let him do the work for a while. Guys and girls love the push and pull game, its what makes the whole meeting people you like, fun.
2007-01-26 07:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps another freak has given him some play already! Guy are opportunist and whenever one knocks they'll come a running... I'm sure he'll contact you eventually, hone but don't sit around waiting for it.
2007-01-26 07:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you say in the lst txt by the way. i no ya dnt want to txt bck but why dont you sent a blank txt to him. or y not ring him and ask him if ya still meeting he could of run outa cred lads do it all the time
2007-01-26 07:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't text him again becuase as u mentioned that will be shamefull...instead wait until he responds and if he doesn't respond no matter how long u wait--forget about him!
2007-01-26 07:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋